My child came from an accident. If it weren’t for this child, it would be a problem whether my marriage still existed or not. Because there is no bond between the couple, if you have a disagreement, you will be separated. And whether you can get married is a question. I remember that I decided to get married was to have a household registration for my future children, etc., and so on. It seems that being single seems to be a problem, so I thought I should get a marriage certificate. My other half, don't be angry when you see this.
So, I thought, if I hadn't had a baby, what would my life look like? For thousands of mothers, what would their lives be like if they didn’t have children? Where are the dads? What kind of life do they live?
If you are DINKism yourself, then you happen to be yourself and live straightforwardly. But I want to get married, the group of people who want babies. If I haven’t given birth yet, I will definitely be anxious while living a free life. I am so anxious that I am so old and don’t have a baby yet, and rebirth may be An elderly mother. If you want a baby but cannot give birth, life should not be easy. You will try various methods and find ways to get pregnant.
Before children
Dinkism should be the one who decides not to have children in this life. Are most of them more good at playing? If couples have similar interests and hobbies, just play together. In addition to making money, the rest of the time is to play: go out to eat, explore shops, go shopping and watch movies, travel, go to parks and playgrounds, and go to music festivals.
Daily life should be like this: after getting home from get off work, you can eat dinner outside, order takeout, or make dinner occasionally, it depends entirely on your mood. After eating, I lie on the sofa and browse my phones. You play games and I watch TV shows. Look at me later, and I will talk to you later. Then take turns to take a shower. If you are hungry, you can order a midnight snack. As for when to go to bed, it depends on when you are tired of brushing your phone.
in one sentence should be: Every day is like vacation. Freedom, live whatever you want.
The hardship after having children
It’s different to have children. You have to accompany the children. My baby is a high-demand baby. No matter whether I’m busy or not, as long as she is not watching TV, she will say, I want my mother to play with me. You also have to do housework and do all kinds of housework.
Try to make nutritious meals for your children every day, the kind that is different every day. Clean the house. Children like to touch and sit anywhere, and don’t like to wear slippers.
Wash a lot of clothes. Children eat dirty clothes, they eat dirty clothes, play dirty clothes, and they need to change clothes when they sweat. They also need to wash sheets and sofa covers frequently. When the child walks barefoot on the ground for a long time, he will jump directly on the bed and jump directly on the bed when he walks barefoot for a long time. go.
To clean up the things at home, the child will move the toys at home and throw them around.
Even eating is not that simple. When the child says I want my mother to feed him, I want my mother to feed him. You originally had a very delicious meal, so you have to stop and either persuade the child to eat it by himself or feed him.
After dinner, you cannot lie on the sofa. You have to take the child downstairs to take her to contact the children and let her play with them. Then he pinched the time point and took her home, washed her hair and bathed her, cut her nails, and wiped her body lotion. It's over, I'll take a bath and tell stories to my children. Before going to bed, you asked you to massage your feet, massage and massage. You were all monotonous and repetitive massage movements. When you were in a deep sleep, she was not asleep. She said, "Mom, I want to drink water." She has to make trouble several times. She slept. When you are gone, you can no longer sleep.
In daily entertainment, I always want to take my children to where to play. Even if I go to the cinema to watch a movie, I will choose the children's subject matter. I choose your own, and the children won't understand it.
I seem to have become a superman.
Sweetness after having children
is the first goal, and children are our goals, our tasks and responsibilities. Humans are target animals. Human success requires goals, and contribution to society requires goals.
Before having children, parents spend as much money as they have, and live as much as they have. Whether to buy a house or a car is not important.But once we have children, these are our work goals. We want to make money to buy houses, cars, and milk powder, buy clothes, buy toys, buy snacks, sign up for training classes, and take you out for fun. We certainly have become harder.
is the second connection. If there is a child before, between husband and wife, you are you and I are me. After having children, the connection between them becomes stronger. Whether to divorce depends on the impact on the children. Big things turn into small things, small things turn into more tolerance and growth. We are a family of three.
Then there is personal growth. After the child has you, his parents become much gentler and more patient. Learn to know yourself and your relationship with your parents, learn how to deal with emotions, and strive to be your good role model.
Finally, the love you little guy gave me. When you were young, I was all you. I grew up slowly. Although you were disobedient when you were rebellious, you still loved me very much. My time Be able to receive your gift, your verbal confession, your kiss, your request for your mother's company. It's all really sweet.
If there is no child
If there is no child, maybe I won’t leak urine when sneezing, maybe I won’t have a belly, maybe I won’t have spots on my face.
If I don’t have children, I might continue to start a business and become a big boss by myself.
If there are no children, I might continue to want to go to Mars.
If I don’t have children, I am still very beautiful, dressing myself up beautifully every day, like a big star.
If I don’t have children, I might just go wherever I want, travel wherever I want, and maybe I’ll be a backpacker.
But there is no if in this world.
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