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Introduction:
Ms. Zhong really can't understand why she married her husband. After marrying her husband, she realized that her husband was really not a man worth entrusting for life, and she could even be said to be a mother's boy.
Ms. Zhong has been married to her husband for 3 years. Before she got married to her husband, she always thought that she would spend the rest of her life happily with her husband, but later she really felt too disappointed, so she chose to divorce.
Before she married her husband, she had less time to contact her mother-in-law, so she didn't know much about the way her husband got along with her mother-in-law. She only knew that her husband was a very filial man.
She was still thinking at that time that her husband was so filial. If she married a man like her husband, her life would definitely not go wrong, but the result really made her feel particularly disappointed, making her feel that her marriage over the past three years was really unworthy.
Before she married her husband, her husband also told her that they would definitely treat her very well after they got married. It was because of her husband's sweet words that she really didn't think too much about things at that time, so she chose to get to the point of getting married with her husband.
Just the first year of her marriage with her husband, she also felt that her life was very happy. She did not live with her mother-in-law at that time, and she only needed to consider the matters between her and her husband every day, and she ignored too many things at all.
But later, as her work got better and better, her salary became higher and higher, her husband proposed to let her mother-in-law move to the city to live with them. She was particularly opposed at that time because she felt that living with her mother-in-law would definitely have conflicts with her mother-in-law.
But her husband did not take her feelings into consideration in this matter, and wanted to take her mother-in-law to the city to live with them. For this marriage, she felt that there was no intention to object to too much, so she could only agree.
Since her mother-in-law moved to the city to live with them, she felt that her life had changed drastically, and her husband's attitude towards her was getting worse and worse. He would discuss with her if he had something, but since her mother-in-law came, her husband would only look for her mother-in-law if he had something to do.
This thing is not something she can’t stand, but what she really can’t stand is that she can be said to be very good to her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law always looks for trouble for nothing, always likes to cause trouble for her, and even does things completely ignore her feelings.
When her mother-in-law moved to the city, her husband said that she would ask her mother-in-law to take care of their daily life, but she had to give her 5,000 yuan a month. She didn't say anything at that time and agreed directly. This kind of life lasted for two years. She gave her mother-in-law money on time every month.
But some time ago, her husband followed her mother-in-law's words and asked her to give her 10,000 yuan of living expenses every month. If she didn't give them, the two would go to the point of divorce. The money her mother-in-law wanted was safe for her brother-in-law, so she would definitely not be happy, so she refused.
But because of this, her husband repeatedly asked her that she would not pay and divorce. She could not bear it anymore after hearing this, so she chose to divorce her husband because she was really too tired in this marriage.
Ms. Zhong felt that if she had known that her husband was such a man who obeyed her mother in everything, she would definitely not have married her husband, otherwise she would not have experienced a failed marriage. However, because of this incident, she could have completely seen what kind of man her husband was. Divorce was really the best choice for her.
