Whose marriage is free in the era of marriage, and if you don’t get married at the age of marriage, who is the fault of not getting married?
There is really nothing right or wrong about this. Married people are not necessarily right, and single people are not necessarily wrong. In today's society, many people born in the 1980s and 1990s have great pressure on survival, especially in recent years of the epidemic, many young people are in debt. If they happen to be married and have no partner at the age of marriage, how can they have the intention to talk about their children's personal relationship? There is a saying that first makes a living, then makes love. In fact, the editor thinks it is quite right.
read a report in the morning. A 34-year-old girl in Shanghai used her mobile phone to record a conversation about urging her parents about urging her to get married. The girl asked her parents why she didn't urgle her to get married? Her parents’ enlightened reply shocked the majority of netizens, and the netizens exclaimed: I am sober! Here is their chat content.
The girl asked her father with a smile: "Other parents are urging their marriage. I am 34 years old this year. Why don't you urge them to get married?"
Dad was doing things while calmly saying, "What's there to urge them? Will the marriage be good?"
Then the girl asked her busy mother in the kitchen: "Mom, why don't you urge them to get married? The mothers of many friends around me are urging them to get married so much!"
Mother said a little serious, "That's someone else's mother. What's there to urge them to urge them to get married? As long as you think you live a good life, as long as you are happy and have a clear mind." The conversation between
attracted praise from many netizens, saying that it is rare to see enlightened parents, and the world can see clearly; of course, some people also have objections.
Respect the older unmarried young people around you, respect their choices
I believe there are many unmarried young people around you. Have you noticed that there are no shortage of outstanding people in this type of people, why are they unmarried?
Let me tell you about the real three single friends of different ages around me,
The first is a girl who just worked in the society when she grew up from a divorced family. She once told me that she would not plan to get married and have children in this life. I asked why?
She said, "Modern marriage makes people live a bad life. Look around, you can see how many people divorce. My childhood was very unhappy. I grew up in the quarrel between my parents. Then when I was six years old, my parents divorced. My mother and a rich uncle took me to live with me. I don't know when I got depression. I think if I had a child, it would hurt the child. Now I have to have a child. The cost is too high and it is too waste of life time. I won't think about it at all. My mother is very open-minded and she won't urge her to get married. She said I'd be healthy and happy."
The second is a girl in her 30s who has been working in society for many years. She has a good personality and looks very good. I asked, why haven't you got married yet?
She replied, "I like children, I also want to get married, and I want to start a family."
" But after three relationships, none of them can go on. Every time I go home, my parents and relatives will urge them to get married. The psychological pressure is really great. Now I am afraid to go home. I once went to a blind date with a man who went on blind dates after hearing his parents. His three views and facial features are not good. I really won't go on blind dates anymore. Seeing that my friends around me have families, I dare not disturb others during holidays, and I feel lonely. Now the epidemic has caused the company that has worked hard for several years to go bankrupt. I am heavily in debt and my family's financial conditions are not good. I am under a lot of psychological pressure. I can only relieve my family and relatives, work hard and make money. Those who find a partner can only talk about it later. "
The third is a divorced mother who has been single for 20 years at the age of 38. She has a son who is 18 years old and runs an trading company . She has a child born at the age of 18. She got married at the age of 20 and divorced less than three years after getting married. When the divorce was done, her son followed her and I asked, "Why don't you find a partner?"
" In recent years, there is no time to find a partner besides work, and people in the work circle have not met a suitable one. Yes, the divorce was because the child put someone outside the family, and he focused on making money to support his family. He finally raised his son alone and always wanted to find a partner who is good to him. However, in the epidemic, there were problems in his career. The friend he had worked together for more than ten years and faced bankruptcy. He had calls for debt collection every day, and his head hurts. His father often got sick and asked for money for treatment. He felt difficult to live. "
or above are three women of different ages who answered why they are still single now?
Respect the older unmarried young people around you, respect their choices
I don’t know if you have paid attention to the newly added depression population in recent years. Data shows that the number of confirmed cases has reached 400 million. So, I hope that if there are unmarried older young people around you, the editor actually thinks that there are really many reasons for being single. Unmarried are all their choices. As friends, family members, or classmates, they should give them a little more understanding and support, which is care, not pressure. When you meet, you can ask what kind of person you like, do I need to pay attention to? Instead, at such an old age, why haven’t you got married yet?
