When people who are not married get old, most people will be more miserable than those who have been married
1. Parents urge you to get married because they are worried that you will die alone in the second half of your life. In the traditional concept of the elderly, a person can only be considered to have truly grown up after getting married. If you don’t get married and don’t have a partner around you, it means you will die alone. When you are old, you have no wife or children. When you can't move, or you need to take care of it when you are sick, there is not even a person who can deliver a bowl of soup. Your parents are afraid that you will be miserable in your later years.
My in-laws' third brother's son Dongying was once a non-married person. He was already twenty-seven or eight years old. No matter what his parents said, he just didn't want to get married. Later something changed him. Dongying and one of his classmates jointly opened a chicken farm in the stall area. The business was pretty good. He stayed in the chicken farm all day, often without having to worry about eating, and was hungry and full.
I was sick and hospitalized
One night, around eleven o'clock in the evening, he suddenly had stomachache . At first, he thought he was hungry, so he quickly made a bowl of noodles to eat, but in the second half of the night, his stomachache was so painful that he couldn't bear it. , wanted to take some medicine, but he couldn't get up lying on the bed. He stared at the medicine at the head of the bed. Later, he endured the pain and called his parents. After the hospital's surgical emergency, gastric perforation was effectively treated. After this incident, he said, if I don’t marry a wife, no one will know that even if I die outside when I am old. With his parents' plans, he got married soon, and his daughter is over one year old now.
2. In a commercial society, the traditional concepts of the elderly have been strongly impacted. In the thinking concepts of young people, no one cannot live without the other. Now, due to the influence of houses, cars and various pressures, more and more young people don’t get married. From the perspective of the general environment, this is the general trend and no one can stop it. In addition, in recent years, high bride prices, high consumption and increased divorce rates have made many young people not want to enter the palace of marriage.
Wedding scene
Of course, people who get married may not be better than those who don’t get married, and people who don’t get married may not be better than those who get married, but one thing is certain, that is, when you get old, you will definitely be younger than those who get married. It is miserable because no one can resist the natural laws of aging.
As you get older and you get older, your body will collapse bit by bit. This cannot be changed by getting married or not. As the saying goes, young couples come with each other when they are old. When they are old, their children cannot always be with them. If there is a companion to accompany them, their lives will not be very miserable; and, when they are old, they often do. The place to go is the hospital. If your wife is still here, you can still accompany you and take care of yourself, but the premise is that your wife is in good health and can work with you to live a lifetime.
The elderly walking
3. Whether to get married or not, you may not have a good life in your old age. A very realistic situation in now exists is that when many people get old, they often have to leave the world first, and what they are left behind is to live alone to live a lonely life. And what about your children? Have your own work, life, and your own children to raise. Where can they still have time to be by your side every day? Therefore, many people who have been married have no good old age. But one thing is certain, even if your children cannot take care of you and send you to a nursing home, their children are also a strong backing for your life in a nursing home. If they often come to visit you, your life in a nursing home will not be bullied at least status. What about people who don’t get married without getting married? It seems that my old age is more miserable. There is a saying that eats . Your property may be divided by your nephew and nieces and enter a nursing home. Because you do not have family support, you may also face bullying and abuse. phenomenon.
The elderly in nursing home
4. If you choose marriage, you must bear family responsibilities. If you don’t get married, you have to face the lonely old age. Those who choose to get married must be fully prepared. After marriage, you must shoulder the heavy responsibility of the family and face the messy life in the marriage life; if you choose not to get married, you must face your old age The desolate faces the lonely old age and the cold reality. Therefore, whether you get married or not, it is a choice in life. There is no absolute right or wrong. As long as you learn to accept it, no matter which choice, you will regret it, right?
Now, a new type of marriage is popular. The expenses of couples in life are AA system, and the elderly also have their own support. Another phenomenon is that some women do not want to get married and do it through modern medical means. Mom, raise the child alone. No matter which choice you choose, you cannot enjoy the family happiness of your children and grandchildren, and you are unwilling to suffer the pain of having children and raising children. As for you, you want to enjoy the comfort of being free and comfortable when you were young, You are unwilling to bear the miserable misery of your old age, which is an unrealistic idea.
Children and grandchildren lingering
There are many people who think that they don’t get married when they are young, and they can travel around when they are old. I sincerely remind everyone that you really think too much. When you are young, you don’t have a car, a house, or a Savings, you don’t even have a healthy body, and you have a mess in your life. Then when you get old, how can you have money, leisure, health, and travel around to the mountains and rivers?
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