text丨Tao Xiaojing
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In love, the goal that women want to achieve most is not only to grasp the man's heart, but also to make men love to the point where they must be.
Women have been working hard in this direction and want to give their all for it. But emotional things cannot be rewarded with hard work.
The best way to love a person cannot be based on self-sacrifice. If a happiness needs to be earned by sacrificing oneself, then what you get in the end will not be happiness.
blindly sacrifice yourself, which will not touch a man's heart at all, and women must not try blindly.
is often more likely to bring you benefits than sacrificing yourself in your relationship and doing more small things within your ability.
The feelings between men and women actually reflect some small things in life. As long as you can do every small thing well, your status in the minds of men will not be low.
Although small things are small, they are very powerful. Starting from small things, your emotional journey will be smoother.
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In life, there are many small things that are ignored, which are actually the keys to open a man’s heart.
If a woman can do these small things well, it is equivalent to getting a pass to the man's heart. With this pass, you don’t have to worry about happiness leaving you.
So you have to remember that if you want a man to have to do more of these small things.
Listen to men's voice more
Men actually don't like to tell their own voice very much. When they really can't hold it in, they will only share it with their lovers.
Since a man is willing to pour out his voice, you should be a qualified listener and listen to him quietly.
A qualified listener can bring people a sense of comfort and pleasure. With the impact of these two feelings, men will rely more on you.
If you can't even listen at the most basic level, then even if a man falls in love with you first, he will not love you to the point where he must.
If you want a man to be you, you need to listen to the man’s voice more, be his most loyal listener, and give him the opportunity to express and vent.
In the process of pouring and listening, you will have more understanding and deeper feelings.
Dress up more
Many women firmly believe that men will not leave themselves after they have gained the heart of men, so they no longer dress up like they used to.
What kind of charm does a woman have if she doesn’t dress up? When a man becomes aesthetically tired, leaving is inevitable.
Men are all visual animals. If you cannot attract them visually for a long time, it will be difficult for them to love you to the point where they must be.
If you want a man to be obliged to you, you need to dress up more. Try to play the role of external beauty so that men will always be attracted to you.
Dressing up yourself is not a difficult thing, and you don’t need to spend too much, you can’t neglect it.
You have to know that even if a man promises that he will love you for the rest of his life, you cannot give up doing this. Only by insisting on dressing up, you will not lose the love of a man.
care more about men's parents
Although falling in love is just a matter of two people, we cannot completely leave each other's family behind. Especially when you want to develop a man for a long time, you should establish a close connection with his parents.
Parents are men's weaknesses and people they will protect for the rest of their lives. If you can't even accept his parents, don't imagine that he will love you forever.
If you want a man to be obliged to you, you should care more about his parents. Only by letting a man know that you can get along well with his parents can he continue dating you with confidence.
The parents who care about men can not only make men feel at ease, but also let them see your filial side.
These are things that men value very much. If you meet all of them, you will gradually love you to the point where you must.
More encouragement and affirmation for men
Encouragement and affirmation are actually just a matter of one sentence, but how many women have done it?
Women always regard men as superman and think that men don’t need anything, but in fact, what men need most is women’s encouragement and affirmation.
For men, women's encouragement and affirmation are their greatest motivation, which can give him strength and make him move forward bravely.
Men need such encouragement and affirmation. Only when women do more small things can they satisfy men and get the love and happiness they want.
Even if a man does not achieve great success, you should give him more affirmation. You must believe that with your encouragement and affirmation, men will inevitably become better and better.
-03-
Many things seem to be irrelevant, but in fact they play a very important role in the development of feelings.
Once you ignore these things, even if you give all yours for the man, it will be difficult to get what you want.
If you want a man to be obsessed with you, you need to pay more attention to some small things in life and work hard to do these things well.
Doing these small things does not require much energy to consume you, but it can bring you unexpected gains. Why not do it?
If you ignored it before, then start now. As long as you are willing to do it with your heart, everything is still in time.
