Introduction:
There is no airtight wall under the sky, and the same is true of derailment! Ms. Zhao and her lover have been stealing food for many years. She thought she was a master of love and was not discovered by her husband. In fact, her husband already knew about it.
Mr. Han/42 years old
Actually, as early as five years ago, I knew that my wife had cheated. The women who cheated actually changed, but they didn't realize it. At first, I thought it might be my conjecture, but after my observation and follow-up, I also confirmed the fact that my wife and lover cheated. It is of course a very shameful thing for
to be greened by my wife. As a big man, it hurts my self-esteem too much. I also almost divorced him on impulse. But I calmed down and thought about it, it is really not a good time to get a divorce. First, my wife earns more than me, and most of the family expenses are borne by my wife; second, the family's house still has eight years. If the loan is not repaid, if I just get divorced, I will face the pressure of life, and it is not easy to live alone with the child. Besides, the child is also facing the college entrance examination, which will have a great impact on the child.
So I think about it, still don't get a divorce.
So I didn't make a statement about my wife's derailment, I pretended not to know. My wife is such a naive woman, she really thought I didn't know, so she lived a happy life outside. The
thing must have been very painful for me at first. His wife betrayed him, of course it was a bad feeling. But then I figured it out myself. Seeing it through now, but not saying it, is beneficial to the temporary situation. If I really tear my face, it won't do me any good, and it will also affect my child's college entrance examination, which is very uneconomical.
If we wait a few more years to file for divorce, the financial difficulties of the family will pass, the children will go to college, and our mortgage will be repaid. At this time, I will find another opportunity to break up with my wife. She is also at fault in the marriage. Fang, I will also get more of the property. After all, I have to live after the divorce, why not make more money while my wife can earn money?
A good friend of mine, she laughs at me very much, because a grown man can endure anything, but his wife's cheating is absolutely unbearable. Maybe I'm too indecisive? I always feel that it is not suitable for divorce now, and I also think that my wife may change her mind one day. As she gets older, she should not continue with her lover.
But my friend said that it is impossible for a woman to steal food outside, and this kind of woman cannot return to the family at all. It's just that your woman still has some value to be used. Otherwise, if you want to wait for her to come back, it will be more difficult than going to the sky. A woman can't be changed when she cheats on the outside. As the saying goes, it is difficult to change the nature of the country. When you wait for the day when she changes her mind, it will be the year of the monkey and the month of the horse. A friend said: "If you have expectations for life now, then wait until the right time to break up. If you want to expect this woman to live with you well, it is impossible."
Concluding remarks:
I also think my friend's advice is very reasonable, but I can't figure it out, why does my wife think I'm so stupid? In fact, I had already discovered that she was cheating on the outside. Now I am just waiting for the opportunity to divorce her. At that time, I will catch him off guard and make her regret her cheating for the rest of her life.
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