Her name is Tiantian, a girl in 1997, and her child was only eight months old when she divorced.
Like other girls, she fell in love with others and then married. The person before marriage was considerate to her, and she married him with confidence. But just after marriage, he always didn't go home for ten and a half months. Before and after marriage, he was totally different. Such days drag forward day by day, plain and helpless...
Marriage can never be changed by one person's efforts, no matter how much effort you put in, as long as that person does not have the heart to live a good life with you, then live Just like a bicycle that hasn't landed, there is only one wheel spinning in place, but it can't move forward.
Once, Tiantian had a high fever but couldn't find her husband, and no one answered the phone. Then look at the sleeping child next to her. There was no alternative, she had to carry the baby to the hospital by herself in the middle of the night.
After that night, she thought a lot, and she really couldn't live a life like this! What about the child? Is it going to go down for the child?
Tiantian feels that she can't do it. If she is not happy, how can she give her children a good living environment?
It's not that she never gave him a chance, but when she was waiting for him to change, when she needed him, he disappeared again and again, and he didn't change anything because of having a child.
There is a kind of woman who will give the other person time to grow up in her relationship and will give him a chance to change, but if the other person really doesn't care, then once the woman makes up her mind, she will make an unchangeable decision.
thought about it all night, and the next day, Tiantian sued for divorce. She was only 23 years old at this time.
What should I do after divorce?
Want to lie at home crying and wiping tears, Gu Ying feels self-pity, crying that fate is unfair to oneself? Or will he become a sad and pitiful person from then on?
Tiantian did not plunge herself into grief, because there is still a child waiting to be fed by her.
Life is not an idol drama,There is no Prince Charming to save you, some are just the cold reality, and how to continue living next.
Tiantian has no time to be sad, she bought a second-hand electric car, and started to deliver food in the wind and rain. In this small county town, it is a rare thing to have a female takeaway. Everyone sees her with a novel vision, "Can girls still deliver food?"
As the first female takeaway in the county town, Tian Tian didn't have time to pay attention to those strange eyes. She has to work hard to earn money for her life, buy milk powder for her children, and buy diapers.
In addition to the hard wind and sun, she also faces frequent dangers.
Sometimes she was standing on the side of the road, and some cars ran into her, and her ankle was broken and it hurt. But no matter how painful, I can only endure it, and I still have to deliver the meal to the guests.
Mom and Dad see the pain in their eyes, they don’t recommend Tiantian to do this. Dad said: "You are a girl, you go to the mall to work and earn more than 2,000 yuan, wouldn't it be good?"
Tian Tian also understands that her parents love her and don't want her to work so hard.
Tiantian said: "But, what is 2,000 yuan for? I can't open my mouth and ask my parents to ask for money. You said that when you are so big, you haven't done anything to contribute to your family, but you Now I bring a child to drag them down."
A sensible woman is especially distressing. People say that women are weak in nature, and mothers are strong. Facing the setbacks of life, Tian Tian did not flinch. I have been trying my best.
Fortunately, the delivery of food is quite profitable. It starts at three yuan for one order, and is capped at five yuan. She can deliver 40 orders a day, and can earn about 5,000 in a month.
Tiantian said: "I'm having a good time now, I'm much happier than before. When you finish the takeaway in the evening, you can buy something to go home in the evening and buy something your child likes to eat. That's it. This kind of satisfaction is really too satisfying."
Some people will find it ashamed to deliver food! Tiantian said: "I don't feel ashamed. My parents have always told me that you must be independent, including going to other people's houses.Regardless of whether it is remarriage or whatever, you must have your own business. You can't point to others to eat, you have to stand up for yourself! _P2p
Before, she was the only female takeaway in the county town. Gradually, people discovered that girls could also deliver takeaways and earn no less than men, so they started to join in.
Actually , When you want to open it, you will understand that there is no one to rely on in this world, you can only rely on yourself. You are painful, tired, sad, what if someone sympathizes with you?
In the end, you still have to rely on yourself.
Song Dandan said: "Women have nothing to do. In fact, a woman only has three words in her life, that is, relying on yourself. "_P2p
Life will not treat you well because you are a girl, but a self-reliant girl will definitely make her life shine.
Carnegie once wrote to a woman that there are a lot of poisons in this world Women who do not invade have all been scarred. Women who can laugh at the situation have all been battered. Every woman who is constantly striving for self-improvement has nowhere to go. Every woman who is indifferent to love has been to death Yu. After thousands of sails, we finally understand that the most important thing in a woman’s life is to love herself.”
Therefore, no matter what difficulties a woman encounters, she should not abandon herself and complain about the injustice of her destiny to her. Face it optimistically and believe that as long as you are willing to work hard and dare to act, you will surely get out of the predicament and usher in your own wonderful life.
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