In our daily life, we always encounter ourselves or the people around us who are very temperamental, and we will lose our temper when we encounter something slightly unsatisfactory.
This not only makes me feel bad, but it often affects others around me. In fact, losing your temper is not good, it can even be said to be annoying.
But sometimes it's because I can't control it, so let Xiaoyou show you the psychological explanation of losing your temper!
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Psychological explanations In response to , we want two people to change from fighting on the concrete to fighting in the quagmire, hoping to integrate with each other. The reason for losing your temper is that the boundaries are not too clear;
You who love and kill each other.
3, it is who wants the other party’s to submit to and fear , just as he once succumbed to and fears , this is also a kind of empathy ;
4, tantrum is regressing from to a baby, making the other party a mother who takes care of Take care of yourself ;
5, losing your temper is intelligence suppresses : clearly tell the other party that your intelligence is not good, so you must lose your temper;
You teach me how to do it!
6, it is a cover for weakness and powerlessness, pretends to be a strong ;
7, it may be that shows temper tantrums, bribes superego , just like some teachers are very strict with students, and they are for the principal to see;
8 , lose your temper for regret , addicted to regret;
9, lose your temper is a low-level substitute for creativity;
I don't know what to say, just spit fire!
10, losing your temper is the narcissistic rage after loses control and ;
11, when I am emotionally abusive to you, it means that I hope you will be emotionally abusive to me;
I haven't quarreled for a long time and have a 5-dollar fight .
12, tantrums are calling for breasts, sucking, and need to be taken care of;
13, tantrums are symbolic coquettish , once tantrums, the position of the person who loses tantrums drops;
14, tantrums are 's disguised pleas;
15, tantrums are aggressive intimacy , when you have a good conversation, you feel humiliated, and whoever loses your temper is regarded as someone higher than yourself;
16, tantrums are people who lack self-awareness , trying to get along with each other Symbiosis complements the sense of self;
17, losing your temper is a love that is not fully realized, cannot love yourself or others ;
Mom and Dad quarreled again.
18, losing my temper is because wants to be seen by myself, to make up for the lack of in my presence, if I don’t lose my temper, the other party may regard me as air;
19, strict requirements for my son may be asking my father to be able to comply with My own requirements exist in ; mothers who idealize their daughters as mothers and fathers who idealize their sons as fathers, both hope that parents can treat themselves in their own way; (This article is very confusing and should be read slowly )
You should work hard like your dad!
20, maybe because of empathy, compulsive repetition, and self-deficiency, you cannot let your son see your own existence, so you lose your temper every once in a while, and come to to ensure that the other party can see you .
So, when we meet someone around us who loses his temper again, let us analyze it calmly and see if he wants to control your thoughts and behaviors or beg you for a coquettish hug.
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