Is it too much for a sophomore girl to ask for 4,500 yuan a month from her parents for living expenses?
This is a topic I saw before. Let’s use this topic to talk about it today.
When this question was asked, I believe the questioner was also hesitant.
I think this mainly depends on your own economic conditions.
If your family has relatively rich assets, then 4,500 yuan is not excessive.
If your family is just an ordinary working-class family, your parents are just small employees in the company.
Then you want 4,500 yuan a month, which is really too much.
is not only excessive, but also inconsiderate to parents.
Before asking for this money, I think you should ask yourself first, do you really need so much to spend in college?
Take an ordinary college as an example. It has its own canteen and snack shop.
The food in the canteen is generally relatively cheap. You can eat a sumptuous three dishes and one soup for a few dollars.
Snack shops also generally offer ordinary prices, which are not more expensive than outside.
I still remember my old school, where you could buy a big meat bun for fifty cents.
It was enough for breakfast, and I didn’t spend a few dollars on lunch.
Then why are the food in the canteen cheaper?
Because they receive subsidies for the canteen, the school has already subsidized this money.
That’s why it’s cheaper than outside, almost at cost price.
You will know after you have gone out to buy a few times. A meal must start at 15.
More importantly, the food in the canteen does not taste bad.
The skills of the chefs are all good, and the dishes they cook are no worse than those outside.
The bigger the school, the cheaper their cafeteria food is.
If you go to a prestigious university, you can save a lot of money on food.
If it’s just for eating, it’s almost enough to spend 500 yuan on it every month.
Maybe you have to go to the supermarket to buy something occasionally.
This generally doesn’t cost much, and many daily necessities are brought from home.
For a month, it will only cost about 1,500 yuan.
Are there any people who have extremely high monthly expenses? have! There is one in every school!
At least there is a girl in our class who is very rich.
The money in her bags is basically tens of thousands, and they are all brand-name bags.
But you can’t compare with others!
If you are just an ordinary working-class person, you can't compare with it at all.
People who have mines at home are only a minority and do not represent the majority.
Most people are similar, not particularly rich.
When I was in school, my monthly expenses were basically around 1,000~1,500.
There may be more students now, but they will not reach a position like 4500.
4500 is equivalent to the monthly salary of an ordinary working class person.
Students may not understand how much effort it takes to make this money.
Occasionally, I have to listen to my boss’s reprimands, which is very hard.
The salary in big cities will be slightly higher, maybe tens of thousands.
But some rents, water and electricity, and food in cities all require money.
In the end, more people may not be able to survive than in small cities.
If you occasionally get sick and go to the hospital, it will cost money.
Think about your parents’ hard-earned money, do you just squander it like this?
4,500 yuan, do you really use it to eat and buy daily necessities?
Probably not all, your 4,500 yuan is just for fun.
I didn’t have enough money in the past and wanted to buy a mobile phone. How did I get it?
I go out to work on weekends and have plenty of time in college.
Sometimes I hand out flyers, and sometimes I wait as a waiter.
I earned it by sacrificing my time for fun.
Whenever winter and summer vacation come, many people will feel happy and can finally take a good rest.
But I still have to work during the summer vacation, and of course the pay is pretty good.
It costs about 2 to 3 thousand yuan a month.
This is also the result of my efforts.
Of course, college should still focus on academic studies, and this is only done when you are short of money.
My monthly expenses are not much, only about 1,500 yuan, and I can save the remaining money.
If you said 4,500 yuan is not earned by yourself, then I think it is really unnecessary.
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