What I said on the weekend, I have to sleep until 12 o'clock, and even if the Jade Emperor comes, I can't stop me. I dragged my exhausted body and sat on the bus passing by the community on time every day. Heading to the company. The above is me complaining to my friends. He suddenly said to me, can I get married on Saturday? I immediately wanted to say... Forget it, it doesn't sound nice, so I won't type it out. But he had to squeeze out a smile and replied toughly. Then congratulations first. I want to see the holiday arrangements, so I try to go there. What I thought to myself was that although my relationship with you was still working. But compared to my childhood since I was a kid, it was really almost interesting.
This is true, no marriage. Have you also agreed to get married on National Day? They all got together until the weekend, and they were all the same day. This is too embarrassing.
After get off work, I immediately turned on my phone to check the tickets as soon as I walked out of the elevator, until I could not get a ticket during holidays. I think that whenever I have a vote, no matter what time it is, I will decide. The matter when going back is big, the morning and evening are not important.
, but the reality is that I am very embarrassed. Not to mention the tickets for the evening, I can’t even get the tickets. What should I do? I lit a cigarette silently and started smoking helplessly.
There is nothing we can do about this. I will explain the situation to my friend after I get home. Don’t say that, I really admire my eloquence. It not only strongly expresses my urgent mood to go back and participate, but also weakly expresses my regret that I cannot compete with the powerful reality and cannot go back.
The result is of course a gift, blessings, and hanging up the phone, everything goes well.
As for where I came from, my hometown is not far away, so how can I go back? I remembered that he said in advance that he would pick me up. So it's not very panic. As for my friend, although it is not too far from my hometown, it is not close. I gave up completely, and I have already followed the etiquette anyway. The others are not important.
My post and I set the time. Just the day before the wedding, he drove over and picked me up. We talked a lot on the way. Although he is three years older than me, we have similar personalities and interests. Age is naturally not a problem. Talk about some of them. Not long after, home arrived.
Wedding related matters have been almost done, so I just eat and drink. I'm waiting for the wedding the next day. The wedding was held in our village, which was like using wooden tables to set up many tables and invited the chef to cook for the dishes. It’s just an ordinary rural wedding, I believe that all my friends who have experienced it are familiar with it.
The folk customs in our hometown are very simple, the kind that family has difficulties and can help if they can help, and those who can’t help can find someone to help you.
I guess I have to set up thirty or forty tables no matter what. After all, the people in the village, including relatives and friends of both men and women. Probably not enough. But reality slapped me hard again. It hurts a lot. Fifteen tables, you heard it right. There are ten miles and eight villages, simple folk customs, wedding feasts, fifteen tables. This is too little.
When the wedding ended, I quickly pulled my child aside and asked, "Why are you so many people?" Don’t you call out many people? Unexpectedly, he said with a giggle. It doesn’t matter if the person is not there. The key is that all the important people on both sides have come. Although the others have not arrived, there is not a small gift. It's OK.
actually has far exceeded my expectations. He also summarized the following points for me.
- The impact of the epidemic. In recent years, it can be said that there have been many disasters and difficulties. It's all caused by the epidemic. Most people are not at home, and when they come back, they are isolated and calculated. It is too troublesome and not cost-effective.
- Economic impact. We have a small county town here, with fewer job types, fewer opportunities, and low wages. Newly graduated college students will definitely not stay here. Middle-aged people have old people and young people, and the salary here is simply not enough. So I went out to work. If I hadn't been married, I wouldn't have come back.
When I thought about it, I was right. After saying that, ask me, what is your alcohol tolerance? I silently raised a finger. One pound? A bottle? I proudly replied that he could drink it all the time.Can you die if you don’t brag? As he said that, he smiled mysteriously and said, "Wait for me." When he came back, he had a bottle of wine and two cups in his hand. I smiled with heart when I met. Find a place to sit down. Take a small sip. I naturally said, Moutai? Yes, a young man, he has invested a lot of money to get married, right? He shook his head. I picked up the wine and put it in front of me. I took a closer look at the "Sanjuntai Treasure Wine". I have never heard of this wine.
So he gave me some popular science, it is normal for you to drink it wrong. After all, it tastes very similar to Moutai. If you are not an expert, you can't taste it at all. This is a sauce-flavored wine produced in Guizhou. I won’t talk about the quality, after all, you have become Moutai. If you are famous, it is precisely because this wine focuses on how to improve the quality of the wine and has no time to advertise. So it's not very well-known. But it was brewed by Mr. Chen Xingxi, former director of the former Moutai Distillery, himself. The taste is thick and mellow, the hops are dense, and the light yellow wine body is even more eye-catching. It's unforgettable. About a hundred yuan is enough to win.
Warm reminder: Do you have any other insights about the rural wedding banquets that are gradually losing the lively past? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.
