The "game" between college students and parents is reflected in all aspects. When you are at home, you must fight wits and courage so that students can strive for more sleep time, and when you are in school, you must sell misery and seek sympathy, and you can strive for more pocket money. In short, there is a process, and when college students graduate, they will be much better.
However, incompetent college students will try their best to trick parents into making more money after graduating from college. This trick also shows signs in college. A parent said that his child tried every means to ask for living expenses, which has formed a vicious cycle. She asked for help and everyone can help her.
"If you don't have a son's life, you won't be a son's illness." A college student is not enough to spend 2,000 a month, and was angrily criticized by his parents. The parent said that he rejected the requirement of his freshman son to increase his living expenses. bluntly said, "If you don't have a son's life, you won't be a son's illness"! What is the reason why parents say this? It turned out that 2,000 yuan a month was not enough for college students, so they were angrily criticized by their parents. My son is in his freshman year. Parents naturally need to pay attention to the students' dynamics, and the students have also set up a group in advance to inform parents if you have any questions. , for example, when you have no money, it is better to ask parents for it in time.
Look at this chat record and you will find that the student is asking parents for money. The balance of the two cards is still more than 400 left. He wants to go out to play basketball at night, and he needs to spend the ball, car fare and meal fees, which are a lot of money inside and outside.
However, his parents also directly refuted, saying that 10 days are 1,500, how much does a month cost? You are a student now, so don’t order takeout if you don’t have delicious food, but you can also see from the screenshot that the student spent 28.88 yuan on a midnight snack, and at least two times of milk tea, which is indeed more expensive than many students.
Seeing that the parents were unmoved, the students even brought out "rescue". said bluntly that they had the first place in English test, and the pressure of group discussion was to play, which meant that they worked very hard in their studies, and they spent money on dinner parties and other things, and they did not spend it randomly, but parents still did not eat this set. The woman who asked for help also said that if you want to be carefree, you can go to the school to work on your own, and parents will also support it.
didn't expect that this student directly called his mother "big brother". It's really too naive. Are there really college students who talk to parents in this tone now?
Students think that their academic performance is good, so they should be rewarded, and they should not work and study part-time. must be well studied so that they can make more money in the future. Parents are speechless and are still reasoning to the students, but the students seem to not understand, and they are still acting coquettishly and seeking "help".
No wonder parents have a headache. How many parents can have such a son who is not having a headache? According to students, working part-time study seems to have become a mistake.
. If you go to college, you don’t have enough living expenses. Is it difficult to work and study?
According to this student, working part-time will undoubtedly waste time. is the act of losing big money and picking up small money. If you can spend time on enriching yourself, you will face employment with a better attitude after graduation and have more opportunities to make big money in the future.
But then again, is it really difficult to work and study when there is not enough cost of living in college? The answer is no. For many students, they must have normal self-care ability and the ability to allocate pocket money reasonably when they go to college. If the money given by parents is not enough to spend, they can work and study half-time.
Although college students can’t make much money in a month when working part-time, about 800 to 1,000, it can allow students to understand what it means to be hard-won. The good living conditions created by parents for themselves are not necessary, but learning to be independent is necessary.
If you look down on making only this little money for a month, you will find a way to make it. is as unreasonable as this student, which is indeed a bit too naive. What's more, 2,000 a month is not a small amount. Many students still have a good time 1,000 a month, which is almost the same.However, not all the problems lie with students, and parents' indulgence is also the reason why students are becoming more and more difficult to manage.
What can parents do when facing students who are squandering their squandering in college?
Don’t give students too much living expenses at one time. is a good idea for students who are not sure to set a reasonable amount per month and pay it per week. This way, you can maintain close contact. If you need to make an extra call, it is also a good choice.
Try to buy daily necessities for students. should neither be too harsh nor too relaxed. It is too strict to be afraid of students learning badly, and it is too loose to be afraid of students learning badly. Then we should start from the fundamental point and educate students to develop good habits of saving.
at the end: In fact, everyone who has experienced it knows that when you are in college, you have to rely on yourself to live. There is no concept of saving money at all. Generally, you pay online and spend money like flowing water. But one day after graduation, you will know that it is difficult to make money, so students should also understand their parents more.
Moreover, young people are more patriotic nowadays, but patriotism cannot just shout slogans. Since you want the country to develop better and better, you must carry forward the traditional Chinese virtues. Isn’t it?
Today’s topic: How much do you think college students can control their pocket money for a month?
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