■ Author: Uncle Nanshan
■ Original work, plagiarism will be investigated
01, preface.
Many prospective sons-in-law who are not yet married will be cautious when getting along with their prospective father-in-law and mother-in-law. They are afraid that some of their bad habits and hobbies will be seen by their prospective father-in-law and mother-in-law, and they will eventually be misunderstood, and even the engagement will be cancelled. Therefore, when the prospective son-in-law meets the prospective father-in-law and mother-in-law, he will always show his best side to the two elderly people in order to continue to leave a good impression on the prospective father-in-law and mother-in-law. On the other hand, parents who have daughters at home have always been very cautious about choosing a son-in-law, fearing that their daughter will suffer a loss and be deceived, so the parents need to personally check it.
all say, "The more a mother-in-law looks at her son-in-law, the more she likes her." It should be noted that the prerequisite for being pleasing to the mother-in-law is that the son-in-law has good character, good conversation and temperament, a reliable native family, and executable future plans. At the same time, during the contact with the prospective son-in-law, you can strictly check your daughter through inspections, which is also responsible for your daughter's future marriage. However, once they discover some unforgivable flaws or shortcomings of their prospective son-in-law during the inspection process, they will often make a decision not to let the mistakes continue. For example, Ms. Song Xiulan below met a prospective son-in-law, and they made a decisive decision not to marry their daughter. How does the story end? You are welcome to continue reading below.
02, after our daughter graduated from college, we asked her to return to Jiangcheng City to work.
Dear friends, my name is Song Xiulan, and my husband’s name is Ma Ming’an. We have a daughter named Ma Bingbing. She is our only daughter and the apple of our eye. In our hearts, our daughter is pure and pure, and is the most beautiful. After all, as parents, we all think that our children are the best. After our daughter graduated from college, we were reluctant to let her work in other places, so we asked her to return to our city to work.
Through our connections, we found several friends and helped her arrange to work in a private company. But her daughter was not satisfied. After working for half a year, through her own efforts, she was admitted to a public institution and became a public servant. It is said that "the end of the universe is the entrance examination." Our daughter gave up her private job with a monthly salary of tens of thousands, and joined an employer with a monthly salary of only four to five thousand. We are also full of joy. After all, the salary in public institutions will gradually increase, and working in the institution will make my daughter more valuable.
03, seeing that she was quite a big boss, I asked someone to introduce her to someone.
My daughter has been working in Jiangcheng City for two years. Seeing that she is getting older, I started making arrangements to find a boyfriend for her. I asked a few friends to help with the search. Later, someone introduced a young man who also worked in a public institution. This young man's name is Gao Jie. He is fair and quite tall. After his daughter met him, the two of them had a very happy chat. After all, we are all young people and have entered this Internet age. There are still many things in common among people of the same age.
Gao Jie and Bingbing had a good chat, and slowly, they began to go out to eat and watch movies. I asked my daughter to observe Gao Jie's performance, his character, his words and deeds, and look for his shortcomings. I say, as long as the person is good, some small shortcomings don't matter. If there are some big shortcomings, such as liking gambling, going to bars, and hanging out with bad friends, then you should be careful. My daughter naturally knew what I said and said she would pay attention to it.
04, the two of us get along very well, and my husband and I have a good impression of him.
After a period of investigation and based on the feedback from our daughter, we have a general impression of Gao Jie. Gao Jie usually likes to be quiet and doesn't have many friends outside. When he has free time, he likes to play games at home and watch TV. He doesn't have any other bad habits.
■ Author: Uncle Nanshan
■ Original work, plagiarism will be investigated
01, preface.
