I have been a flight attendant for 7 years, refused to be kept, married a German husband, and gave birth to two mixed-race sons
Narrated by: Cao Yixin
Organized by: Mr. Xiao Han
Pictures: from the Internet, intruded and deleted
I am Cao Yixin, from Xi'an, Shaanxi , 39 years old this year. 18 years ago, after graduating from the Fashion Institute of Technology, I relied on my figure and foreign language skills to work as a stewardess. I flew from Beijing to Shanghai. In 7 years, I saw too many bosses with different identities and encountered many An incredible person.
Once upon a time, someone offered me 30,000 yuan a month to be his "lover", but I refused decisively, because in my world, love is wonderful and sincere, and cannot be bought with money.
When I was 28 years old, I met Bober, a German, a university professor, and an entrepreneur. I admired this wise man who was only forty years old. Within half a year, I decided to marry him. From then on, I lived with my husband in Germany. Time flies, ten years have passed, and I am happily married and have two smart sons.
In 1983, I was born into a wealthy family in Xi'an, Shaanxi. My father is engaged in mechanical research, and my mother is a university teacher. There are two children in the family. I have a brother who is 11 years older than me, and I am also an unexpected member of my parents. Surprisingly, because of his birth, my father changed from an engineer to an ordinary worker.
My parents have never regretted it, because my arrival brought countless joys to the family, and also gave them a son and a daughter, which formed the word "good".
My brother is my protector. He has doted on me since I was little. He sticks to me first when there is something delicious to eat, and he never competes with me when there is something fun. Under the nourishment of love, I grow up without any worries. .
Although I am very smart and lively, I don’t like studying. I have been a girl who loves beauty since I was a child. So after graduating from high school, I went to college and studied fashion design. As for what kind of life I can have in the future, I have no idea. Of course, No premature knowledge is required.
When I was in elementary school, what I feared most every day was doing my homework. In order to get by, I asked my sister to help me write it every time. But nothing happened without being exposed. In the end, not only did the teacher find out, but I was also severely criticized by my parents. .
In order to urge me to do my homework, my mother gave up the habit of dancing in the ballroom and sat next to me every day to supervise my homework. However, when I was drowsy, what I got was the ruthless beating of the book in my mother's hand. Sometimes my "stupidity" "I couldn't help but make my mother laugh.
Later, my parents also adopted a liberal and relaxed policy. As long as I was obedient, didn't fall in love early, didn't arrive late and leave early, my academic performance didn't matter.
When I was in my third year of high school, I really realized what competition is. In the words of the teacher: "If you work hard now, you will work less in the future. The society will not be so gentle to you when you enter the society. You may get up early every day and work late every day for a job. At that time It's too late to regret it "
didn't take it seriously at that time. I thought the teacher's words were a bit exaggerated. After my college entrance examination results came out, I could describe them as "terrible." I had just passed the college entrance examination score line and finally chose to study fashion design. I didn't follow what my parents had planned for me. Be a nurse in the future.
After three years of junior college, it seems that I have entered a stage of transition to adulthood. That period was actually quite beautiful. I had a vigorous relationship and made many friends. But at this time, I realized that if I choose a bad career in the future, Days are designated to be difficult.
So when I was in college, I would go to Xi'an to work on weekends. I worked as a fashion model and as a etiquette. When I was in college, the dream job for girls was not to be an accountant or a teacher. Become a flight attendant instead.
Many times, people will fight for their dreams. In order to make myself more elegant and beautiful, I have also made a lot of efforts. After all, a flight attendant is a job that a girl can be proud of.
After graduating from college, I always paid attention to flight attendant recruitment information, and my parents tried their best to help me. Finally, I had the opportunity to take a written test and interview. Among hundreds of people, I stood out with good results and became the candidate at that job fair. A successful person. There were 7 other girls who came in with me, either because of their own good conditions or because of trust relationships. Sometimes stewardesses are not as beautiful as they imagined. After all, underneath their beautiful appearance, they wear heavy makeup.
I still find it very challenging in my first year as a flight attendant. Maybe it’s because I have just entered this industry. I am full of enthusiasm and try my best to be as perfect as possible for every customer.
As time goes by, I slowly find that many people have different attitudes towards flight attendants. From Beijing to Shanghai, I have to fly eight times during the holidays. I am very tired, so tired that I don’t want to eat and can’t sleep. Sometimes I also want to live a comfortable life and find an ordinary job, working from 9 to 6. Maybe once I make a choice, it seems difficult to look back.
During my 7-year career as a flight attendant, I often received small notes with words of admiration. Some were even more direct, asking for my contact information and wanting to marry me. There was even a boss in Guangdong who was willing to He gave me 30,000 yuan a month and asked me to be his lover, which is commonly known as "support".
Faced with these temptations, I calmly refused.
I never envy anyone and have my own life philosophy, so I hope to meet a beautiful partner.
During the Spring Festival of 2011, during one of my flights, I met Bober. He is a German who was studying at a university in Beijing and served as a visiting professor of . I admire him very much. Bober is now 42 years old, 14 years older than me, and has never been married.
After that, I established contact with Bober. He told me that he was about to return to Germany to work, and asked me if I would like to follow him to Germany? I thought at the time that I could go to Germany, but I had to get married in China. So, Bober agreed to my request and returned to my hometown in Xi'an to get married. At this time, I also quit my job.
In July, the hot Xi'an was as calm as usual. Bober and I set off from Xianyang International Airport to Germany to start a new life.
After arriving in Germany, I discovered that Bober was not only a professor, but also an entrepreneur. In order to reassure me, he transferred most of his assets to my name and had a lawyer notarize it.
Without a job, I can live a carefree and free life. I don’t have to work from early to late and go through hardships.
Bober and I gave birth to two sons after we got married. They are both lovely. My parents have always been worried about our marriage. After all, if I marry a foreigner, there is no telling whether they will want me anymore. . But Bober and I have a very stable relationship. We have been married for almost ten years and have never had a quarrel.
Life requires hard work and cherishing. All the good things are hard-won, so go ahead and cherish them.
