Lead:
As we all know, there are more and more elderly people in our country now. They are in urgent need of someone to take care of them after their old age, and the corresponding thing is, Now many of our families They are all only children. In this case, if our elderly can basically take care of themselves, even if our elderly only has one child, this child can barely take care of the elderly, but if it is ours If the elderly have completely lost the most basic living ability, at this time the only child of the elderly, it is probably difficult to take care of our elderly with all their heart.
So at this time, the emergence of a new type of professional live-in nanny can really solve this problem faced by many of our elderly and children. Although being a live-in nanny can be both male and female compatriots. Yes, And if it is said to serve the disabled elderly, the male housekeeper is obviously more dominant. No, our 72-year-old Aunt Lu hired a 42-year-old guy to take care of her in her old age. The nanny came to take care of her, but then she said : Asking the other person to take care of her. At first, she was satisfied, but it made me angry. What is going on, let's find out!
Talker: 72-year-old Aunt Lv
In the earliest days, I thought that my old age was quite happy. At that time, the monthly pensions of my husband and I were combined. 13,000 yuan. In addition, my wife and I have spent a lot of effort in the early years. The three door-faced houses we purchased also earned 60,000 yuan each year. The most critical and important point was that at that time My wife and I are in very good health.
Because of this,At that time, my wife and I were two people. In our old life, it was just not to mention how chic. We both spent most of the day thinking about how to enjoy life. After all, we have retired. There is nothing to do, so for the rest of our lives, we should enjoy life, and we also have the financial strength at the time.
It’s just that all the good things came to an abrupt end 6 years ago, because my spouse fell ill and passed away, although after the death of his spouse, my financial situation is not too bad. A big change, but I suddenly lost my loved ones in my later years. At that time, I suddenly no longer had any mood or interest, and I continued to enjoy life for the rest of my life.
Therefore, after the death of my husband, I spent every day in a drowsy state, but not long after, unfortunate things found me again, that is my right half of the body. Suddenly I couldn't move anymore. Although I was in grief at the time, since it had already happened, I had to face it, and avoiding it was no way.
Although I have a son, and his son has always treated me very well, but I did not expect my son to take care of me at the time, because of the long-term relationship between me and my daughter-in-law It was all very stiff. For the sake of maintaining the happiness of my son’s family, I naturally couldn’t do this, but then I came up with a new idea, which is to hire a live-in nanny to take care of me.
And because I have never hired a live-in nanny, I told the housekeeping company that they would send a live-in nanny to take care of me. Later, the housekeeping company sent me a woman in her 40s. Take care of me. To tell the truth, I was quite satisfied with the housemaid at the time, but who would have thought that after only taking care of me for half a month, they decisively resigned to me.
Originally, I had to resign because of the low salary.I said that I would raise my salary, but they said, "Auntie, you are too heavy. No matter how much money you give, I can't take care of you." It suddenly dawned on me that it seemed that I had overlooked my 180 jin. Weight, so after the housekeeper left, the housekeeping company sent me a 42-year-old guy to take care of me according to my request.
This 42-year-old guy has a head of 175 and a very burly figure. I fell in love with him at the first glance, so I decided to let him stay and take good care of me in the future, the guy said. I was too heavy, so he asked me to pay him a salary of 8,000 yuan a month, and I agreed with one bite. After all, I am not bad.
Maybe it’s because I agreed to the guy’s high salary requirement, so in the future, when the guy takes care of me, he will be very dedicated, and he won’t have any food for a week. He will do the same thing, and the food he cooks is particularly delicious. He cleans the hygiene at home at least twice a day. The various housework also allows him to do impeccable.
Although I have a weight of 180 pounds, he will help me to go to the square to breathe fresh air and exercise every morning. In the afternoon, I also help me to go outside to talk to others, as long as it is not special He is like this every day in the bad weather. The guy's performance made me very satisfied and moved. After that, I gave him red envelopes every other day, and sometimes I even bought things for him from trustees.
And my generosity also made the guy feel that my financial situation is good, so after that, he kept asking me for processing capital, although I knew his request was not It was reasonable, but I still agreed to his request. Later, my salary for him has risen to 10,000 yuan a month. Originally, I thought that the guy should know how to get enough, so I have to take good care of me in the future.
but I never expected it,However, the young man made further progress, and he even had other "bad attempts" against me. One night I was sitting in the living room watching TV. At this time, the young man suddenly said to me, "You are divorced and I am widowed. I want to live with you, and will stay with you until the end of life," Wait a minute, this scared me.
I immediately rejected his request, I told him, I am so old, it is not appropriate for me to be with you at all, if you really want to find a partner , You should find someone about the same age as you, but he couldn't listen to what I said. On the contrary, he saw that my attitude was so determined, so in the future, he will not only stop taking care of me as much as before. On the contrary, he would falsely report to me at least 3,000 yuan for living expenses every month, and even later he rummaging around in my house without paying attention.
Although at the beginning, I was quite satisfied with the guy’s performance, but what he did now made me very angry, so on the second day, I decisively gave him I was fired, and at the same time I told his housekeeping company about his various performances, and then the housekeeping company assured me that they would send me a more reliable male housekeeper to take care of me, and I agreed.
Small epilogue:
Aunt Lu is really an unfortunate old man, is still in good condition after her death in her old age. Her body was hemiplegia, and afterwards, in order to get other people's care, she paid for a 42-year-old guy to take care of her. At the beginning, she was still very satisfied with the guy, but later on the guy. What she did made her very angry, and for the purpose of protecting her vital interests, she decisively chose to fire him. And the occurrence of this incident should also cause all of us to think deeply.
First of all, we have to understand one thing. The reason why this kind of thing appears and happens to our Aunt Lu is more of the reason: This guy hired by our Aunt Lu, his person There must be big problems in morality and professional ethics. This is beyond doubt, but at the same time, our Aunt Lu is not without any mistakes, and the biggest mistake she has made is that she This person is too kind. As the old saying goes: "You can't be too kind, otherwise he will think you respect him, and he can put his nose on you." This sentence is exactly what she did for her. The best interpretation.
So I think that when our old people hire a live-in nanny to take care of themselves in their old age, our old people can treat the live-in nanny they hired better, but we are The good things in it should be controllable, not unlimited. Otherwise, if you are too good to the other party, it will be easy to be used and misunderstood by the other party, which will cause endless harm to yourself. Pain and trouble, at the same time as our live-in nanny, we must adhere to our professional ethics and ethics at all times, and we must not attract others' disdain and disdain because of our own selfish interests!
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