What does it look like when a woman is completely disappointed in a person?
is the blame for hoarseness? Is it a fanfare condemnation? Actually none of them!
When a relationship really ends, the moment a woman puts it down completely, she will no longer cry hysterically, and she will not delete it in anger.
but no longer have any expectations of you, no longer care about your affairs, quietly put an end to this relationship.
As Fudan professor Chen Guo said:
to a person Disappointment, the sign is only two words: "silence"."Leaving with great fanfare is actually a test. Those who really leave are never saying goodbye."
Long-winded, because you still worry about
Maybe when a woman is nagging in front of you forever, you will feel very impatient, and even loudly rebuke: "You have Endless!"
But, why don't you think about it, why doesn't she nag in front of others, why not end up with others?
All the long-winded, in fact, there is only one reason, and that is worry and concern.
I once read such a story on the Internet:
A young couple, when they first got married, every time they got home from get off work, their wife would chat non-stop: Does work go well? Is your relationship with your colleagues good? The food in the cafeteria today is not to my appetite...
Regarding this,The husband either just gave a perfunctory response, or he acted impatiently and closed the door to play the game.
In this way, one is passionate as fire, and the other is indifferent as ice.
Over time, the wife has changed and she no longer nags. Even if the husband travels far away on business, the wife does not have any advice. In the end, the marriage of the two people also came to an end.
has a saying:
"In all the nagging, there is a deep feeling."
So, when a woman always talks to you, she always nags you. Stop, then you should feel grateful. Fortunately, there is someone who knows your coldness and warmth and cares about you with all your heart.
Once you become the other party, you are silent and talk less, then while you are pure, your love becomes weaker!
There is a quarrel, because you still care
Two people living together will inevitably encounter conflicts, and there must be times when they are not pleasing to each other. At this time, women quarrel with you, and you Is it really idle?
is obvious, no!
All quarrels are not for simply venting emotions, but for arguing for a little care and a little care.
In other words, all quarrels contain expectations for the other half.
In the TV series ", sons and daughters of the Qiao family ", Qiao Simei slapped Qi Chenggang when he learned that Qi Chenggang had been expelled due to work style problems. The second time he learned that Qi Chenggang was fighting outside, he screamed against Qi Chenggang. Roar.
And for the third time, after Qi Chenggang was isolated, Qiao Simei not only stopped making noises anymore, but took Qi Chenggang to the restaurant to order a lot of dishes.
and this time,It was also the time when Qiao Simei completely gave up on Qi Chenggang and filed for divorce.
Tu Lei said in "The Battle of Love":
"Everything doesn't matter, then your marriage does not matter."
In life, women will get angry with you, because of some It's normal for the disagreement to quarrel with you.
After all, two people are relatives and lovers. They will inevitably have more expectations of each other, and will naturally become emotional when they are disappointed.
And when a woman no longer cares about any mistakes you make, she no longer cares, then it is not because of generosity, but because she has no hope for you, and there is no place for you in her heart.
The silence is because it doesn’t matter
I have read this sentence:
"At the beginning, the heart was not there, and the rest was just indifference; when the feelings were gone, the rest was calm." _block
quote The people who have always shouted to leave with their throats are the ones who stooped to pick up the porcelain bowl that fell to the ground at the end.People who really want to leave are just picking a sunny afternoon, putting on a piece of ordinary clothes, and never coming back.
Yes, once you were her most intimate lover, she will tell you if she has grievances, and she will lose her temper at you if you make mistakes.
However, when she truly puts you down, you become an insignificant passer-by, and he no longer pays attention to or cares about everything you have.
In real life, we look at those couples and couples who never care about each other, never complain about each other,So apart from living together, what is the difference between them and strangers?
The so-called couple, the so-called marriage, is the superposition of two people's joy, anger, sorrow, and joy. There will be sweetness and anger. This completes the temperature of love.
As the poet Shimian said:
"The true feelings are casual but caring for each other; they are comfortable but cherish each other. Each is independent, but the hearts are together; each breathes, but love does not separate."
, When a woman is silent and doesn't care about anything about you, then it proves that love has disappeared.
Yi Shu said:
"Anyone who leaves you is not a sudden decision. People's hearts are slowly getting cold, the leaves are gradually yellowing, and the story is slowly written to the end. "
No matter how important the person is, you will be disappointed a lot, and it is no longer important. The last two people have nothing to say, and goodbye has become a distant future.
It is a great fate that two people can meet and fall in love among thousands of people.
For the rest of my life, I hope that all couples who are together can stand by and love each other until they grow old, and practice the vows they once made to each other for life.
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Author: Liyu Weiliang, a writer who likes to express personal opinions in words and focuses on the field of emotion.
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