Many prospective sons-in-law who are not yet married will be cautious when getting along with their prospective father-in-law and mother-in-law. They are afraid that some of their bad habits and hobbies will be seen by their prospective father-in-law and mother-in-law, and they will eventually be misunderstood, and even the engagement will be cancelled. Therefore, when the prospective son-in-law meets the prospective father-in-law and mother-in-law, he will always show his best side to the two elderly people in order to continue to leave a good impression on the prospective father-in-law and mother-in-law. On the other hand, parents who have daughters at home have always been very cautious about choosing a son-in-law, fearing that their daughter will suffer a loss and be deceived, so the parents need to personally check it.
all say, "The more a mother-in-law looks at her son-in-law, the more she likes her." It should be noted that the prerequisite for being pleasing to the mother-in-law is that the son-in-law has good character, good conversation and temperament, a reliable native family, and executable future plans. At the same time, during the contact with the prospective son-in-law, you can strictly check your daughter through inspections, which is also responsible for your daughter's future marriage. However, once they discover some unforgivable flaws or shortcomings of their prospective son-in-law during the inspection process, they will often make a decision not to let the mistakes continue. For example, Ms. Song Xiulan below met a prospective son-in-law, and they made a decisive decision not to marry their daughter. How does the story end? You are welcome to continue reading below.
02, after our daughter graduated from college, we asked her to return to Jiangcheng City to work.
Dear friends, my name is Song Xiulan, and my husband’s name is Ma Ming’an. We have a daughter named Ma Bingbing. She is our only daughter and the apple of our eye. In our hearts, our daughter is pure and pure, and is the most beautiful. After all, as parents, we all think that our children are the best. After our daughter graduated from college, we were reluctant to let her work in other places, so we asked her to return to our city to work.
Through our connections, we found several friends and helped her arrange to work in a private company. But her daughter was not satisfied. After working for half a year, through her own efforts, she was admitted to a public institution and became a public servant. It is said that "the end of the universe is the entrance examination." Our daughter gave up her private job with a monthly salary of tens of thousands, and joined an employer with a monthly salary of only four to five thousand. We are also full of joy. After all, the salary in public institutions will gradually increase, and working in the institution will make my daughter more valuable.
03, seeing that she was quite a big boss, I asked someone to introduce her to someone.
My daughter has been working in Jiangcheng City for two years. Seeing that she is getting older, I started making arrangements to find a boyfriend for her. I asked a few friends to help with the search. Later, someone introduced a young man who also worked in a public institution. This young man's name is Gao Jie. He is fair and quite tall. After his daughter met him, the two of them had a very happy chat. After all, we are all young people and have entered this Internet age. There are still many things in common among people of the same age.
Gao Jie and Bingbing had a good chat, and slowly, they began to go out to eat and watch movies. I asked my daughter to observe Gao Jie's performance, his character, his words and deeds, and look for his shortcomings. I say, as long as the person is good, some small shortcomings don't matter. If there are some big shortcomings, such as liking gambling, going to bars, and hanging out with bad friends, then you should be careful. My daughter naturally knew what I said and said she would pay attention to it.
04, the two of us get along very well, and my husband and I have a good impression of him.
After a period of investigation and based on the feedback from our daughter, we have a general impression of Gao Jie. Gao Jie usually likes to be quiet and doesn't have many friends outside. When he has free time, he likes to play games at home and watch TV. He doesn't have any other bad habits.However, her daughter also said that she always felt that Gao Jie seemed a bit stingy and did not like to spend money. We were all happy after hearing this. We smiled and said to our daughter: Is there such a good habit? If you marry him, won't you keep your wealth?
The daughter pouted: "I don't like marrying a miser." However, seeing that we had a good impression of Gao Jie, she did not continue to say anything. We decided to continue investigating for a while before making a decision. As for the daughter, she did not give up on continuing to communicate with Gao Jie. After all, they had been interested in each other for several months, and some feelings were still being developed. We decided that once our daughter officially agrees to associate with Gao Jie, we will get them engaged so that they can fall in love, get married, and have children.
05, Seeing that the two of us have been dating for half a year, my husband and I have defaulted to our prospective son-in-law.
