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Someone once said that no matter what you live, don’t blame others, all suffering and happiness are caused by yourself. Any choice has its corresponding bargaining chips. Being willing to accept the loss is also a quality that an adult should have.
When talking about marriage, you choose the wrong marriage partner, and you either decide to divorce and start over. Or just go through it without any noise or quarrel. If you refuse to divorce or settle down, your marriage will only become unrecognizable.
The reason why Du Bing fell in love with her husband was because the other person was handsome, diligent, and would not have so many slick styles. But who knows that my husband showed his true face just three years after he got married.
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Du Bing didn't like her husband at the beginning, but it was because the other person was handsome, diligent and motivated, and was also very kind to her and was concerned about her well-being, which completely touched Du Bing's heart.
Du Bing is an only daughter with good parents. Her husband is just a phoenix man. With his own efforts, he got admitted to university and stayed in a big city with his strength. But his original family has always been very difficult. His parents stopped working early and he also had a younger brother who was dependent on his parents and brother.
When the two got married, they went through a lot of twists and turns before they finally got together. Du Bing's parents gave her a dowry and a dowry of 100,000 yuan. These dowries eventually greatly relieved the couple's financial pressure.
After marriage, the couple had no financial burden, and their husbands also carried her on their backs to subsidize their parents and brothers. Du Bing turned a blind eye to this and did not hold back.
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After Du Bing got pregnant and gave birth to a child, his parents also subsidized the family income from time to time, which also made his husband even more severely pay for his parents. Although Du Bing said it several times, her husband still did his own thing and did not restrain himself at all.
Even after Du Bing's parents' home demolition was divided into millions, her husband took the initiative to ask for 800,000, saying that her parents-in-law had good financial conditions and would count on them to support their elderly care in the future, and she would not lack this little money at all. His parents have no ability to make money, so this 800,000 yuan can help his parents and brother solve big problems.
Du Bing thought he was joking with public opinion, after all, whose son-in-law would talk about his parents-in-law’s property. It can be seen that Du Bing didn't say anything, so my husband became anxious and said that the 800,000 yuan was of great use. I bought a house for my brother 500,000 yuan and 300,000 yuan for my parents to support my old age. It was just right.
My husband also gave me 800,000 yuan to talk about it. Don’t think your parents gave me a lot of 800,000 yuan, but it’s not too much to count with their pension money. After all, you are the only daughter, and your parents can only rely on us for their retirement and death.
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Seeing that my husband was getting too far, and even as if he didn't give money, he wouldn't give her parents a pension, Du Bing couldn't help but get angry: I'm married to you, your parents can't pay any money. My parents’ hometown demolition is divided into money. What qualifications do you have to get the money? And the arrangements are so appropriate?
My husband tried to complain to her, saying that his younger brother is now at the age of marriage, but because the wedding house is not settled, no girl is willing to marry him. His parents were so anxious that their hair turned gray. They kept muttering in his ears all day long that he was forced to do so. Who made him the eldest son and elder brother in the family?
Du Bing sneered, who stipulates that the eldest son and elder brother in the family will take care of everything? What's more, my husband is still eating her soft rice, so why do he have the face to ask for soft rice to eat?
Du Bing gave him two choices before her husband could continue talking. Either shut up quickly or get divorced immediately, and you can live with your parents and brothers. She can tolerate her husband to subsidize her mother-in-law's house with her own salary, but she cannot tolerate her husband to subsidize her mother-in-law's house with her parents' demolition money.
Today’s topic:
How do you view men who want to eat soft rice and hard?
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