I was walking in the community at night and met my neighbor Sister Wang. She was sitting on a bench in the community and was unhappy. I went up to ask and found out that it was because she was angry with her husband. She didn't even eat dinner, so she spoke out to let her air out. .
She married more than 700 kilometers away, got married naked, and almost betrayed her family. At that time, she was so obsessed that she just wanted to get a marriage certificate with her current husband, and she didn't listen to the good words of her relatives?
has been married for 18 years and has a son and a daughter. She said that for the sake of her children, she is very tolerant. She can endure it until she sheds tears and suffers from insomnia. Without strong forbearance, most people really can't bear it.
Her husband, Hakka , is a chauvinist. He especially doesn't like her to go back to her parents' home, and he doesn't like her to take her children back. He never calls or greets her parents' home, let alone gives money to honor her father-in-law and mother-in-law. Because her parents-in-law had opposed their marriage, her husband hated his father-in-law and mother-in-law for blocking them in the first place.
Today is the 60th birthday of Sister Wang’s mother. Sister Wang discussed with her husband and asked him to transfer a 200-yuan red envelope to her mother to show her filial piety, but her husband didn’t say anything, didn’t give the red envelope, and even slammed the door and walked out. Sister Wang felt very sad, so she went downstairs alone and sat on a bench under dim light, crying silently.
18 years ago, she said that man has always been very stingy. Sister Wang’s salary is used for the family’s expenses, including the education of two children, and she can’t make ends meet. Sometimes she really has no money, so she asks her husband for some. Her husband’s salary is 10,000. , but he did not give more than 1,000 to Sister Wang every month, and he gave it unwillingly. He was always worried that Sister Wang was subsidizing his parents' family, and the man did not care about the children. It's completely like [home, hotel].
Sister Wang swallowed her humiliation and dared not tell anyone, because he was the man she had chosen with all her life. She had to endure it even if she made the wrong choice, for fear of being laughed at by others or causing trouble to her family.
Sister Wang said that in the past 18 years, she has not returned home many times and has nothing to honor her parents. When she occasionally goes back to her parents' home, she can only buy things within 100 yuan because she has no money.
She misses home, misses the food cooked by her parents, and misses the way she was in her hometown when she was a child. The older you get, the more you care about your parents.
Her parents felt sorry for her and never cared about whether she bought things or not. They always subsidized her. This made Sister Wang feel very guilty, so she always wanted to compensate her parents, but was unable to do anything. Even if she goes back for the New Year, her husband will always be empty-handed. Even the red envelopes for her nieces and nephews must be secretly packed by Sister Wang. Otherwise, if her husband finds out, she will definitely not be allowed to return to her parents' home.
It’s not that Sister Wang is afraid of her husband, but she said she doesn’t want to quarrel and it will have a bad impact on the children. Now they are not even willing to say another word, so they can only swallow it.
Sister Wang choked up as she spoke. She said that the people she was most sorry for were her parents. She could only live like this in this life. She would kill herself when her children were old and her parents would live a hundred years later. She would be a dog in her next life. I won’t marry a man like this.
I felt very sad after hearing this. I didn’t know how to comfort her. I just felt that she was too weak. Good people can be bullied. Women should know how to fight back and let go appropriately. Don’t hold back, don’t cry, don’t be sad, save your strength and find a way to leave. ~~Then reborn.
If a man needs to be reminded to honor his parents, cannot even take care of his children, and can even neglect his family responsibilities, then such a man would be miserable alive!
I am @Warm Light Summer Time . I hope that my words can be [liked], [followed], and [forwarded].
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