Three months ago, my wife, who had been married for four years, had a divorce.
The moment I got the divorce certificate, I was relieved. I don't know how she would describe me in front of others, but I admit, I hit a woman for the first time in my life. In your eyes, it is commonly known as "domestic violence".
My ex-wife and I met through blind date a few years ago, and we all belong to the most common kind of income in society: working class, parents, The result of a lifetime of hard work is for us to buy a car, buy a house and get married. If nothing else, our lives will be like this in the future, and the cycle will go back and forth again.
Because the conditions are similar in all aspects, we get along more pleasingly, so after the first blind date, my ex-wife and I quickly established a romantic relationship. Half a year later, we got the certificate and got married.
After living together, I found that our personalities are actually very suitable. I am outgoing and enthusiastic, she is rational and calm, and can manage the family, so she has always been happy after marriage. She has always been responsible for the financial power of the family. I will pay her all the money that is as big as the money received from the marriage, and the salary as small as my salary.
She doesn't like cooking and housework, so I take care of these things too. I think it hurts me to marry my wife. I can do everything I can to do by myself, and there is no law that requires women to do housework.
I don't know if I am too used to her, so I have something to come. About two years after marriage, I asked for a child, but she has been reluctant. One time I said that I didn't like children, another time I said it would be very hard to raise a child with our abilities, and another time I said that it hurts to have a child.
After that, I still compromised, thinking that what she said also made sense. It was indeed too selfish for me to force her to have a baby, so I decided that we would regenerate when she wanted to have a baby. At that time, I thought it was because she disliked me that I couldn't make much money, so I tried my best to make more money and save money. Later I realized that she just didn't want to have a baby with me.
One work transfer,The company transferred me to City A, which took me more than two hours to drive from home. I didn't want to agree, but I still compromised in terms of making more money, but due to the distance, I can only go home every weekend, and I have become a different place with her.
She complained to me several times about this, but when I saw that the salary I got was getting more and more, I stopped talking about it. However, this situation just lasted for a year, and there was an accident.
I don’t know since when, my wife always resisted our weekly husband and wife life, every time I put forward 6span, strong_span _strong16 Rejected on the grounds of "tired" and "unwell." I find it strange for a long time, but I have never thought about someone outside her.
One time when she went home, she was suddenly very sexual. I was also a little surprised at the time. That night we unlocked several poses that we had never seen before. Afterwards, I smoked in the bathroom, recalling the things she took the initiative to guide me to do, and the look of enjoyment on my face. At that time, I had a big alarm bell in my heart, , she probably had this kind of experience with other men.
I had no intention of working that week,During the day, I worked hard to work, and after I got off work, it was all this thing in my head. I took a leave of absence on Thursday and returned home a day earlier.
As soon as I entered the house, I knew that my guess was real. There was no one at home at that time, and all my toiletries, towels, slippers, etc. were gone. If a stranger comes for the first time, he will never feel that there is a man living in this family.
The bedroom strong contains a lot of messy sets of toilet paper and 16strong cans.
See this, everyone understands. Yes, I was greened by my wife. I called her on the spot, and she rushed home within 5 minutes of the 15-minute journey. At first, she refused to admit it, but instead kept accusing me of not trusting her. Later, when I said to go to the property to monitor the monitoring, she quieted down and acquiesced.
I was so angry when I watched her grievances, and I was disgusted when I thought of the images of these dogs and men turning over and over in my bed. At that time, I couldn't control myself at all, strong and rushed to . Slapped her.
Faced with this sudden slap,She stayed too, and then started crying, crying while confessing her mistakes, roughly meaning that she was also confused for a while, and from time to time cited the topic of "I spend too little time with her". I know that her tears are not regretting cheating at all, but regretting that she did not hide enough and was discovered by me.
I want to ask who has less time with her. He said I didn't accompany her, so would she accompany me? Everyone is lonely, so why didn't I go to find another woman when I was lonely? Does she have to go outside to find a man? I was too lazy to break with her and returned to City A overnight with my backpack.
After I returned to City A, I did not talk about this matter with anyone, and instead spent half a month in my recent work. After that, I took a long vacation from the company and returned home and asked for a divorce. This is definitely not an impulse. From the moment I knew the truth, I had already made this decision.
At first the ex-wife did not agree to the divorce, and even let the father-in-law and mother-in-law come to my house as lobbyists to persuade me. I stood in front of the old couple that day and pointed to my ex-wife and said: "There are only 0 and countless derailments, and she will have countless times when she has the first time. There are only zero and countless domestic violence, the first time. I beat her, and after she came out again, I will take another shot. If you don’t want your daughter to lie in the hospital, don’t persuade me!"
finished,The old couple didn't say anything again, and finally they left our house with their ex-wife. After the cooling-off period, we are still divorced. My parents bought the house and belonged to me. The car was bought by her parents and belonged to her. The deposit is half of one person.
That day, she came to the house to clean up her last things. She didn't speak, but cried as she cleaned up. To be honest, for a moment, my heart softened, because I felt that she should really regret it at that time. But for a moment, the damage has been done. Even if we start over, the rift between our husband and wife will never be repaired. If we don’t separate now, we will separate. It’s just a matter of time.
After that, I returned to work in City A, this time not for others, but for myself.
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