On the twenty-ninth of the twelfth lunar month, I went back to my hometown. I wanted to take my parents to the city to celebrate the New Year with us.
I basically don't live in my hometown. One is cold and the other is dirty. It feels inconvenient to do anything.
What about the parents?
I am not used to living with us in the city. Living in a building, how can there be a comfortable yard at home? There is no place to kill even chickens...
Don't force them. The two old people are not very old, so there is no problem taking care of themselves. They still go to work.
At this point, my dad and mom are very good, but I don’t force you to go home for the New Year. Just be happy.
On this point alone, I think they are very selfless.
Living the life you want is not selfish, you ask others to live according to your own wishes.
When I went home, I found that many young people who worked and studied outside had returned.
Many of these young people, I don’t know many of them, so I can only infer who his father is from his looks. Sometimes when I’m not sure, I don’t know if it’s a genetic mutation, or if my little daughter-in-law has secretly attended a class reunion.
They ran over and handed me a cigarette, uncle, come to smoke a cigarette.
I said, I don’t know how to smoke. I feel in a daze. When did I suddenly have such a big nephew? How do you feel older than me?
I understand these young people who are called Jack and Ruth in the city, and called the dog eggs and Cuihua when they come home. How do they feel when they return to their hometown?
It seems like a king over the world.See what we are wearing? Big goose. You are wearing abidas and mike.
Another point is the general arrogance.
When I was in college, I went back to the village on vacation and had a drink with a childhood playmate. He was admitted to college the same year as me.
After drinking, he said, Brother 彡, in the future you will be the richest man in our county, and I will be the second richest.
I said, if we do, we will be the richest man in the market.
At that time, we never even considered the richest man in town. The richest man in town is considered a drunk,
So many years have passed, are we now?
Even the richest man in the village may not even be considered.
In these villages along the southeast coast, you have 5 million cash in your hand, and you may not be the richest man. To be the richest man in the county, he must be worth at least 100 million yuan, at least!
Brother Feng once told me that both of us were dried sweet potatoes from the mud. We made some money because of the luck given by the times. So now, offense is more important than defense.
I said, I often feel this way, that I am the lonely tree in the grass. Once it falls, the whole family may return to the rural mode.
He said, I am also cooperating now, and I must find people with good luck and family luck to cooperate. Will not consider diaosi.
I said,Is it superstitious?
He said, it is superstition, but behind the superstition is character and logic. A family can thrive for more than two generations, which can be understood as happy and lucky. These are all manifestations. What is the core of the real hidden? Excellent quality. A family that is poor for more than two generations must have fatal quality defects. Otherwise, with the current environment, it would have risen a long time ago. The obvious manifestation is that everything is unlucky. The key is that the poor cannot afford to lose, and they will be hysterical at any time. , Hurt you.
You never know how much negative energy is.
In the past, we didn't understand why some families put so much emphasis on being right.
Snobbish, look down on people, don’t you?
Now I understand. The improper households are wrong, and the difference in wealth is still secondary. The key is the difference in living habits, consumption concepts, and values. I like to eat garlic, you like coffee, you say that I eat garlic is an old hat, I say that you drink coffee is hypocritical, this is the difference between the three views, is the most terrible.
Of course, these are all based on wealth differences.
The right family is the protection of high-level families, which is to establish physical insulation from the poor and reproductive insulation.
Today, when my daughter comes home from kindergarten, I will teach her to write these four words...
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Special instructions:
In the article, I am not necessarily me, and you are not necessarily you. Don't take a seat!
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