The unfortunate thing in marriage is not cheating, at least you can choose again, but unfortunately, the love you have with you day and night is not yours.
Some time ago, Chen from Shanxi married his wife for 16 years and gave birth to three children. Chen worked hard for the family and made money. Later, through paternity test, , he found that none of his three children were himself I believe no one can accept such a reality.
Zhong Lin, who lives in Chengdu, received a bolt from the blue. He found that his 4-year-old daughter was not his biological daughter and could not find his wife.
He divorced his wife and his daughter awarded him the daughter, and found his mother-in-law with the appraisal report and asked straight to the point, what do you think you should do in this situation? Obviously, it was too difficult for Zhong Lin to raise another man's child for his wife.
Mother-in-law said calmly, what's the use of finding me? I can't care, either. But his ex-wife avoided him. What problem can Zhong Lin solve by just getting angry at his mother-in-law? He can only come in vain.
Zhong Lin is 27 years old this year and works in a real estate company. He met his 20-year-old ex-wife through other people's introduction. The two met for 3 days and then had sex. Not long ago, the ex-wife told her that she was pregnant. So he asked Zhong Lin if you want this child. Zhong Lin said that you have met my parents anyway, so we can get married.
The two realized that they had only known each other for one month after marriage, which was considered a flash marriage. It can be said that they didn’t know each other very well. Zhong Lin only knew that his ex-wife was a single-parent family, with an older brother and a younger brother. I don't know the character and character of this ex-wife.
The ex-wife gave birth to a daughter again, and the couple lived with their parents. Like other families, they lived a dull and happy life.
When my daughter was two years old, the two began to separate from each other due to work. The daughter was taken care of by Zhong Lin’s parents. Her granddaughter was very well-behaved and cute and willing to give.
But as time goes by, Zhong Lin found that his wife's attitude towards him has undergone 180° changes. Not only does she not disclose her work location, she rarely even sends messages.
Not long after, Zhong Lin received a debt collection call, and the other party told him that your wife had owed more than 10,000 yuan and had not paid it back for several months.
When Zhong Lin asked his wife, she was very far-fetched for various reasons. Zhong Lin realized that his wife should have known the opposite sex. He wanted to break up with his wife, but considering that his daughter was only two years old and his wife humbly asked for forgiveness, he swallowed it I let out this breath.
Later, both of them returned to Chengdu to work and reunited again. They were often in a state of nothing to say. In addition, Zhong Lin often received debt collection calls, and he took on the responsibility of repaying his wife.
As before, my wife not only ignored the children, but also often stayed home all night. She often asked for trouble and quarreled. In the end, the wife finally filed for divorce, and Zhong Lin agreed physically and mentally exhausted.
Zhong Lin just said casually and tested the child according to the procedure. That night, the ex-wife brought her relatives to the house to have the child, which made Zhong Lin more determined to make the appraisal. After the result of
came out, Zhong Lin's whole family suffered a huge blow. His daughter had no blood relationship with him. After negotiation between the two families, the woman would compensate Zhong Lin with 150,000 yuan. Through various excuses, she refused to pay compensation and her ex-wife also avoided it.
made him feel that this marriage was a scam from the beginning, and the other party’s whole family deliberately made him the sucker.
What makes people even more angry is that the ex-wife said that she doesn’t know who the child is, and she just tried it. What her brother said is even more unbearable. He felt that Zhong Lin was also responsible, because his sister had asked Zhong Lin if he wanted this child before, and the answer given by Zhong Lin was to ask.
It is obvious that the ex-wife is to let the child be legitimate and to Zhong Lin. She confirmed her relationship when she first met and had sex after three days of getting along. It goes without saying that she had planned it.
This marriage was ruined by impulse. It was too young and spent four good years in vain. For Zhong Lin, it was considered a mistake to learn from his mistakes.
For this marriage, Zhong Lin is a responsible man. He knew that his wife was pregnant and decided to take on the responsibilities of a man and was very loyal to the marriage.
In contrast, his ex-wife concealed her pregnancy experience before marriage, and repeatedly betrayed the family after marriage. The debts owed by Zhong Lin helped him pay back one by one. Zhong Lin not only raised other men's children for her, but also paid the money for her. He brought the sense of responsibility of a husband to the extreme, but he did not get his wife's heart back.
Someone said: For current marriage, only mother is real, and I don’t know whether my father is a relative.
Behind the harm of marriage, only the child is the most pitiful. The father can no longer continue to raise her, and the mother is very irresponsible. Perhaps she can't even know her own life experience.
The mistakes made by the previous generation must bear to the next generation. To eliminate such tragedies, many things need to be kept open.
If the environment of an incomplete family will affect the incompleteness of another family, it can be seen how important it is to have a happy marriage.
