When a woman is a little girl, she will think about many things in her heart. Sometimes these thoughts can make us weird, but some thoughts can also make us get stuck in the quagmire.
Some people say:
"If you don't think about it, don't think about it, it is the best life."
As a woman grows older, she should also understand this truth. Sometimes if we want to live our own life well, we must Do this: don’t think about it, don’t think about it.
Women should understand this truth even more after they are over 40 years old. At this time, the best way to live is actually the following two words:
01. light
When women are over 40 years old, they must know how to be bearish. Some things:
Looking at the person we once loved deeply, maybe the two people fell in love but were not together. This person is worth remembering for a lifetime, but when you are in your 40s, you have already married, so at this time, You must know how to take things lightly, you must know how to let go of your past marriage, and you must know how to firmly hold on to your present happiness.
I have seen such a story on TV:
A woman liked a man very much when she was young. Later, because people in her family disagreed, the woman married someone else.
But after marrying someone else, I still thought about my former boyfriend and stole all the things in the house to my former boyfriend. In the end, the house was ruined and my current husband was involved. other lawsuits.
So a 40-year-old woman should be a woman who takes everything lightly. Although sometimes we may have some nostalgia for the past, we should focus on our husbands at home and stop thinking about other people.
Sometimes when your husband is the main one in your family, your life will be particularly happy. At the same time, you also need to know who you belong to.
Although you two had a good relationship in the past, you two are not married, so you have to focus on your current husband.
Women also have to deal with some things, such as quarrels between friends. There are also comparisons between friends.
When a girl in her 20s sees something, especially when her friends use something better than her, the girl is always unhappy because of the vanity of comparison. But when you are in your 40s, When you are 20 years old, don't have such a mentality anymore.
Because when you are in your 40s, if you are still a narrow-minded person, your life will actually be very tiring. At this time, you have to look down on many things: it doesn’t matter whether you have it or not, just take care of yourself. life on it.
You also need to improve your children's education, and you should look down on many things. Don't always compare your children with other people's children. This will make your children very tired.
02. Transparent
A woman who has passed the age of fourteen must live a more transparent life. When solving many things, don’t be muddled. She can see through everything at a glance. When doing things, she must know how to cut through the mess quickly and don’t delay. Procrastination.
A woman in her 40s must also understand: It is not easy for everyone. Don't cause trouble for others, and don't cause trouble for yourself. In fact, sometimes when you cause trouble for others, you also cause trouble for yourself. One thing you need to know is: the pitfalls you cause others now may become a bumpy road for you in the future.
A painful woman knows how to channel her own feelings, and can think things over when she is wronged; a woman who understands can also enlighten others, and when others encounter difficulties, she can let others look away. .
In some jobs, we will suffer a lot of grievances. It is best when we get along with others, but we may not necessarily get anything in return for our sincerity.
This society is inherently unfair. We have paid more for our labor than others, but in the end, we may have become others' foils. At the same time, we will feel pessimistic, disappointed, and aggrieved.
A woman in her 40s must skip this stage. When you face such things, you must see clearly: do your own thing well, and let others do what others like. ! As long as you don't touch your own bottom line, don't take it too seriously.
Be nice to anyone who is nice to you, and be nice to anyone who is not nice to you. At work, if you are unfair, then work hard to improve yourself and then resign. You have to remember this sentence:
"If you are not left here, there will be a place for you."
But the premise is that we continue to To shape ourselves and make us more valuable.
When a person is over 40 years old, he should take many things lightly; when a woman is over 40 years old, she must be more transparent when looking at things.
It is not easy for everyone to live in this society. We should not let others play tricks on us, but we must pay attention to some skills in life.
