believes that external people like to climb up. If you don’t do your best and only rely on pleasing others, it will be difficult to climb up to others.
Everyone is busy, and they are more sensitive in childhood, youth, and adulthood. That sensitivity includes the element of trying to please, but if you blindly please, the final sacrifice will be like a river of spring water flowing eastward.
Only those who are good themselves, have a bit of edge, and are tolerant will be liked by others and be able to get along with them for a long time.
People who give without giving are often looked down upon by others, especially between people of the opposite sex. No matter how tall you are in the eyes of other members of the opposite sex, you will not be taken seriously by the other person once you become a licker. This is not the despicable nature of people. Since ancient times, heroes have had trouble with beauties. This is also the principle of mutual restraint. Among the Liangshan heroes, the first two leaders Song Jiang Lu Junyi are both great heroes in the eyes of men, but they are pig hooves and straight cancer men in the eyes of women. They are all suppressed by women. Forced into danger.
Of course, it’s not just women who are unprofessional, there are many men who are also unprofessional, so when it comes to worldly affairs, the feelings between men and women are not equal. A big woman marries a small man, and a big man marries a small woman, but some people are extremely happy; After watching, everyone sighed and asked what love is in the world. It made people agree in life and death.
When a person understands this, he can only do his best, and everything else will depend on fate, such as career and love. Therefore, a mature person should pay less attention to others, care more about himself, and be himself!
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