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Introduction:
A 58-year-old aunt remarried a 42-year-old man for 7 months. Aunt: I am too old to take care of anyone. . What happened? Let’s take a look!
Aunt Lan, 58 years old
I have been living alone since my husband passed away five years ago. In fact, I have two sons. Logically speaking, I should live with my sons, but because my two daughters-in-law and I don’t get along very well, we often talk to each other. Because there are different views on one thing, no one wants to give in to anyone. Now that I have lived to this age, I finally understand.
Both sons have their own lives. As an elder, I should disturb and interfere with them. When I was young, my husband and I bought two houses and two shops. I have paid attention to physical maintenance since I was young and have always insisted on it. I have maintained good health through exercise over the years. I am able to live on my own and do not want to live with my son. In the first two years of
, I felt that living alone was quite good. I was free and unrestrained. I could do whatever I wanted, no one would care about me, and no one would tell me. During the day, my sisters and I went to the park to play cards, and in our later years we went to the park to dance. But sometimes, I stayed at home alone with no one around me, and I felt very lonely.
Since I was 55 years old, I have accepted blind date introductions from relatives and friends. I thought that in my later years, I would still find a wife from the same place and face the future life together. I went on blind dates with 10 people in one year, but none of them were successful, because none of them satisfied me. I wanted to find a healthy and interesting person to be my companion, but none of these blind dates met my requirements.
My monthly rental income is 8,000 yuan, and I have good economic conditions. Last year, I participated in a tour group trip. During this period, I met 42-year-old Wang Wei. He is humorous and a joker. I think Wang Wei is A very interesting person. And Wang Wei, like me, likes to exercise and values health.
Although there is an age gap between Wang Wei and I, we always have endless topics to talk about, and he and I quickly became good friends. Later, Wang Wei invited me to work out together, and our relationship became better and better. On Valentine's Day last year, Wang Wei confessed his love to me with a rose. At that time, I saw his eyes full of love, and I immediately accepted his pursuit.
After Wang Wei and I got together, my sister said that there is a 16-year age difference between Wang Wei and me. Wang Wei is handsome and has a strong body. If he has the conditions, he can find a young and beautiful girl. Why should he look for someone my age? My sisters are worried that Wang Wei is not sincere to me, and feel that he is not with me because of love, but because he wants my money.
I think love is hard to come by. At the end of last year, Wang Wei and I got married. I thought we would be happy in the future. But what I didn't expect was that after marriage, Wang Wei didn't take the initiative to do housework or take care of the hygiene. He left everything to me. Wang Wei said that women should do everything at home. I think he is a grown man. Activists.
Once I was sick and had no way to buy groceries and cook, I thought Wang Wei could cook for me. But he ordered me takeout directly. I really had no appetite at all. Since marrying Wang Wei, I have never had a good life. I feel like he is my own child and I have to take care of him every day.
Wang Wei's immaturity made me feel very tortured. After 7 months of marriage, I was exhausted both physically and mentally and no longer wanted to live like this. I said to Wang Wei: "I am too old to take care of others. After marriage, you did not take on your due responsibilities and left me to do everything. I think this kind of marriage is meaningless. Let's divorce."
Wang Wei didn't hesitate at all after hearing this. He said, "I married you because I saw you were rich. You thought I really liked you. I've been tired of it these past few months, so I just left!" No! Thinking that Wang Wei is such a person, I was really blind and fell in love with him at first. Now that I am sober, I think it is better to find a partner of similar age.
