For men with an annual salary of more than 500,000, the requirements for choosing a spouse are "leftover women"

Hi everyone, this is Roanna, and today I want to share a story from a reader friend.

He is a boy from an ordinary family. He is a man . He adheres to the concept of "starting a career" and then "getting a family", mainly because he feels that he can’t find any better conditions when he has no money. girl.

The men who can handle well are usually not too bad. He hopes that his strength will increase, and then find a good girl to complete the class leap.

After more than ten years of hard work, I bought a house and a car in a second-tier city. Now I am 32 years old, with an annual salary of about 500,000 yuan. When the environment is good, there is still 1 million yuan, although the height is only 172, looks relatively ordinary, but it's passable in the marriage and love market.

His thinking is different from other men. 's ten years of hard work also tells him that it is not so easy to cross classes. He knows very well that marriage is used to achieve class strides. It is hard to get admission tickets. Position your future well.

I don’t think about the little white girls, they just don’t have anything, only a young girl with capital. As the years go by, this will drop in price. With his current strength, just buying a gift can also get this kind of little white girl and get married. But it's not suitable.

I often hear girls say that she should not "help the poor". In fact, boys are the same.

"Little white girls" were voluntarily excluded. He believed that the current strength could not bring the little white girls across the hierarchy. Young girls with good family backgrounds exclude him, and they don't like his income. His family background is ordinary, and the consumption habits of that girl can't be held.

So his precise positioning is women who are around 30 years old, which is what everyone calls "leftover women" .

He said that among women around 30, those who have wasted their time, their monthly income has been hovering in the thousands for the past ten years, and the family background is relatively ordinary. They own a little beautiful or not beautiful at all. This is true. Called "the rest is here."

These girls should be very picky about choosing a spouse between the ages of 20 and 30, and they would be "little white girls" ten years later if they didn't define their own value. He believes that the sooner this general girl marries, the better, and there are still many capable men who like to be younger, and the rest will lose any advantage.

What he is looking for is , a high-quality girl among the “leftover women”, . One is to work hard to improve himself in the beautiful years. There is a good coordination between internal and external. Xiang has always insisted on the sport he loves and has the habit of persisting in learning. This kind of women will not say that their income is too low, nor will they have the sense of disobedience of pretending to be tender. Fighting together in can raise the class .

There is another kind of "leftover girl" who has a good family background. He will also consider it when he is married. Although this is a shortcut, it is not exclusive.

Maybe there are female compatriots who have begun to curse, and they think this man is too realistic and too calculating.

But I don’t think so. On the contrary, I think we women should learn this way of thinking about choosing a spouse.

Regardless of gender, from an objective point of view, he thinks he has a clear mind.

First, improve yourself first, and at the most appropriate time,Marriage is only on the agenda.

Secondly, he knows his position, understands how many pounds he is, and knows what his goal is.

Finally, in the process of making a choice, we are constantly narrowing the range of mate selection and hitting the bullseye accurately.

On the other hand, we women often have a lot of love brains and we watch too many romantic dramas. I always think that everyone will have a specific boss to save you and take care of you. This is not the case. Bar.

Your strength and clear positioning are the most important at any time. Choosing a spouse is also one of many choices, and rational measurement and thinking are necessary.

"Leftover women" don't need to be anxious. The world is about strength. I think strong and rational "leftover women" are high-quality resources and will live better.

I am Roanna [Heart], helping women see reality clearly and rebuild their rational brains.

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