text丨Tao Xiaojing
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It is not easy for a woman to meet a man she loves deeply. Once she finally meets a man, she will do her best to protect him.
But women forget that the person you love may not necessarily love you. Even if he loves you at the beginning, he may suddenly change his heart one day.
Women should not think about relationships too simply, let alone simply think that a man will only love you.
A man's love comes and goes quickly. Although he does love you at this time, as long as he meets someone better than you, he may leave you.
Separation in relationships seems to be an arrangement of fate, but it is actually caused by human nature. Because everyone likes the new and hates the old, relationships are not as solid as imagined.
Don’t think that years of relationship can keep a man’s heart. For men who like the new and hate the old, the new is the best.
This is the so-called "only hearing the new people laughing, not seeing the old people crying", which is really sad and infuriating.
If you fall in love with such a man who loves the new and hates the old, a woman is at a loss. No matter what you do, the final result will be the same.
If you don't want to get hurt, there is only one best way, which is to stay away from a man who loves the new and hates the old.
You may ask, if a man is so good at pretending, how can you clearly see his true nature?
Human nature cannot be hidden. If you look carefully, you will find that men who like the new and dislike the old have these obvious characteristics. Don't fall in love with them.
The first obvious characteristic: often staring at beautiful women
A man who likes the new and dislikes the old will not always be loyal to a woman. Even if he is already with you, he will look for new partners everywhere. A very obvious characteristic of a man like
is that no matter what the occasion, he will stare at beautiful women intently.
Maybe you are standing next to him, but you are not in his eyes at all. Even if you have been attracting his attention, he will not look at you twice.
Especially when he meets a woman who meets his standards, he will directly ignore you and flirt with other women.
This characteristic of men is very obvious, and women cannot ignore it. Once you notice that a man is always staring at other women, you should be wary.
Women should remember that the best way to protect themselves is to stay away from a man who likes the new and hates the old, and don't fall in love easily.
The second obvious characteristic: only making friends with the opposite sex
Generally speaking, making friends depends on fate, but for men who like the new and dislike the old, making friends depends on gender.
A man who likes the new and dislikes the old will only make friends with the opposite sex. Even if he already has a significant other, he will still make friends with the opposite sex everywhere.
Men do this to find a way out for themselves and give themselves more choices.
He will not consider your feelings, nor will he feel that there is anything wrong with his behavior. All he thinks about is himself.
A woman will not feel safe if she is with such a man who likes the new and hates the old. If a woman continues to fall into this trap, she will only end up with scars all over her body.
If you don’t want to get hurt, please stay away from a man who loves the new and hates the old, and stop being stubborn.
The third obvious feature: Pay special attention to your own image
For men who like the new and dislike the old, personal image is very important, because only by always maintaining a good image can you attract the attention of more women.
Therefore, no matter what the occasion, he will put his personal image first.
He will be particularly keen on dressing up and pay attention to his own image at all times. He will even look in the mirror from time to time to see if he is handsome and charming.
A man who likes the new and hates the old feels that his personal image is his best bargaining chip. As long as his image is good, he will not worry about not having a woman to love him.
If a woman really gets close to him, he will not refuse them all. Even if he knows it will hurt you, he will still do it his own way. A man like
doesn't take you seriously at all, so why should you take him to heart. Get away from a man as soon as possible so that you won't get hurt.
Xiaojing’s emotional conclusion:
A man who loves the new and hates the old will not be responsible for any woman. Even if he seems to love you very much at the moment, he will still leave you one day.
A man who likes the new and hates the old is not a woman’s final destination at all. Even if a woman loves her deeply, she should not entrust her future to him.
There are so many men in the world, why should a woman stick to a man who likes the new and hates the old? Once you find that a man likes the new and hates the old, you must stay away from him in time.
Staying away from a man who likes the new and hates the old is to protect yourself and respect your feelings. Only in this way will women not be harmed.
observed that men who like the new and dislike the old have these very obvious characteristics. Even if you only see a little bit of it, please stay vigilant and stop losses in time.