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We have a saying: "It is natural to pay back the debt." Indeed, people who can lend you money are people who trust you very much, and they can lend you money when you are in trouble, proving that your friendship is very good. Therefore, when you have ample hands, be sure to return his money in time, pay a certain interest or buy a gift to show your gratitude.
Friends should pay attention to etiquette and help each other. However, there are some people in society who do not work hard to make money, but they are always lazy and hate labor and like to ask others to borrow money for a living. They often ask relatives and friends to borrow first. If relatives and friends ignore him, they will borrow it with friends. If they borrow it all, they will even speak to strange friends. Such people enjoy consuming the trust of their friends. Although they succeed occasionally, they will eventually be despised and avoid them.
However, for those who lend money, if the borrower does not return the money for a long time, and he is embarrassed to ask for debts, when their lives become difficult, they will be in pain and feel extremely painful.
The brother-in-law borrowed 200,000 yuan for four years and the man asked his wife to collect the debt. The wife angrily scolded: I still have to be in family affection
Zhang Brother Zhang is nearly 50 years old and has been married to his wife for many years and has always had a good relationship. He and his wife have two sons and have grown up.
Brother Zhang has been working outside before and worked hard to earn money to support his family. In the past two years, because of his poor health, he had to end his life working outside the city and go home to recuperate.
After Brother Zhang returned home, his family had no source of income. In addition, his two children had grown up, and his family's living expenses continued to increase, and his life was often short of money.
At this time, Brother Zhang remembered that his wife had lent her biological brother 200,000 yuan, and after 4 years, he asked his wife to collect the debt. But his wife ignored the difficulties of her family and not only refused to collect debts, but also scolded Brother Zhang.
Brother Zhang felt very helpless, so he turned to the reporter for help.
After the reporter learned about the situation, he asked Brother Zhang to contact his wife with his mobile phone. After his wife answered the phone, the reporter revealed her identity and asked her to communicate well with Brother Zhang about collecting loans.
Brother Zhang took the phone and said to his wife, "Do you think I asked your brother for money, right? I think it's natural to ask for money, but my brother thinks that if I want money, it's the biggest harm to him." The wife said impatiently, "Of course it's a great harm! Isn't he not rich to repay you now? If he had money, he would have paid you back a long time ago."
Brother Zhang continued, "You know, our family is not in good condition now. The money you borrowed has been discounted for more than four years, and the money is discounted every year, and now you have lost much better. You promised that he will pay it back in ten years, and then our money will be at that time Even 20,000 yuan is not worth it." The wife replied, "You are so annoying! Can't I ask him for it? How can I repay it in ten years? At most, I will repay it in two or three years. You are really, how can you do this? "
Brother Zhang said helplessly: "Do you know that it has been more than four years now, and he has no intention of repaying it at all." The wife replied, "You always say this, isn't it because of family affection? Do you still need family affection?"
Brother Zhang saw that he couldn't persuade his wife, so he said, "It's difficult to communicate with you!" Then he handed the phone to the reporter.
Seeing this, the reporter picked up the phone and persuaded Brother Zhang’s wife that he should consider the actual situation to borrow money and communicate well with her husband. Since there are difficulties at home now, and 200,000 is not a small amount, this money may be the future guarantee for the family. If you want money, you have to say it carefully, after all, it is a family.
Brother Zhang's wife said that she had already told her brother about the money yesterday. The reporter asked her how she told her brother, and she replied, "I told her brother that she doesn't want the money now. Let him return it to me when I need it."
Brother Zhang was so anxious that he kept shaking his head next to him.
Hui Ge commented on
There is a saying: "Borrowing money hurts feelings, not borrowing favors." Why does say that? Because everyone has experienced borrowing money or seen others borrowing money, but not many people can repay the money on time. Most people who borrow money are the type of people who borrow money but don’t repay it or delay returning it, which is what we call not trustworthy.
A person with credibility and integrity will either not borrow money or borrow money when he has no choice, and even if he borrows it, he will repay the credit promise on time. Therefore, from the performance of a person borrowing money, you can see his character.
I have to say that money is sometimes really a touchstone for good feelings. No matter how good your best friend or a loyal friend is, sometimes you really can't stand the test of borrowing money. Many people only discovered by borrowing money that the so-called "sisters" and "brothers" around them were just plastic flowers, and their superficial feelings could not withstand the test at all. The wife of Brother Zhang in the article insists on lending the only 200,000 yuan in the family to her brother, and she doesn't go to collect the debt after four years. As her husband, Brother Zhang faces the pressure of family life and asks his brother-in-law to return the money he borrowed. However, the brother-in-law not only did not care about his brother-in-law's difficulties, but also blamed him for raising his feelings. Moreover, Brother Zhang's wife was impatient with him, thinking that he was merciless, and said that her brother's family had no money now and would return it if she had money.
From Brother Zhang's appearance and words, we can see that he is a hardworking, kind and honest person. But it is precisely because of his honesty that he worked hard all his life, but was bullied by his wife and brother-in-law, and he dared not speak out.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with being kind and honest, but you must have principles and even more sharpness. I can tolerate and give in at ordinary times, but when I am bullied, I will definitely fight him to the end; I can usually not cause trouble, but when things come, I am not afraid of trouble.
Don’t let villains plot against you, don’t be bullied by bad people. While we are good people, we must also protect ourselves.
Today’s topic: If you were Brother Zhang, what would you do when you borrow money from relatives and don’t repay it? Everyone is welcome to write your shining opinions in the comment section!
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