People who love you are afraid of not giving enough; people who do not love you are afraid that you will ask too much.
In a relationship, what a man proactively gives is completely different from what a woman asks for. Because
is willing to give, it represents heart and love, but it is charity to reach out.
Women like gifts because they like the feeling of being valued behind them. If a man regards giving a gift as a task that has to be completed, then the gift will lose its meaning no matter how valuable it is.
and In a relationship, if you have to ask for everything, the relationship will deteriorate over time.
Whether you are a couple or a lover, there are three things. If a man doesn't take the initiative to give it to you, don't ask for it.
01
details
The heartbeat takes only a moment, but it takes many years to fall in love. How much love
starts from the heartbeat, but ends with the details. In many cases, the measure of whether a relationship can reach the end depends on the details.
A few days ago, my friend finally agreed to her boyfriend’s marriage proposal. Just when many of us thought that this love would end without any disease, she gave us a reassurance.
In this world, there is still love after all.
I asked her what made you determined to agree to his marriage proposal. A friend of
said that last time went out to play, although I made a plan in advance, I still forgot a few things he told me to take. I was very nervous along the way. He kept comforting me a few things that were not so important. It's really necessary to buy it in time.
later encountered some unexpected incidents on the way, if it weren't for him, I would not dare to imagine what I would do.
She was immersed in her own touch, but it didn't sound very different to me. My friend
said again, in fact, during this trip, I remembered several times of my ex. If he encountered a similar situation, it is estimated that neither of us will be able to end the trip.
After traveling several times, the conflict between her and her ex became more and more serious, and finally broke up. When
traveled for the first time, the boy said that everything was left to herself, but when she arrived at the destination, she knew that the boy’s so-called arrangement was to take a few sets of clothes for herself.
She didn't care about these things, and it was a big deal to do more strategies on the Internet on the first day, but they had a conflict on the first day. Since
has been in the car for a day, she hopes to have something to eat first after putting down her things, but the boys have to go to the internet celebrity spots outside the city to check in. They can only take a taxi outside of the city, plus the queue is several hours. When
finally came to their turn, she was hungry and had low blood sugar. The boys kept complaining because the food was not good. Z3z
had a lot of unhappy things happened later. All the memories about the scenic spots were blurred. She only remembers that the trip was very unpleasant, and her ex was always disgusted.
That's why she was very embarrassed during this trip, but when she was in trouble and unhappy, the incumbent would comfort her to find a solution instead of just complaining and accusing like the predecessor. Afterwards, my friend said a lot of details, and I finally understood her choice. The love that makes a woman's heart set does not need to be so vigorous and romantic, but the details are attentive enough.
Too many people are accustomed to talking about love. They think that the words of love are beautiful. However, when you really fall in love with someone, you realize that it is not the case.
If I don’t love enough, I will use words to cover it up. After I am really tempted, love will be in a congee and a meal, between a line and a movement. At that time, I will feel lack of words. Only details can prove my heart.
If a man does not let you feel his details, then you should wait.
02
to accompany
love is to accompany, no girl can doubt this point.
Love without company is not worthy to talk about love.
often receive questions from fans in the background, whether he loves me or not. When facing love, no one can be absolutely confident.
But if a man really has you in his heart, he won't let you have the opportunity to ask such questions.
because if oneA man will chat with you whenever he has the opportunity and come to you whenever he has time. As long as he is not busy and will always be free with you, then you will definitely not doubt his sincerity.
But on the other hand, a man always treats you as if hesitate. If you say it for a long time, he will reply. If you do not respond several times, then you must understand one thing. Such a man definitely does not have you in his heart. When
brushed the vibrato, I swiped this sentence:
thank you Mr. Chen for letting me understand that it turns out that dating can be announced in the circle of friends, and you can call while driving. Boyfriend's time can always belong to me Yes, love really exists.
I think before meeting Mr. Chen, she must have talked about a very insecure relationship, but fortunately meeting Mr. Chen later, she taught her the right way to love someone again.
Love without company is not love at all.
girl, if he can't even do the minimum company in a love, then don't insist on stupidly.
03
money
Where is the man's money, where is his love.
Last year's Chinese Valentine's Day, colleagues showed a wave of very advanced dog food. On the night of
, she showed off her husband’s gift in her circle of friends: a handwritten thank-you letter, a red rose, and a table of western food made by herself.
can feel the seriousness and intentions through the heavy filter.
Early the next morning, my colleague "helplessly" complained. Not only did he not receive a gift last night, he also spent hundreds of dollars.
Everyone asked her why. She said that her husband bought the small vaults that had spent more than half a year on her. She couldn't see it and had to send him a few hundred dollars.
The new girl asked her what gift the brother-in-law had prepared last night besides western food.
she replied domineeringly: all his money is with me, and he can't buy any gifts without my permission. As soon as
said these words, those who received the gift were not calm, and began to ask her for advice on how to train her husband.
is no wonder everyone is envious. In a relationship, is there any gift that can be compared to handing in a salary card, probably only a marriage certificate.
Tu Lei once said this:
now has two kinds of men in life.
The first type of man, he is not willing to talk about money with girls, you talk to him about money, he thinks you are a material woman, think you worship money.
The second type of man, he will take the initiative to talk about money with girls, money can guarantee the quality of life of girls, feel that I love you, so I will create all the conditions for you to take care of you. This is his responsibility.
Money certainly cannot prove love, but money is the guarantee of life.
A man whose money is on you may not really love you, but a man whose money is not on you will definitely not love you.
Where is the man's money, where is his heart.
Regardless of whether it is a couple or a lover, the promised love is always imaginary. Don’t care how nice a man speaks. If he doesn’t take the initiative to give you these three things, then he must not love you so much, the girl must Think clearly.
