Who wants to live a life after marriage, who doesn't have a dream yet, who doesn't want poetry and distant places.
That night, there was no brilliant sunset in the sky, but a light rain, a wind, and a chill. The autumn in the north was really short. Just after the short sleeves were changed, I put on my coat. It's like a cup of milk tea that was still hot just now, and in a blink of an eye, I felt a coolness after drinking it.
I took a taxi to the place I had agreed to meet with Xia, and I saw Xia Hua run out all the way, and Xia was sitting in a corner of the coffee shop in a daze.
Back then, Xia was a rose in the class. What a dazzling brilliance. After graduation, Xia, regardless of the opposition of her family, married the love in her heart. Even if her husband’s family is poor, she is not afraid She believes that as long as two people truly love each other and work hard together, they will have a happy life.
Yes, both parents are small town workers. Since childhood, the only daughter Xia, who was loved by his parents, was married to a man who was born poor, his parents were sick, and he had a younger brother and a younger sister.
all say birth, education, marriage is the opportunity for a woman to reincarnate three times. Xia told me that she overestimated the longevity of love, and marriage made her lose herself, and she was confused and couldn't see the road ahead.
After graduating, Xia came to her husband's hometown and worked very ordinary. Later I had children. Without the help of her mother-in-law, she has to take care of the bedridden father-in-law in her hometown, as well as the children of her uncle's family.
Xia hadn't worked for a few years, so she had to stop her work and became a housewife.
The burden of the family is all on the husband alone. Trivial work, all kinds of living expenses, and miscellaneous favors. Xia said she didn't know since when her husband became more and more silent, and slowly fell in love with drinking, and the two people also became inexplicably quarreling.
Xia sighed, this kind of life is really tiring, and only two children gave her the motivation to persevere.
I can feel Xia's exhaustion and loss. Although we will all have a lot of emotions that look at money as dung, don't all kinds of expenses and all kinds of human relations need money support?
may be when we were young and just stepped out of the campus to enter the society,Our eyes are full of beautiful visions of this world, and we believe that we can change the world and change our destiny.
But many years later, too many people have only sighed after experiencing the cruelty of being crushed by this society, and they just live.
Xia said that she has been reflecting on it all the time. Was it the wrong choice to marry love? Is it wrong to stop working in order to take care of the children and the family?
No if, life is like this. The past will never come back, and no amount of regret and entanglement will help.
What happens in the future, but also to grasp the present. It is also a big thing to accompany the child to grow up, and to educate the child to be a sound-minded and outstanding child in all aspects. Learn to cook some delicious meals for your family. Even if you calm down and read a few books to improve yourself. Plan wisely, a few months, a few years. Soon the children will grow up and they will go to school. It's good to find a job that you can do at that time. These will not make yourself confused, or even lose yourself.
I told Xia that the laughter and joy of you and the children will make the husband who comes back from get off work get rid of the fatigue of the day and become relaxed and comfortable. The warmth of home is the best medicine in this world.
In this most beautiful and cruel era, time is the most ruthless, and time is also the most passionate. Cherish the moment, be yourself, and leave the rest to time.
self-bias
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