What is an aristocrat?
The core word of "noble" is "gui", which can mean wealth or preciousness. What I understand is "noble", not wealth, but preciousness. "Aristocrats" are those people who regard themselves as precious people.
To become a noble, you have to be noble. What does it mean to be noble? It means taking yourself seriously, understanding yourself, having a comprehensive understanding of yourself, making your own independent judgments when it comes to people and matters, and not following what others say or following the crowd.
Only by knowing yourself can you value yourself. If you don’t understand yourself, how can you respect yourself?
How can you know yourself?
The French thinker Pascal said that a person is a thinking reed. Because people with can think, they can encompass the universe, and they can lead to infinity. Regardless of race, religion, ethnicity, gender, region and other factors, the difference between people is the difference in thought and cognition.
To know yourself, the first priority is to know your own thoughts.
How to understand your own thoughts?
First of all, we must be good at reflection, especially when we are in pain, we must reflect on ourselves. Everyone comes into this world with a blank mind. However, because we live in a family and in the words and deeds of our parents, we internalize our parents’ thoughts, three views, and ways of doing things into our own thoughts and ideas. practice. However, parents’ thoughts, views and practices are not necessarily consistent with the rules. As we grow up, we will all have conflicts with the people around us and the world, which will make you feel pain. These conflicts and pains are all signals, telling you that your thoughts, views, and ways of doing things are all wrong and need to be corrected. During our reflection, we eliminate wrong ideas and concepts.
Secondly, we must learn the correct thinking. What are the correct ideas about ? It is easy to judge. Human beings have existed in this world for hundreds of thousands of years. From ancient times to the present, people still say that what they are still using is the right thing. The simple way is to read ancient and modern Chinese and foreign classics, such as "The Analects of Confucius", "Laozi", " Bible ", etc.
Second, to know yourself, you must also know your own body. We need to know what kind of body is healthy and how we can keep our body healthy. When we understand the body, when we are sick, we should know why we get such a disease, and we should also know better what kind of person we should give our body to for healing, instead of just giving it to us casually when we are sick. If you hand yourself over to cold machines and people who know nothing, the final result will be a loss of both human and financial resources.
If you want to understand your body, you should learn Chinese medicine. Traditional Chinese medicine is a medical system that is suitable for us Chinese people and was summarized by our ancestors after treating countless diseases based on our Chinese people’s living environment and living habits. By studying Chinese medicine, we will know what our own constitution is, we will understand our body’s preferences, we will also know when to eat and drink taboos, how to prevent diseases and maintain good health. We will not be led away by advertisements, which tell us that our bodies need vitamins, milk, and genetic modification. If we understand the body, the body will tell us the answer, and we can follow the body’s feelings with peace of mind.
Third, know yourself and have your own aesthetics. The current fashion of is defined by merchants. Merchants say that wide-leg pants are popular this year, and wearing wide-leg pants is fashionable; merchants say that one-shoulder is popular this year, and one-shoulder is fashionable; merchants say that navel-baring clothing is popular this year, and navel-baring clothing is fashionable. When we know ourselves, our bodies, our spiritual world and temperament, we will have our own aesthetics. We will know what kind of clothes we wear can cover up our shortcomings and highlight our beauty. When we wear clothes, we will be decent and elegant.
You see, if we know ourselves and have a comprehensive and comprehensive understanding of our own lives, we will find that we are an independent individual, a unique individual, a valuable individual, and an individual worth cherishing. Then we have honored ourselves, and we have become nobles!
Do you want to become a noble? Then start by knowing yourself!
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