Perhaps it can be said that the purest relationship is one where money is clearly stated.
For example, when my son was in college, I told him - Logically speaking, when you become an adult, you should earn your own money to support yourself. I no longer have a legal obligation to support you, but because I love you, Therefore, I am willing to pay for your tuition and living expenses without you having to repay me. I only have one request: I hope you can study with peace of mind and enjoy your college life.
My child is so funny. Every time he asks me for money, he sends me a message saying, "Can the queen sponsor some money?" I said, "The queen would be happy!" Because my child and I have made the money clear, and he and I Just enjoy the pure love between mother and child, without moral kidnapping . The water in Peach Blossom Pond is a thousand feet deep, but it is not as deep as the love between mother and child.
I first read "The Purest Relationship is Money Relationship" (https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/1LS3QZUpcb-ExHj-mdP1mA). I wrote the above words in the title of this article. Out of curiosity, I clicked Open the article and read the specific content. Many situations have been mentioned, but they have not been mentioned that parents and children should also talk about money clearly. As everyone knows, the parent-child relationship is the root relationship of all social relationships. If root relationships are unhealthy, can social relationships be healthy?
Don’t say that my parents are ordinary people and have less money than me. Even if my parents are the richest people in the world, with my current level of knowledge, if my parents kidnap me morally and ask me to do what they must do before they let me inherit. I don’t care about their inheritance at all. Their property is given to whomever they like. I really don’t care about it, because my dignity and emotions are priceless and no one can afford them.
Money, you don’t bring it with you in life, you don’t take it away with you in death. The money you spend on yourself truly belongs to you. The rest belongs to others. You can either leave it to your family as a legacy, or donate it to the country and society for charity. .
I am just an ordinary person, I really don’t have much money. My child is just an ordinary person and doesn’t really have much money. My idea is very simple. I spend my own money on myself and have a slight balance in case of unexpected events. If I die, my limited money will be left to my family as a legacy before I have spent it all. If I die and my parents are still alive, I hope that my parents will negotiate with my children to handle my inheritance and avoid litigation. If they have to file a lawsuit, I hope the country will confiscate my inheritance and use it for charity, even though my inheritance is very small. Legal resources are public resources. If my parents and my children use public resources to litigate because of my little inheritance, my soul in heaven will not allow it. Because the dead do not care about the living, I must express my thoughts after death while I am still alive. 2022-8-24
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