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shared a story some time ago. A couple that we were very optimistic about finally chose to break up.

The reason for breaking up is that boys say that girls are always picky about him; girls say that boys never seek advancement.

No matter what the reason is, the two people who were once so loving have now parted ways to find their own new lives.

Sometimes, love really doesn’t depend on time. The key is to see if you love the right person and what kind of person you have met.

1. After eleven years of dating, we broke up.

I saw a story on the Internet. A boy worked hard all the way from a small village. Now he has finally made some achievements. He feels that he can give his girlfriend a future.

He had mentioned marriage more than once before, but his girlfriend always refused for various reasons. He didn't dare to force it and just stayed with her silently.

Until he got the news that his father was seriously ill, he begged his girlfriend to help him fulfill his father's last wish. He hoped that his girlfriend could take a family photo with him and his parents.

My girlfriend didn’t agree at first, but then she couldn’t resist and took a photo. He thought that his girlfriend could finally accept him, and he thought that his girlfriend would also feel sorry for him.

However, what he didn't expect was that what was waiting for him that night was not a message of greetings, but a breakup text message. My girlfriend broke up with her quickly.

In the past eleven years, the boy has tried his best to make the other party feel his love. He has never disobeyed his girlfriend's request.

However, when I faced a problem and needed help the most, the other person left me without hesitation. In the past time, I seemed like a clown.

In fact, many times, many people have similar questions: "Obviously I have worked so hard, and she obviously knows how important she is to me, why does she still hurt me?"

Perhaps, it is like Eason Chan As written in the lyrics: "What you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored are confident."

2. The person who accompanies you all the way

What is love? Some people think that love is giving. It is the waiting of "someone is standing with me at dusk, and someone is asking me if the porridge is warm."

Some people also say that love is companionship. It is the action and practice that I am willing to accompany you no matter the wind, frost, snow or rain.

However, in fact, the expression of love is not fixed and unique. There must be different expressions for different people.

There are people like writer San Mao who dare to love and hate, and there are people like Abramovich who will let you go after walking the longest road.

But no matter what kind of love it is, no matter whether this love has an ending that everyone in the world will like, it all requires people to give to each other.

A person who loves you will not just accept without giving. A person who loves you will not just promise but not fulfill it; a person who loves you will make you feel that you are loved.

Perhaps, for some calm people, they are not good at expressing their attitude towards love, but even so, they can still express it.

proves it from their actions and from their eyes, he will tell you that after meeting you, the world has become colorful.

3. Love needs to be proven

No one will want to get married in his whole life. However, some people can't meet the person they want to get married to, so they simply choose not to do anything.

But if they accidentally discover the right person one day, maybe he will fall in love as fast as lightning, and then be out of control.

The person they met would accompany him through many different days. He would accompany him to appreciate flowers, cry with him, watch the stars with him, and chat with him about the universe and life.

When two souls who were strangers learn to understand and accept each other, they have fallen in love and their story will begin.

But if you meet the wrong person, they are just travelers in your life. Then, no matter how much you give, the other person will not be grateful to you.

is the most. When he leaves, he will take off his hat to you and thank you for your efforts. I'm sorry that he can't accompany you for the rest of his life.

Love is actually a very simple and complex thing. Love is love, and not loving means not loving. Love may turn into non-love, but non-love will not turn into love.

If you find that the love you thought was just constantly squeezing your value, you find that the other party only accepts and never responds.

Then, please leave him. This person loves himself more than he loves you. Or maybe he never loved you.

4. Find the right person first, then fall in love.

The person who loves you can pay for you, but this does not mean that he is only worthy of paying for you. He should also feel your concern.

Those who cherish you can accompany you to endure hardships. Until then, this does not mean that she only deserves to endure hardships. Please remember that she also needs love.

When any relationship reaches a certain stage, it will always go to the next process. If not, then maybe he is not the most suitable person.

Of course, there are people who are still happy in love throughout their lives. The key point is not whether you choose marriage, but whether you choose the right person.

and above, I wish you sweet dreams and good night.