After half a year of dating, her daughter finally officially confirmed her relationship with Gao Jie. Although they are not officially engaged, outsiders also know about the relationship between Bingbing and Gao Jie. And my husband and I slowly accepted the fact that Gao Jie was our daughter's boyfriend. We decided that after a while, we would get Bingbing and Gao Jie engaged. Gao Jie's parents seemed to be more satisfied with Bingbing as their daughter-in-law-to-be. They often visited our home and became like in-laws.
Every time Gao Jie comes to our house, he brings some gifts. However, the gifts he brought seemed to be relatively cheap. Although our family did not have much money, we were still guaranteed a life of adequate food and clothing. Although the gifts brought by Gao Jie are cheap, we will not care about them, let alone care about them. In our hearts, Gao Jie is a child who is modest, cautious, thrifty but not stingy. He is a good child. My husband and I also accepted this prospective son-in-law by default.
06, My son-in-law-to-be and I are out shopping for the National Day, and we are going to have a good holiday.
National Day is coming soon, and Gao Jie came to visit us today. It happened that Bingbing had to work overtime at work that day and didn't go home, so I wanted to go to the supermarket to buy some ingredients and let my husband prepare some dishes. Just like that, my husband and I went out to the supermarket to shop with our soon-to-be son-in-law. At the entrance of the supermarket, my husband met an acquaintance. The two of them chatted about something at the entrance. He asked us to go shopping first.
I walked into the supermarket with my prospective son-in-law Gao Jie. In the supermarket, I saw some newly launched seafood, so I came to the seafood stall with great interest. I stopped in front of the lobster and swordfish . I was about to ask the supermarket employee if the seafood was fresh, but suddenly I accidentally saw something wrong with Gao Jie's face. I thought about it: The prices of lobster and swordfish are very high. Could it be that Gao Jie is afraid that he cannot afford these seafood? Forget it, this seafood is relatively expensive. When the accounts are settled later, Gao Jie will have to pay, and face must be given to him. Moreover, the cost of buying vegetables should not be too expensive, so don't let him lose face. Thinking of this, I deliberately turned around and went to the meat stall.
07, while shopping, the prospective son-in-law suddenly turned to the corner of the supermarket and squatted down to tie his shoelaces.
Gao Jie saw me turning in front of the meat stall, so he quickly followed me. He said: "Auntie, the meat today is good, buy more. I will settle the account later." I nodded and was ready to buy meat. I picked for a while, turned around and saw Gao Jie walking around a corner in the supermarket. He was squatting down to tie his shoelaces. I thought to myself that his shoelaces were loose and he knew how to tie them at the corner. This would not affect others. This child was really well-educated.
I picked a few pieces of meat and also bought some pork ribs. After calculation, the price was not expensive. Later, I walked over to the liquor store and bought a bottle of white wine and two bottles of red wine, intending to bring them back so that my husband and future son-in-law could have a few drinks when they were free, so as to shorten the distance between them. After buying , I went to look for Gao Jie and found that he had already walked over from a trash can at the corner.
08, my husband suddenly appeared in front of me and took me home: my daughter is not getting married.
I was about to say hello to Gao Jie, when suddenly my husband appeared in front of me. He pulled me aside to prevent Gao Jie from seeing me. He said to me seriously: "Xiulan, let me tell you, we are going home right away. Our daughter will not get married. This Gao Jie is unreliable!" I was very surprised to hear my husband say this suddenly. My husband leaned close to my ear and told me everything he had just seen.
My husband said that after he finished chatting with his friends just now, he walked in to find us. After searching for a while, he happened to see Gao Jie squatting down at the corner of the supermarket to tie his shoelaces. He was about to walk over to say hello, but found Gao Jie picking up a wallet from his shoes and stuffing it into his suit pocket. At this time, a pair of people who looked like lovers came over and asked Gao Jie if he had found his wallet. Gao Jie shook his head and said no. After the lovers left, Gao Jie stood up, took out the money, stuffed it into his underwear pocket, then walked to a trash can and threw the wallet into the trash can.
