Text丨Love in the West Chamber
Time is not long, I hope you will meet in my words and it will not be too late!
I have to admit that the love of middle-aged men is more secure than the love of young men.
Because, whether it is in terms of financial strength or a responsible attitude toward relationships, middle-aged men are better.
However, the above premise must be that the middle-aged man loves you deeply. Only when he has you in his heart, will he do everything for you and will he prefer you unconditionally.
And it is not easy to make a middle-aged man fall deeply in love with you. After all, what kind of woman has not seen a man at this age?
But you don’t have to rush to deny yourself. Believe that everything is possible.
You just need to remember that if a middle-aged man loves you deeply, he will give you these three privileges. If you meet such a man, you must cherish it.
NO.1 Economic Privilege
To borrow a popular saying, if you want to know how much a man loves you, just see how willing he is to spend money for you. Although this may sound materialistic, there is nothing wrong with it.
You must know that love without bread is destined to go the way of poor and humble couples suffering from everything. A strong economic foundation can best protect love.
As for a middle-aged man who knows that it is difficult to make a living without money in this society, if he loves you deeply, he will definitely put his financial power in your hands to make you feel safe.
My sister-in-law has been single for many years because her ex-husband died in an accident. She is already in her forties and is the child that her grandmother is most worried about.
So, as sisters-in-law, my mother and aunt were helping her find a suitable man.
Later, under the introduction of the aunt, a man named Jiang Hao (pseudonym) fell in love with my sister-in-law at first sight. He is a few years older than his sister-in-law, and he chose to divorce because his ex-wife was ruining her family.
Now that his children are married, he also wants to think about the rest of his life and wants to find a caring woman to spend the rest of his life.
Jiang Hao is a businessman, so if my sister-in-law marries him, she will definitely not have to worry about food and clothing. After all, from the time the two met until now, his dedication to his sister-in-law has been seen by everyone in the family.
But considering that her cousin was still in college, her sister-in-law only agreed to try dating Jiang Hao first and not consider marriage for the time being.
Therefore, in order to win the favor of his sister-in-law, Jiang Hao tried his best, and the first thing he did was to confess his financial situation to his sister-in-law.
Every time he asks his sister-in-law to go out to play, he will pay special attention to the things she likes and silently write them down. During holidays, he also carefully prepares various gifts and gives out red envelopes.
Once the sister-in-law refuses, he will say:
"I hope you won't be burdened. I like you, so I will still do this even after marriage. If I can't even give you this little bit of economic freedom, then what else can I do?" What kind of happy life can I give you?"
After that, my sister-in-law no longer refused Jiang Hao to spend money for her, and her attitude towards him gradually changed from the initial refusal to acceptance.
NO.2 The privilege of independence
My sister-in-law, who has received higher education, has been awake in the world since she was a child.
Although she was touched by the financial privileges Jiang Hao gave her, she also understood that when two people are together, they cannot rely solely on money as a bond, but they need to be comfortable with each other.
Jiang Hao has already seen this and knows that as long as his sister-in-law decides something, it will not be changed easily. Therefore, since the two of them got together, he has never interfered with any of his sister-in-law's decisions.
Every time, whenever my sister-in-law decides to do something, he will give her full support. If there was indeed a disagreement on something, he would only express his opinion in a suggestive tone.
To be honest, it is not easy for a middle-aged man to bow to a woman. Unless he really loves you, he will be so partial and tolerant.
Originally, my sister-in-law thought that businessmen were all dishonest and good at calculating and controlling others. But Jiang Hao's performance surprised her, and she became more optimistic about the man in front of her.
NO.3 The privilege of freedom
Two years later, my cousin graduated from college and found a stable job. Jiang Hao began to ask his sister-in-law about her plans, but her sister-in-law was worried that she would not be as free as she is now after marriage.
In order to relieve his sister-in-law from worrying, Jiang Hao said: "Don't worry, I have no worries about my parents and children here. If you want to be closer to your parents, we can settle here."
Considering that his sister-in-law was still worried about his cousin, he assured her that he would not interfere with her freedom after marriage. She could see her cousin anytime she wanted, and he would treat her cousin as his own son.
After getting married, he did what he said at the beginning. Not only did he never ask his sister-in-law where she was going, he also asked her to contact him at any time whenever she needed him outside.
This may be the most comfortable relationship between lovers. I love you but know how to keep a distance. I will not let love become a cage that restricts your freedom, nor will I let you lose yourself because of so-called love.
Today's sister-in-law, under Jiang Hao's care and preference, lives happily and freely, and has become the envy of all our younger generations.
Yes, compared to young men’s domineering and selfish approach to love, middle-aged men interpret it as stability and freedom. Let me ask, how can any woman not be moved by such an affectionate man?
It is rare to have a close friend in this world. What's more, it's not easy to meet a man who understands and prefers you so much when you are over half your age.
What my sister-in-law can do is to stay with Jiang Hao and let him experience the feeling of being loved. In the end, the two of them joined hands for the rest of their lives and lived their lives peacefully and peacefully.
