text丨Tao Xiaojing
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The relationship between men and women may not be as vigorous as imagined, but it will also deepen with the passage of time.
When the relationship deepens to a certain level, the relationship between the two people will develop further, and they may even become husband and wife.
Although everything is still variable, a man who truly loves you has already admitted in his ideology that you are his partner for the rest of his life.
He is willing to be responsible for you, willing to hand over the rest of his life to you, and willing to do many things for you that he would not do before.
However, he will not tell you directly that he has identified you, but will let you clearly see his heart through some specific actions.
In normal times, a man's actions may not be so obvious, but after being intimate, a man's love becomes very intuitive.
In the eyes of a man, if you can completely give yourself to him, it is a kind of deep affection and trust in him. He will not let you down, but will do his best to bring you happiness.
If you don’t want to ignore a man’s feelings, then I hope you can understand that taking the initiative to do these things after being intimate means that he regards you as his wife.
Take the initiative to hand over the money to you
Many women will find ways to seize financial power after identifying a man, trying to capture the man's heart. But facts have proven that a man who truly loves you will take the initiative to hand over financial power to you.
A man can take the initiative to hand over financial power to you without you asking for it, which shows that he really trusts you.
This trust comes from his deep affection for you, because he has regarded you as his wife, so he has no reservations about you.
When he hands all his money to you, it actually means he hands over his future to you. If it wasn't because he considers you his wife, how could he trust you so much?
Although a man may not do anything romantic for you, the fact that he can give you his money is enough to prove how much he loves you.
Only the deepest love can make a man put aside all worries and hand over his savings without reservation. Only the deepest love can inspire a man's full trust.
If the man around you does this, then you must not only understand his feelings, but also cherish his love for you, and don't let down his affection.
Take the initiative to take you back to meet your parents
Men and women are different. Women will take a man home directly after being attracted, but a man will only take a woman back to meet her parents after identifying a woman.
For a man, meeting his parents is a very solemn and serious matter, which means that he has already made plans for the next step.
So women should know that after making out, if a man takes the initiative to take you back to meet your parents, it means that he has regarded you as his wife.
A man has two main purposes for taking you home. One is to let you understand his family situation more intuitively, and the other is to introduce you to his parents.
These two purposes are actually preparing for your further development. As long as you can accept his family and your parents are satisfied with you, he will propose to you soon.
A man will not tell you his thoughts directly, but he will use actions to prove his feelings to you. You cannot ignore his actions.
If a man is waiting for you to go home to meet your parents, then you should prepare as soon as possible, because maybe one day, your relationship will undergo a qualitative change.
Take the initiative to include you in the plan
Many men like to plan for their own lives. Although the plan may not always be realized, it is indeed the goal for men to strive for.
A man’s plan includes his career, his family and his marriage.
Before he identified a person, his family and marriage plans were relatively general, just a very vague prototype.
But after he regarded you as his wife, his plan became concrete. He will draw you into his plan for your marriage and future.
When a man is planning, he will not tell you directly. When he has planned everything, he will reveal his plan to you during chat.
If you find that you are included in a man's plans, then you have to understand that he has already regarded you as his wife. This is happiness that belongs only to you, and you have to cherish it.
You have to know that although it is just a plan, it represents the man's sincerity and sincerity. You cannot let him down.
Xiaojing’s emotional summary:
Money is the guarantee of a man’s life, and he will not give it to an insignificant person at will. Parents are a man's weakness, and he will not take anyone home casually. Life planning is a man's future, and he will not easily change it for one person.
The only thing that can change all of this is the deepest love in a man's heart. When he is deeply in love and unable to extricate himself, his money, his parents, and his future are no longer as important as the person he loves.
Although he won't show too obvious behavior during normal times, after being intimate, influenced by the deep affection in his heart, he will do many things that he would not do normally.
So women need to know that if a man takes the initiative to do these things for you, it is clear that he recognizes you and treats you as his wife.
If you don’t want to lose your happiness, then cherish a person who loves you. Cherish the people in front of you, and happiness will come.