09, conclusion.
I was extremely surprised when my husband said this.. I never imagined that Gao Jie was such a person. How could we feel relieved when we handed our daughter over to him? So, I agreed with my husband, immediately put down the things in my hands, and returned home decisively. Afterwards, Gao Jie came over and asked why he didn't buy anything. We said that we didn’t want to celebrate the National Day because we had something else to do. After our daughter came home, we told her everything about what Gao Jie did in the supermarket. After listening to this, her daughter also fell into deep thought. Finally she said: "Mom and Dad, I listen to you."
Later, Gao Jie's parents came to ask about the engagement. We deliberately asked for a gift of one million, and also asked the other party to have a BMW and two houses before we could agree to the engagement between Bingbing and Gao Jie. We know that our betrothal gift is a sky-high price for Gao Jie’s parents. They have no money at all and will not agree to our high asking price. Just like that, my daughter slowly broke off contact with Gao Jie. Finally, Gao Jie completely disappeared from the eyes of our family.
[About the author of ]: Uncle Nanshan focuses on writing original emotional stories, folk tales and emotional beautiful articles, and has published 6 books on emotions, beautiful articles and stories. All major self-media platforms have originally added V authors. Each major platform has accumulated millions of fan authors, and the cumulative clicks on each major platform have exceeded 600 million times. Uncle Nanshan aims to give you more positive stories through simple words, tell you some principles of life, and realize some beautiful little blessings in life.
He pulled me aside to prevent Gao Jie from seeing me. He said to me seriously: "Xiulan, let me tell you, we are going home right away. Our daughter will not get married. This Gao Jie is unreliable!" I was very surprised to hear my husband say this suddenly. My husband leaned close to my ear and told me everything he had just seen.My husband said that after he finished chatting with his friends just now, he walked in to find us. After searching for a while, he happened to see Gao Jie squatting down at the corner of the supermarket to tie his shoelaces. He was about to walk over to say hello, but found Gao Jie picking up a wallet from his shoes and stuffing it into his suit pocket. At this time, a pair of people who looked like lovers came over and asked Gao Jie if he had found his wallet. Gao Jie shook his head and said no. After the lovers left, Gao Jie stood up, took out the money, stuffed it into his underwear pocket, then walked to a trash can and threw the wallet into the trash can.
09, conclusion.
I was extremely surprised when my husband said this.. I never imagined that Gao Jie was such a person. How could we feel relieved when we handed our daughter over to him? So, I agreed with my husband, immediately put down the things in my hands, and returned home decisively. Afterwards, Gao Jie came over and asked why he didn't buy anything. We said that we didn’t want to celebrate the National Day because we had something else to do. After our daughter came home, we told her everything about what Gao Jie did in the supermarket. After listening to this, her daughter also fell into deep thought. Finally she said: "Mom and Dad, I listen to you."
Later, Gao Jie's parents came to ask about the engagement. We deliberately asked for a gift of one million, and also asked the other party to have a BMW and two houses before we could agree to the engagement between Bingbing and Gao Jie. We know that our betrothal gift is a sky-high price for Gao Jie’s parents. They have no money at all and will not agree to our high asking price. Just like that, my daughter slowly broke off contact with Gao Jie. Finally, Gao Jie completely disappeared from the eyes of our family.
[About the author of ]: Uncle Nanshan focuses on writing original emotional stories, folk tales and emotional beautiful articles, and has published 6 books on emotions, beautiful articles and stories. All major self-media platforms have originally added V authors. Each major platform has accumulated millions of fan authors, and the cumulative clicks on each major platform have exceeded 600 million times. Uncle Nanshan aims to give you more positive stories through simple words, tell you some principles of life, and realize some beautiful little blessings in life.
