Introduction: After couples have been together for many years, it is inevitable that they will lose their passion and freshness. Some people just can't control themselves and want to seek excitement. This is the case for 51-year-old Aunt Qin. She originally wanted to find excitem

Introduction: After couples have been together for many years, it is inevitable that they will lose their passion and freshness. Some people just can't control themselves and want to seek excitement. This is the case for 51-year-old Aunt Qin. She originally wanted to find excitement through traveling. Unexpectedly, he accidentally cheated. But her husband has always been very kind to her. She felt extremely guilty. She was wondering whether to confess to her husband. But she is also afraid that after she confesses, her husband will not want her. What exactly is going on with

? Let's listen to what Aunt Qin has to say.

html The self-report of 351-year-old Aunt Qin

I was born in a wealthy family. My parents have been doing business abroad all year round and make a lot of money every year. Whatever I want, my parents will give me. My food, clothing, housing and transportation are the best. Because of this, I am more pampered and like others to take care of me. Later, when I was working in a company, I met a rich second-generation man. He fell in love with me at first sight and pursued me fiercely. He drives me to get off work every day in a luxury car and buys me many luxury goods. If I'm not happy, he will try to coax me. He himself also works in a stable unit. My parents thought his conditions were very good, so they asked me to agree quickly. But I really have no feelings for him, only moved. I thought about it for a long time before deciding to marry him. After all, how can love compare to reality?

After marriage, he was also obedient to me. He does all the cooking and housework. Although I feel a little distressed, I am still too lazy to do those chores. He tries every means to please me every day. But I feel he is very unmanly. And he only keeps doing things, but he doesn't say sweet words. I don't think he's interesting at all, he's just too dull.

Decades have passed in the blink of an eye, and the children have grown up. He and I are also retired. He is happy to be with me every day. But I felt that he was too annoying and was interfering with my personal space. And looking at his face, I feel so tired. There is absolutely no joy in being with him. All in all, there is no freshness and excitement.

I see many sisters around me going out to travel and see the scenery. I also felt a little itchy and wanted to go out for some fresh air. My husband suggested that we go together. But I haven’t lived a single life for a long time. It's so boring to be with him all the time. So I rejected him. When he saw that I really didn’t want to, he stopped forcing me. He carefully helped me plan the travel route and gave me a lot of money to have fun.

I happily got on the bus and went traveling. I met many new friends during the trip. Among them was a humorous old man. His name is Lao Wang, he is 5 years older than me, and he is a writer. There are always wonderful stories in his mouth. I sounded very happy. He is much better than my dull husband. It’s just that he stopped writing as he got older. Sometimes I do odd jobs to earn a little money. This time it was because his wife passed away and he came out to relax because he was too sad.

With him as my companion, my trip becomes even more wonderful. He would take me to climb mountains to watch the sunset, and would also give me some handmade gifts. I think it should be okay to have him as a friend of the opposite sex. I'm also very careful about keeping my distance. It was just the night before we parted. He was particularly reluctant to leave me, so he took me to a restaurant for a big meal. The two of us were talking and laughing. But he accidentally spilled red wine on my white dress. He apologized constantly and bought me a new dress.

Then he asked if he wanted to go to the River View Hotel he booked to see the scenery and chat. I saw the expectation in his eyes and agreed. The two of us drank a little more and stood in front of the floor-to-ceiling windows to look at the scenery. Unexpectedly, he kissed me suddenly and pushed me to the bed. The two of us had a natural relationship. When I woke up the next day, I felt extremely regretful. My husband and I have been through so many ups and downs together, and he has been so good to me. How could I betray him?

Lao Wang took the opportunity to propose to me. He said I just need to get divorced and marry him.He will definitely make me happy for the rest of my life! I still feel that it is not reliable to be with him, and he and I are not in the same province yet. So I rejected him directly. The trip ended in a hurry and returned home. My husband found it very strange and asked me why I looked so bad and came back so early. I said it was nothing, but actually I felt very guilty. In the days that followed, my husband took better care of me.

When I think about what happened that day, I feel very guilty. My husband said that if I have any sad things, I can just tell him directly. Let me not hold it in my heart.

I also want to confess, but what if my husband finds out and wants to divorce me?