Sometimes it is better not to have personal interactions between colleagues. It is just a chance meeting, so how can there be so many polite exchanges? In the end, everyone is unhappy...
Story 1
I remember having a former colleague, and I didn’t even give me gifts when I got married and had children. Later she left the company, and her relationship with her was average and she rarely contacted her later. She actually sent me an invitation when she got married. I really don’t want to give me a gift, but I have notified me. There was no way to transfer a red envelope on WeChat. She received the red envelope and said thank you! I didn't go to the wedding, she didn't even ask. Sometimes I really feel that I can’t hide this face?
Story 2
I have many fake best friends, including A's best friend's college roommate, she would take 7-8 hours to go back when she got married with her middle school classmate. When I was in the next city, she didn't come or receive gifts. After the wedding, another best friend B said that she had accompanied me for two hundred and asked her to help me take care of it, but she forgot to give it to me (I didn't receive it). She also said privately that she was unhappy because she felt that I got married before her. Later, many years later, she finally got married. The wedding location was more than 10 hours away from my house. She hadn't contacted her for many years and asked me to have a wedding banquet. I said congratulations and congratulations... I didn't go or give gifts.
In society, there are all kinds of people. Your sincerity may not necessarily be exchanged for the truth. It is really a science to see people and recognize people. If you deliver your sincerity to the wrong person, then regret will not be allowed!
