As the saying goes, "Money can make ghosts push, but it is hard to move without money." Everyone wants to make a lot of money, but making money is not so easy.
No matter how hard you work, no matter how much you earn, you must pay hard work to make money, and no one can get something for nothing. If someone makes money by speculation, it is often not worth the gain. Something that does not belong to you will be "spit out" sooner or later.
When you are young, it doesn't matter, because you have your parents to support you, even if you have no money, you can ask your parents for money. But when people reach middle age, their parents slowly get older, and they have also entered the "year of standing". Most of them have already married and have children. If you continue to be a "grabbing old clan", you will belong to a hopeless person and will be looked down upon.
In middle age, wealth is your confidence in life. If you don’t have money, there are old people who are expecting you to support you, and there are children who are counting on you to raise them. If you are a man, there may be a wife asking for money. At home, firewood, rice, oil and salt; going out, food, clothing, shelter, food, drink and fun, everything is money. You should have a deep understanding: what is lacking, you can't lack money!
Richness is the confidence of middle-aged people. For example, in a class gathering, you are empty-handed, and you can't even get the money from the pool. It is estimated that no one will pay attention to you. If you go, you will be "sit on the bench." Don't go to a party like this. It won't be easy to see other people's faces. If you are really down, it is because of natural and man-made disasters, your classmates may donate a little for you, but you will definitely feel wronged in your heart.
Rich is your confidence to speak. I often see some people yelling, "Let me do this little thing." In fact, such a person is a rich person, because you think that things that cost money are big things, but in his eyes, it has become a trivial matter. People to people, such a comparison, you "counsel". When talking with people, I dare not say how much my income is. If others ask, I can’t wait to find a seam and get in.
Money is not omnipotent, and maybe you don’t need to have a lot of money. But at least you have to worry about food and clothing. No money, really looked down upon. My hometown is in a ravine. With the development of the economy, many people have moved to the county seat. After all, the mountainous area is inconvenient and there is no way to make money. Last year, when I went home to my hometown, I met two old friends on the way. Everyone chatted and talked about their families. If there is a friend, cry. He said that because he didn't have the money to buy a house in the city, he had been living in the mountainous area for more than 40 years, and he was still alone. He didn't know where his wife was. In fact, in remote rural areas, there are many men in their forties who have not married and had children. The reason is that there is no money.
Smart people understand that the best time to make money is when you reach middle age. If you realize it, the process of making money slowly is also the confidence to be a man! Why do you say that? The reasons are as follows.
First of all, middle-aged people have a strong psychological endurance. They always think about everything, instead of "hurriedly" when they were young. For one thing, thinking about the two aspects of success and failure, and also thinking about the unexpected situation that happened in the middle, everything can be done to prevent it before it happens, and naturally it can be really done.
Then middle-aged people start their own businesses, and most of them have a certain foundation. You don't have money, but you have a lot of experience, and you can't fool around just by yourself. When dealing with some difficult things, experience is often important. If there is a way to make money and you encounter setbacks on the road, experience and economic foundation can help you quickly turn the situation around, not immediately "mind collapse", but also "wandering around and clueless".
Secondly, middle-aged people usually get married, and they have "good help" by their side. When the family is in harmony, "the husband and wife are of the same mind, and the profit is cut off." The couple started a business together. They increased their strength. They had a place to discuss things, and most of these discussions were in the same direction. Even if they failed, some people would "warm their hearts", and they could renew their courage and start all over again. came. Young people are mostly supported by their parents. If their parents are not very rich, they can only help you once, not your whole life.
LastMiddle-aged people have a larger circle of contacts and a wide network of contacts. Many people, who have worked in several cities and mixed in many units, realize that many people, often these people, can help you more or less. Maybe they won't lend you money or help you desperately, but you can inquire about some things through them, especially some useful information for yourself. You know, in an information society, you have more information than others, which is "wealth" and opportunities.
For middle-aged people, rich is your confidence in life! Falling in love, raising a family, buying a house and a car...With money, it can all be resolved gradually. But the greatest confidence is not that the more money the better, but the wealth and kindness, do more public welfare undertakings, and make the soul rich.
Spending money on meaningful things makes life more perfect, which is truly admirable. Such a person, who speaks the most confidently, is the leader of society. Others will give a thumbs up, and then will actively learn.
Those who are rich, but stingy, and those who count others everywhere are "iron roosters", and they are often looked down upon. It's a rich man who went on a blind date, but he didn't get any money. Even a glass of water was paid by the woman. It is estimated that love is about to fall. How can such a stupid woman?
For middle-aged people, if you want to be "full of confidence", then be a kind and rich person! Be a man without forgetting his roots, and money will increase.
Author: commoner coarse food.
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