wen | Nine Nine Chronicles
Marriage is a matter of two people. Marriage is a matter of two families.
Only two people need to have emotional foundation to get married. And marriage contains too much content.
One of the most important is the contradiction and running-in between the original big family and the newly formed small family.
People often say that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to get along with. In fact, there is another kind of relationship between aunt and sister-in-law that is worse than the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law if it is not handled properly.
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Xiaolei and Wenwen fell in love on campus. After graduation, the two of them got married under the arrangement of their family.
Wenwen's family conditions are good, her mother is a teacher, her father is a businessman, and her family conditions are good.
I saw that there is a younger sister under Xiaolei. Xiaolei was six years older than her sister when she got married and her sister-in-law was in college.
Xiaolei's parents are ordinary working class, and the family lives in a 90-square-meter house.
Wenwen's parents feel sorry for their daughter. When they got married, they only asked for a dowry of 100,000 yuan as a dowry for a suite and a car.
Wenwen didn't want to live with her in-laws after marriage. After marriage, she and Xiaolei moved to the wedding room that her parents bought for her.
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After getting married, the couple's life was quite peaceful. Mengmeng didn't have much interaction with her husband's family. She only occasionally stayed with her husband at her husband's house for a period of time during New Year's and festivals.
spent a short time together in Chinese and found that Xiaolei's whole family seems to be indulgent towards his sister-in-law, and it can even be said to be a little doting.
When I see Wenwen's phone, I can't put it down and ask how much? Said he had always wanted to buy one of these.
This made Wenwen a little embarrassed and said that her parents bought it, and the sister-in-law ran to her in-laws and said she wanted to change her mobile phone.
The mother-in-law had no choice but to say that she would give her sister-in-law a new phone after using it for a while. Just when her husband heard it, she said that she didn't need to buy it. "Your sister-in-law said that she wanted to change her phone, so I'll give you this phone later!"
Wenwen doesn't like the taste in my heart. Is the mobile phone that I bought thousands of dollars still brand new? I just happened to see a new mobile phone some time ago and said a few words casually. Who would have thought that my sister-in-law looked at her mobile phone, and her husband turned his head and agreed to accept it. Now Wenwen doesn't want to give it, so she has to give it.
Wenwen felt very uncomfortable in her heart, but she had said all her words. For the sake of family harmony, Wenwen could only reluctantly part with her love.
After this incident, Wenwen made up his mind to keep this little sister-in-law at a distance.
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But it didn't work out. But the little sister-in-law always likes to come to her house from time to time. She said that her brother came to see her, but every time she came, she had to take away some literary things, from clothes and bags, to cosmetics cards and even lipsticks that had already been opened. Let go.
Every time Wenwen complained to her husband, Xiaolei always said: You are a sister-in-law, let her be more~ You are a sister-in-law~ You are a sister-in-law...
Listening to Wenwen's ears are getting calluses, but there is nothing I can do. Can suffocate yourself.
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Wenwen is pregnant. Due to the large reaction during pregnancy, there is no other way but to take maternity leave in advance.
Wenwen's dowry car is used by her husband to commute after maternity leave.
Some time ago, my husband said that he was going on a business trip out of town. It might take a little longer for Wenwen to take care of himself at home.
When my husband is not at home and can't do the maternity check, I can only take the bus by myself.
On the bus, sometimes it's fine when there are few people, but when there are many people, it's airtight and the air is turbid, making Wenwen feel like she's suffocating.
When Wenwen went to pick up things from her in-laws, she accidentally saw her car in the parking lot at the gate of the community. Wenwen thought her husband came back early.
When I went to the house, only my in-laws and sister-in-law were in the house. After asking, I found out that my husband had not come back.
Wenwen's heart is already clear, needless to say, this car must be driven by my sister-in-law.
Wenwen called her husband when he got home. It turned out that he didn't drive when he was on a business trip. Before leaving, my sister-in-law said: My mother-in-law has suffered from back pain again. She said that she borrowed a car from Xiaolei in order to facilitate her to take her to the hospital, and Xiaolei agreed.
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Wenwen was very angry when she heard this. Dare to go to the bus for a pregnancy check-up, but my sister-in-law drives her car around the world to play.
My husband lent me a car and didn't even say a word. Thinking of this article, I was even more angry.
It's been a week since my husband came back, and I haven't seen my sister-in-law bring the car over. Wenwen asked her husband to ask for it, but her husband has always shied away from her husband's favoritism, her parents-in-law's protection, and her sister-in-law's unscrupulous life. Such a life without boundaries really makes Wenwen go crazy. .
If it goes on like this, the car has really become the exclusive property of my sister-in-law.
Thinking of his soon-to-be-born child Wenwen, he felt that he couldn't swallow it like that anymore.
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Wenwen sold the car to a friend in private, because they knew the basics of each other and the procedures were done very quickly, and the next step was to deliver the car.
On this day, Wenwen's friend directly called a tow truck to tow the car away, but the sister-in-law couldn't stop it, and the sister-in-law's friend was dumbfounded.
My sister-in-law felt ashamed and cried with her in-laws when she went home. Wenwen's husband here heard about it and felt that Wenwen had gone too far. After get off work, she was furious and prepared to have a good theory with Wenwen.
came home, the room was deserted and dark.
Xiaolei turned on the light, and Wenwen sat on the sofa and stared at Xiaolei without a word, which scared Xiaolei enough.
took a closer look, and there was a divorce agreement on the table.
This time, Xiaolei was stunned, but he couldn't say a word when he wanted to blame Wenwen.
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Wenwen calmly tells about the grievances and unhappiness that her husband has made him feel wronged and unhappy since his marriage, one condition at a time... Calm like telling someone else's story, but Xiaolei is inexplicably startled.
It turned out that after getting married, he never came out of his original family, so that his wife suffered so many grievances with him.
Wenwen said that there are two ways for the husband in the end, one is divorce, no children, and each is safe. One leaves the family of origin, returns to a small family, and the two live their own lives.
The husband also realized his own problems, and the two talked openly and honestly. After the estrangement was eliminated, the husband and wife were reconciled as before.
The next day, my husband took Wenwen to my in-laws' house for dinner.
When the sister-in-law was still complaining, her husband interrupted her decisively and defended Wenwen, saying that in the future, the sister-in-law would be able to support her on her own.
My in-laws didn't say anything anymore when they saw that their son was defending Wenwen from Wenwen's standpoint.
A family dispute was resolved in just a few words from the husband.
After the child was born, the in-laws also came to help actively, and the family was lively. Even the sister-in-law, whom she hadn't seen for a long time, became more polite to her sister-in-law.
Xiaobian's message:
If a family wants to be harmonious and happy, a sense of proportion is essential, especially for families who have their own small families.
Getting married is not abandoning the family of origin! Rather, it is to build a new world with the love and responsibility given by the original family, so that this warm love can be passed on!
People often say that distance makes beauty! With distance, people can have their own time and space, and can manage their own lives well.
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