Foreword:
Everyone has a past. When the past blows through a person's footsteps like the wind, what is left is nothing but settled dust. What is invisible is a dusty memory. If a man finds that his wife's past is a bit unbearable, is it angry or just waits as usual? Qian Gang got the perfect answer to this question. So what exactly did Qian Gang's wife do before, and how did Qian solve it after finding out? Please come and have a look with me.
Self-reporter: Qian Gang, 38 years old, a migrant worker
My name is Qian Gang, and I come from the mountain col in the small town on the west side of the motherland. I have been selling vegetables for a living with my father and mother since I was a child. Maybe my family was so poor when I was young, that I was very eager for money.
When I was 17 years old, my neighbor and I came to Dongguan to work. When I first arrived in your place, I found that everything here is completely contrary to my previous cognition.
In my hometown before, there are green wheat seedlings and green lotus leaves everywhere. It is a kind of fresh and wild wind, but here is asphalt road and concrete. It gives me the feeling that everything else except money is Dung.
The feeling of a big city makes me fall in love with this place instantly. I love this place from the bottom of my heart. I told myself that I would work hard for a piece of sky that belongs to me in this city through my own efforts.
My neighbor’s uncle and I were laying steel bars on the construction site during the day. It cost 120 yuan a day. I couldn’t straighten up my tired waist every day, but I didn’t get tired because I had money.
My family has two younger brothers and one younger sister. I have worked so hard to make money, so I hope they will not repeat such hardships like me. I hope that through my own efforts, I will provide them with an excellent learning environment and find a decent and easy job with academic success in the future.
In 2003, I used the first pot of gold I saved from food and frugality to set up a garment processing factory.
But a lot of important things happened that year. My processing plant declined before its prosperity. At the same time, it was still in this year that my career improved.
Jordan made his last shot on the NBA that year, ending his last All-Star weekend, and drawing a perfect end to his career; that year’s elegant and great four The roosting superstar Leslie Cheung leaped from the top of the hotel and left countless classics for the world; that year the wicked U.S. imperialism launched the Iraq War and dragged the Iraqi people who had been living in a stable life into the quagmire of the war. .
Also that year, the great and troubled Chinese people were experiencing a severe test-the SARS outbreak.
I remember that many doctors voluntarily joined the fight against atypical pneumonia at that time. With the joint efforts of our people, we finally won this war without gunpowder.
But my processing factory, because the staff can not gather, and the next home negotiated is not daring to accept, the deposit that I was about to pay has also slipped away from my hands. I had to stop, and stopping meant that I would lose everything I lost.
My first business trip, it ended before it even started. I was sitting on the street, thinking about my future in pain.
I am lucky to meet her
If God closes a window for you, he will open a door for you. This sentence is really true. The ancients don’t deceive me, I am old The ancestors like it.
When I was at a loss, I met my wife. It was the first time we met.
I remember she was wearing a white dress, like a fairy on earth. I saw her drunk,I simply supported her on a chair and sat down. That was the first time I held a girl's hand.
She was not angry because of my actions, but looked at me with a very sincere look, and then said to me: "You are so honest, you should be very kind."
This is where I came. This city, the first girl gave me an evaluation.
We have known each other since that day. I told her about my experience that day, and I vaguely saw his tears rolling in my eyes. Then he told me that if you wait for my news, maybe I can help you.
I received a call from her the next day, and she told me that my business had changed.
I happily ran to the place she told me, and then I saw her taking a middle-aged man's arm and getting out of the car together.
At that moment, I admitted that there was some discomfort in my heart, because I had liked her since that night. After a few days of getting along, I felt that she was the girl I was looking for more and more, but...
I quickly cleaned up my expressions and stepped forward. The wealthy man in front of me said to me: "You are Qian Gang, right? Lulu told me that I will use your goods, but the pockets must be opened, otherwise I won’t want them. Yes."
At that moment, I understood that my processing workshop had come back to life.
Of course, all of this is her credit. I don't even know her name, I just heard the boss say that her name is Lulu.
In the next few days, I gathered people non-stop to make the semi-finished clothes and supply them to the next home, so that my first order of business was completed.
After that day, I rarely saw Lulu. I put my focus on work, and my life became bigger and bigger, thus becoming a famous local children's clothing processing factory.
I met Lulu again, five years later, at that time my processing plant had become more and more successful, and she had become slightly different from before.
We sat together drinking coffee, I thanked him, and I said to her: "If you don’t have you, there would be no my today."
She just smiled and said: "It's all a matter of effort.There is nothing to thank you, mainly because you are capable and aggressive. I'm just being a favor.
When I knew that she had broken up, I told her directly what I had accumulated in my heart for many years. I told her that I have liked her for a long time, and have liked her since I met that day.
and she did not She didn't agree to me, but just told her family situation. originally was willing to help me because I and her life experience are very similar, she was also poor at home, had to drop out of school to work, and help her parents raise a few younger siblings together.
After I heard it, I liked her even more intensely. I think this girl must be a very hardworking girl, and my vision is very good.
Under my constant pursuit, she finally agreed to me.
In a blink of an eye, we have been married for 5 years. After marriage, our lives are very happy, very happy. I am no longer the Tiehanhan who came here in the first place, and she is not the one who needs to be paid by herself. A hard-failed girl in a family.
I told her that everything will be okay with me.
I learned about my wife’s previous job by accident, and I didn’t know what to do for a while
Once, my wife and I went to a shopping mall When I was shopping, I suddenly heard someone calling my wife at the back. I didn’t pay attention when I was paying. When I looked back, I saw the man coming over drunk and said to my wife, “What are you pretending? Have you forgotten the act of drinking for me? A accompaniment girl also pretended to be.
I didn’t think too much at the time, so I rushed over and beat the man violently.
After I got out of the police station, it was late at night. The driver came to pick me up and didn’t take the car. I walked for a long time in the park with my wife.
I asked her if what the man said was the truth or gibberish after drinking.
And the wife’s words pierced me like a steel knife In my heart.
She told me: "It's true,But that was before, I thought you knew. sorry!
I remembered all the details before, I understand that I was careless, I should have understood it.
I sat next to her for a long time without speaking, and then I told her: "Sorry wife, I shouldn't Asking you this."
She looked at me in amazement with tears in her eyes.
I didn't say anything, took his hand and walked back to the car.
8 years have passed and we have had a great time. Happiness.
If you have questions in your mind, I think I know what you want to ask, the answer is-take responsibility and responsibility!
written at the end:
strong Your past, what the past is, is nothing more than an experience. Let me ask, is your past always brilliant? I think it is not! The past you and the present are the same body, but no longer The same soul. Since your past is so unbearable, no one will trace its roots, so please don’t ask others about the roots.
When you understand all this, you will understand that one thing is responsibility, and one behavior is called Responsibility. Look at the mountains as the mountains, see the water as the water, and then see that the mountain is not the mountain, and then see that the water is not water. Below, we discuss together.
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