Falling in love with someone may require a second, but forgetting someone takes a lifetime. It is very rare and valuable to have a sincere relationship in this world.
Some people may always be unforgettable for their feelings that have gone far, as if that person easily approached your world but could not get out!
I didn’t understand before, why it’s so difficult to forget someone? Is it because of love or unwilling to give up?
Later, I heard many stories of separation from life and death, and then I gradually realized that the reason why I can’t let go of my feelings is because of my obsession?
Maybe there were too many sweet and wonderful times that made people reluctant to let go of a beautiful memory. Maybe it is not easy for two people to get together, so they don’t want to give up this relationship easily.
is like this passage on the Internet:
"Many harms are originally one-time. Perhaps because of your permission, your obsession is like a saw, constantly pulling in your heart. And the person who holds the saw tightly is actually you."
No matter how sweet your relationship was, how many regrets and how many unwilling you have left, looking back, it has become a past event. Only by letting go of the obsession in your heart is the best redemption for yourself.
So how can I really put one?
Many people feel that they no longer contact each other and become strangers from now on.
In fact, you will not contact each other again after you are done, but the beautiful memories of the past always come to your mind.
says that the eyes will not lie, and the heart will not lie. If you don’t delete or contact, it’s just a self-deception, but the tears left in your eyes will never lie to yourself.
If you really can't forget someone, then go and meet him. Maybe the moment you see him, everything will slowly be relieved.
best friend Dongping and his boyfriend are college classmates. After graduation, they started a long-distance relationship. They originally planned to live in the same city, but her boyfriend followed the advice of his family and was preparing to take the civil servant exam in his hometown.
And Dongping is a person with dreams. She doesn’t like a comfortable life. She wants to realize her dreams through her own efforts. So after graduation, I still stayed in the big city to work hard.
The two of them were more than a thousand kilometers away. At the beginning, the two agreed to meet once a month and call each other every day to share their joys, anger, sorrows and happiness.
In the first few months, the two people kept in contact frequently. Later, the contact gradually decreased. The main reason was that Dongping was very busy at work. Sometimes it was already past 10 o'clock when he got home from get off work. He was so tired that he had no energy to call, and just wanted to give himself a little more rest.
After a long time, her boyfriend thought he didn't love him anymore. He might only have work in his heart, and no one was there. It was because of this incident that the two people quarreled more and more.
Once, her boyfriend suddenly called her and said, "Let's break up. My hometown introduced me to a woman. She has good conditions and a very good personality. She is very suitable for life. I decided to marry her."
When he heard this, Dongping was very sad and tears kept falling. She was not in any mood for work that day, so she simply asked her leader for leave the day after tomorrow.
After taking leave, she went to chat with her best friend and drank. She was drunk that day and felt very uncomfortable. She kept chanting the other person's name. When her best friend sent her home in the evening, she was still talking about alcohol, thinking that the other person had no conscience and was sorry for her...
After more than a month of such things, she slowly walked out of sadness. She felt that men were no longer reliable, and that only relying on herself was the greatest sense of security.
From then on, she devoted all her energy and time to work, and she slowly walked from the company's salesperson to the management. Along the way, perhaps only she knew the sadness!
A year has passed, and every time she thinks of that person, she still can't forget it. Suddenly one day the other party came to her city on a business trip, so she asked her to come out to meet and have dinner.
While two people were sitting in a high-end restaurant for dinner, Dongping asked him if he regrets getting married? But the other party said, "I regret it. I should marry you so that the marriage will be happy."
When the other party said this, she was not excited, but was very calm!
On the way back, she was thinking. It turned out that the person she thought she would never forget had been let go of, but when she met, she slowly felt relieved. She did not feel the same as before. It turned out that her love for him had already been put down.
As Zhang Ailing said:
"A person can put down anything as long as he doesn't want it anymore."
If you really can't forget it and can't let it go, then go and meet the other party!
Meeting is the most decent way for adults to say goodbye and the most decent way to let go of a person.
Someone said:
"All the separation of emotions is to prepare for meeting the right person."
bid farewell to a relationship that does not belong to you, to meet better things.
May all the beauty come as scheduled!
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