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The most helpless thing in the world is that the generals are getting old and the beauties are getting old. My mentality hasn't changed yet, I think I'm still young and lively, but my charm is not as good as before. At this awkward time, middle-aged women often have a special psychology. I want to prove myself and want others to take care of me, but deep down I know that it is wrong for me to do so.
Love is about fate, but not every relationship you encounter can be called a good fate. The following three types of men appear not to save you from fire and water , they will only bring you evil fate , become your rotten peach. If you are tempted, you will never be able to recover. Only by guarding your heart can you find a peaceful place.
01、A male colleague who is courteous at nothing
is courteous at nothing, either a traitor or a thief. For middle-aged women, at this stage, the boundaries of heterosexual communication are not as clear as before, and jokes that could not be made before can now be released.
Therefore, when chatting with male colleagues, some ambiguous words will inevitably come out. and the other think that they can take some advantage of you and begin to greet you. This kind of diligence may not even have a big actual contribution, but within the scope of his ability, he has some better actions for you.
helps you find files, take you home, bring you some food, etc. These are all small details. If you investigate them carefully, there is nothing wrong, but this kind of ticklish feeling will make women even more uncomfortable. No, I feel that I am being treated preferentially, so I gradually lose myself and develop bad feelings in this kind of warm water boiled frog. Once successful, the man will soon withdraw from and leave, and only you are still suffering. trapped inside.
02, class reunion met 's predecessor
Someone once said that a good predecessor should be like dead. This statement is a bit too radical, but it also reflects in real life, some people's feelings about their predecessors Attitude, that is, don't appear in your own life again, don't bother with my status quo.
But in middle age, inevitably starts to reminisce about , misses when he was still young. If he met his ex at the class reunion, then at that moment, all the meetings about the past would come to mind. What
can't let go of, may not be the past relationship at all, but the one who was once. Youth will inevitably leave some regrets, which is inevitable. If you have to remove the previous regrets at inappropriate times, it will only affect the current life and cause more crises now. The ex had to be avoided, and the mind fluctuates more seriously in middle age, so you need to be more cautious.
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women of the opposite sex who chat with each other in the middle of the night are very easy to like. A person who always chats with him, especially in the middle of the night, the content of the chat is naturally not just the trivial things in family life. It will definitely involve a change in mentality, the need for feelings now, etc. Maybe when I don’t know it, the content of my chat has already crossed the line.
Everyone needs a vent for their emotions and experiences, and an tree hole to help them keep their secrets. This heterosexual netizen is the tree hole of a middle-aged woman, where you can relax and do whatever you want. You can even become a little girl yourself. This feeling is what a woman wants. You can put down the disguise in front of everyone during the day, and no longer try to be a strong woman, but a little bird. At this point in the
chat, it is very easy to spark sparks in the middle of the night, and it is easy for people to talk about topics that are beyond the boundaries, so women will inevitably have some uncertainty in their minds and become active. But this so-called spiritual communication with the other party across the screen is just a lie, and the other party must have other plans, just waiting to take the bait slowly.
[Conclusion]
We will meet many people in our life, and we will miss many people at the same time. We have come to this point through our own choices. After a woman reaches middle age, her life has been defined, and she has her own family and career. It is obviously a certain stage. Life is not easy, and you should learn to cherish it.
Don't disturb your heart because of the appearance of some other people, and let yourself forget that happiness is not easy now. The appearance of the above three kinds of people is not to make you feel how attractive you are. They also have other plans. Don't be fooled.
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