The confrontation between children and their parents during adolescence is rebellion, which is a false proposition.
Not all children will fight against their parents.
The child confronted his parents. This situation had occurred long before puberty, but during puberty, he dared to claim his rights even more.
Adolescent is a very special stage. They desire a more independent space. They continue to expand outward. Their thoughts gradually mature, gradually form their own worldview, and have their own views and attitudes on many issues.
They no longer trust many of their parents' words, but they can express their opinions. When the two views are different, if both sides are stronger, conflicts will arise.
We are a process of continuous growth. Sooner or later, all children will grow up, sooner or later, and will leave their parents' wings. They no longer attach themselves to their parents like they did when they were young, and always long for their parents' company.
When children reach adolescence, they will have some things that they are unwilling to tell their parents and will no longer share with their parents.
As long as it is a human, everyone will have their own secrets. Even if a baby is having fun, if someone around him disturbs him, he will continue to cry, and the baby will also have the will to be alone, let alone he is growing up slowly.
When a child reaches adolescence, he needs his parents' understanding, trust and respect. If he can't get it, he will gradually no longer be willing to share what he sees, hears, and thinks with his parents.
This is also human nature. If you get negative and negative information, how can you be willing to communicate with each other? How can your relationship not become more and more distant?
has reached a certain level, and the closest blood relationship is like a stranger when they get along. An effective solution to
is to listen carefully to his ideas, opinions and opinions, and affirm the part he agrees with.
When the child tells us, don’t interrupt him casually, give him some responses, and let him express himself actively. When he expresses his opinions clearly, some complexes in his heart will also be opened, which will also be helpful for the remission of some emotions. When he finds that his parents are willing to listen to him, he will feel respected and gradually open up more hearts to his parents.
It is not that easy to discover the inner world of adolescent children from the perspective of children, because everyone's inner world is very broad, just like the sea, with wind and waves, calm waves, and vast seas and sky. There is no fixed format or fixed routine.
A child will face many difficulties and challenges when growing up, as well as his sadness and sadness, and he also has a lot of fragility in his heart. As a parent, he will always be his strongest backer and most loyal listener.
The process of children's growth is also the process of parents gradually lowering themselves, lowering themselves, and achieving the growth of their children. Squat down, bend down, and look at the child's world from the perspective of the child. Only when the child gains respect can the parent-child relationship be more harmonious.
Only when a close parent-child relationship can the children be willing to listen to our opinions.
Think about it carefully, the child's adolescence may be the time when he has the closest relationship with his parents in his life, and he will have his own life path, his own work, and his own family in the future.
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