Foreword:
Cohabitation before marriage is now a very common phenomenon. Many young people like to live together before marriage, and some elderly people also think this way is good. 59-year-old Aunt Wei also lives with her boyfriend, but Aunt Wei However, he said that after living with a second-married man, he could see the true face of the other person. Let's take a look at what happened!
Aunt Wei's narrative:
In the year I retired, I divorced my original husband, because I have tolerated him for many years, and I really can’t live with him, then At that time, my children felt quite incomprehensible. They felt that after so many years, why did they divorce at that time? I don’t want to explain too much. I think I’m getting older and I should live for myself. The things that my original partner and wife have done have hurt me too much. I have never crossed that hurdle. Every time I think of my original partner. Those things my wife did, I felt particularly angry.
After I gave birth to my baby, my body has not recovered. At that time, I was busy with the baby and I didn’t have time to pay attention to it. But at this time, my husband cheated. Later I asked why my husband was in At this time, my husband derailed, and then my husband told me that he thought I was unsightly at that time, and it was annoying to look at me, so he derailed. At that time, I was really angry and I wanted to divorce my husband. But my parents told me to bear it. My parents said that many men are like this, as long as my husband corrects.
Later, I did not divorce my husband, but I also had a bad time. Because of that incident, I always hate my husband, even after many years have passed, I still did not let go, so after retiring, I decided to live for myself. I didn't want to live that kind of forbearance, so I divorced my husband.
After my husband and I divorced, I often travelled. Later I met Mr. Zhang. Mr. Zhang had a history of marriage. Because his wife cheated, he divorced his wife.
At that time, Mr. Zhang often shrieked at me, he cared about me very much, so I came together with Mr. Zhang, and we became lovers.After falling in love, Mr. Zhang asked me to live with him, because he lives alone and his house is relatively large. He said he felt very lonely living in that house by himself, so I happened to live alone. , I also feel very lonely living alone, so I went to live with him.
When we first moved in together, Mr. Zhang was quite diligent. He would get up every morning to make breakfast for me and walk with me when he was free. But after living together for a while, Mr. Zhang became more He became more lazy. He didn’t do housework at home, and Mr. Zhang was particularly stingy. At that time, I was going to buy groceries. When I asked Mr. Zhang for money, Mr. Zhang always said that he had no money. In fact, Zhang It's not that the husband has no money, but he is not willing to give me money. Mr. Zhang has more than 6000 pensions a month, how could he have no money?
Later, Mr. Zhang also liked fishing, and then went out fishing with friends all day long, often not at home for ten and a half months, I think this life is too tired, so I will follow Zhang later My husband separated. After living with Mr. Zhang, I could see the true face of Mr. Zhang. Mr. Zhang regarded me as a nanny, and he was still an unpaid nanny. I was spending my own money to serve Mr. Zhang. I thought I feel very uncomfortable here.
Concluding remarks:
It is really uncomfortable to live with such a person. The other party does not really love yourself, but just wants to find a nanny for yourself, so it is better to stop the loss in time and separate early.
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