When a man is in a relationship with a woman, he develops a crush on the woman and wants to attract her attention and win her heart. He only bothers to please the woman, speaks love words to her, and shows great attentiveness to her, such as buying her breakfast and giving her gifts. He carefully prepares small gifts for women to create some romantic atmosphere for women, etc.
Men always focus on pleasing women, but they never think about improving themselves and showing their personal charm. This may be a bit putting the cart before the horse.
In fact, courtship is about showing oneself, attracting the other person’s attention, and winning the other person’s recognition and appreciation. Only when two people are in love can two people be able to have a long-term relationship.
For men, instead of focusing on pleasing women, it is better to correct their attitude and do what they should do. If you want a woman to fall in love with you, you have to do these things. How many have you done?
1. Cherish feathers, keep promises and keep promises.
In life, a man does not cherish his own feathers, often does things that have no bottom line, always benefits himself at the expense of others, and appears selfish. In the process of interacting with others, he regards his own interests as very important and does not hesitate to betray his trust. .
When a woman deals with such a man, she will feel that such a man is "extremely unreliable" and not worthy of close friendship. When a man's character is not recognized by women, how can a woman be willing to have further interactions with such a man?
If a man wants to win the respect of a woman, he must prove to her that he is "reliable" and trustworthy. Men must cherish their feathers, keep their promises, and be able to do what they promise women. When a man has qualities that women respect, women will naturally feel that such a man can be relied on.
2. Be gentle and considerate, and take responsibility.
If a man treats pleasing a woman as a way of courtship instead of a natural behavior after giving sincerity, over time, if the man deliberately does something to please a woman, it will not only make him feel very tired, but also make the woman feel unnatural. A man will feel that he deserves to be rewarded for his efforts. If a woman does not give him an equal or greater return, he will feel "not worth it" and feel resentful.
At the same time, in the eyes of women, men who are attentive to them are just following their own "routine", and they are not willing to have too much contact with such men.
If a man doesn’t want to see such a result, he should reflect on it. He must be willing to give to women, be gentle and considerate to women, without asking for results, and without asking for anything in return. When a man interacts with a woman in a responsible manner, when a man pays for it After being sincere, you should spontaneously treat women with a good attitude and interact with women. Even if you don't get the desired results, you will not complain. Women will often be deeply moved by this, which can often bring the two people closer.
3. Improve yourself and make up for your shortcomings.
When a man is interacting with a woman, he puts all his thoughts on pursuing her and pleasing her, so how can he improve himself to make up for his shortcomings and do what he should do?
When a man doesn't know how to become excellent, how can he be able to "fly like a phoenix for nine days"? How can we "seek Phoenix"?
When a man is good enough and excellent enough, he will naturally be full of personal charm. The things he does will impress women, and the distance between the two people will become closer and closer.
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