1. It is said that marriage is the tomb of love, and my marriage is the tomb of thousands of years. Now I have just been married for 4 months, but found that it was a mistake to marry him.
After getting married, he became lazy. does not brush his teeth, bath, wash his feet, or do housework. It is also very difficult to talk to him, as if I don’t have long ears, I can only take care of all the housework.
I caught a cold yesterday. I was very uncomfortable and had a severe fever. I asked him to go downstairs to buy some medicine. He gave an "um", but continued the game . I lay on the bed and fell asleep all at once.
It was about 12 o'clock in the evening, and I was awkwardly asleep. He woke me up and said, is about to eat .
I thought he felt sorry for me, he made the meal and asked me to get up to eat, happiness spontaneously .
When I got up and walked to the dining room, I realized that there was nothing on the table, was chilly throughout the room. Especially disappointed, turned out to be hungry and asked me to get up and cook for him. Suddenly I felt fire all over my body.
I have a headache and I don’t have the strength to fight. I insisted on going to the kitchen, fried two plates of egg fried rice, and went back to my room to sleep. Because it is so uncomfortable.
Because I didn't eat for a whole day, I woke up hungry in the second half of the night, and he slept to death by the side. I got up and went to the restaurant, only saw two bare plates left on the table,He also ate up my share .
I was paralyzed at the time.
This is how people live, always says that marriage is the tomb of love, and my marriage is the tomb of thousands of years! It's too miserable, too desperate.
Is it necessary to maintain this kind of life?
This is a girl's help post on the Internet.
2. That girl deserves a better man
After the post was posted, netizens offered suggestions.
Netizens drizzled:
Does this man stay forever?
Netizen Yuqiao:
A woman is a bit too great. When her husband doesn't buy medicine, she can jump up and smash his computer. As a result, he took the job with an illness and gave him scrambled eggs and fried rice. Such a submissive wife would not bully you who bullied? You don't cherish yourself, who will cherish you?
Netizen ForeverYoung:
It came to mind from this. Now most women and families still have their views on marriage and love. I am a female, and looking for a partner is to protect me and protect me. I have to go after me for several years before I can trust myself to him. Parents too, handed their daughter to the man with tears and noses. You must treat her well for the rest of your life. My baby will be handed over to you. Why? Women are just like commodities. They are born without the ability to care for themselves. They are born to be compassionate. When they are young, they need the compassion of their parents. When they grow up, they need the compassion of a male partner.How can you enjoy true love and a happy marriage? Without the ability and power to love and care for yourself in your life, how can you have the power to love others and love life? Someone once asked me why I need a partner. I only reply to him, sharing my life. As a woman, you must be independent and self-reliant, you must have the ability to love yourself, live your life well, and continue to grow, constantly enrich yourself, so that you have more power to love more people. Only in this way can you meet a partner who is as good as you, share life together, share life, and enjoy equal and beautiful love and marriage.
Netizen Zhuo Zhuo:
This kind of man is not suitable for having a wife, the girl deserves to have a better man.
3. Baby, you are a bit biased
But Mr. Wu believes that this marriage can still be maintained, and this man can still be saved.
The reason why men behave like this, is only because he can’t understand human words .
So, this girl must speak to him .
What does it mean to speak well?
Look at the question first:
Your child is in the first grade of elementary school. One day, holding the test paper in despair, I asked you to sign.
You see, scores 0 on the math test and 5 on the Chinese test .
You hold the test paper, and look left and right. Is there an urge to slap and fly over?
At this time, how should you educate ?
4. What is going on with you people? Can't understand human words?
When everyone is thinking about this question,Let's continue to look at the next story.
Mr. Wu said:
has a netizen. Soon after he joined a company, became a small supervisor .
The good times did not last long. One day, the employees collectively complained to the boss that did not have the ability to manage .
Netizens can only leave their jobs silently, hiding in the rental room and thinking behind closed doors.
After two months of this, he suddenly rushed out of the room and came to the workplace again. was promoted to executive six months later.
In another six months, has become a partner of the boss .
Why did netizens enter the job twice before and after, so there is such a big change?
It turned out that he discovered a problem during his thoughts behind closed doors, that is, many people do not have the ability to analyze the language and cannot understand ordinary people. They can understand only by speaking well.
The reason for his failure in the workplace is that did not speak well .
It turned out that it was the first time he was a supervisor when he worked in the first company.
The employees handed in the product, and he saw that most of the quality was problematic.
So, explained to the employees patiently and taught step by step. The employees also listened very carefully.
But when they handed over the product again the next day, it still didn't work. It might as well be the first time.
is like this several times in succession.
Netizens went crazy: What's the matter with you people? Can't understand human words? No matter how serious you are,I'm welcome...
In this way, the netizen was sued by the employee.
5. You are too good, and your work ability is particularly strong.
Netizens have summed up the techniques for speaking well during their closed-door thinking: should be rationalized, praised, and motivated.
When he entered the workplace for the second time, through his own efforts, he soon became a young supervisor again.
This time, he has experience. When arranging work, the general listed the tasks as 1, 2, 3, etc. This is the organization
. According to the feedback of the work, the excellent employees have achieved 2 in 3 items, and the ordinary employees have achieved 1 in 3 items.
He called the employee over, first praised the one he did well, and said:
You are too good, your work ability is very strong, this is the best I have ever done. This is praise.
When the staff heard this, they were very happy.
Next, he continued:
It would be better if the other two were perfected a little bit. Today the boss told me about you. feels that your actual ability has exceeded your personal expectations.
Now I feel a little bit of crisis, estimates when this supervisor will be yours.
The staff burst into tears with joy.
This is to speak well, the legendary management master.
later,Netizen takes this hand to the boss .
The boss understood at a glance, this young man really understood the essence of management .
Netizens made their way into the workplace like this.
6. People know that my husband loves me the most, and he has the most foresight. Go and come back quickly
Mr. Wu said that the workplace is a love scene, and it is a truth .
speak well 's technology can just be given to this girl.
For example,
A girl can say to her husband:
Husband, someone’s bra has a hole.
Husband:
It's okay, anyway, people can't see it inside.
The girl can be methodical :
Husband, you go downstairs, turn right, there is a brand shop at the cross street, buy someone a middle bra.
Husband:
I am a big man to buy you a bra? I am not afraid of being laughed to death by others.
The girl can go to the second step praise :
People know that my husband loves me most,The most discerning, go and come back quickly.
Husband:
I don’t want to go.
At this time, the praise style continues. :
Hurry up, come back and give you rewards.
and nudged his back with both hands, pushing him out of the door.
After my husband comes back, perform the third step of the motivational formula:
Wow, my husband, you have a foresight, I haven't found this style for a long time.
Husband must be pleased after hearing this:
Let's do things, just post it properly.
Dear friends, old fog speak well 's technology is not bad, right?
If this girl learns the technique of speaking well , I believe her marriage will definitely improve. You say, right!
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