Who should take the initiative in matters between husband and wife?

I just want to laugh after I write the name of this article [cover my face]

Sorry, let’s go back to the topic, and say the truest feeling that everything is quiet before marriage. Time is not old and we are not going away. At that time, the two people were heartless and like two fools.

After we got married, many things brought us to reality, especially at this stage, many young people are the only children in the family. I didn't do much housework before. Washing, mopping the floor, cooking. In fact, everything can go smoothly without a child. Do the laundry. Everyone takes turns to do the mopping as soon as the washing machine turns. Cooking is only occasional adjustment of the taste of life. The normal state is to be able to eat outside without causing trouble to the pots and pans at home.

But the correct way to open the story is after having a child, then life is really messy. Time is so quiet that it’s good for children to fall asleep. It’s better for children to go to kindergarten. Everything in the house is changing. Children’s clothes need to be washed by hand. The most important thing is that you really have to go for three meals a day. Cook. I feel that there are endless housework waiting for you every day.

At this time, we will inevitably start the civil war. I have just watched the kids for an hour or two, and I need my own time!

I have been working for a day, so you can’t let me be free!

Who will cook dinner?

Oh, kids can’t eat so salty!

Hurry up, you haven’t been home for a day. This is your father and son’s entertainment time!

I complain to each other every day, and life is unavoidable. We all need a little bit of our own space and time. In fact, these are just a little bit of life hardship brought about by the change of identity.

The essence of life is Caimi, Oil, Salt, Sauce, Vinegar and Tea. This world of fireworks is to manage your role at each stage in the noisy and noisy, and adapt to every change of role. I want to take the initiative to not do anything except cooking! The reality is that if you don’t talk about it, it takes too long to hold your phone for a while and then you have to do it again.