Recently, Guangzhou’s education topics have reached the top of the list again.
Don’t you think I want to talk about campus bullying ? To be honest, I believe that all parents who have watched the video are indignant. Uncle Wan, as a second child, wants to hit someone through the screen.
The epidemic has recently made a comeback. Many children take online classes at home, and the parent circle complains a lot every day because of online classes.
parental emotional fluctuations diagram
counted, and it has been a year since the epidemic. This year, due to the epidemic, the development of online classes in Guangzhou has been repeated, and many reforms and changes in education have been seen during this period.
As a parent of primary school students who have experienced the "double reduction" stage, today I will mainly share with you the changes before and after the "double reduction" of their children and their own feelings.
"double reduction" before
courageously "chicken score"
Currently, Uncle Wan's child is in the fourth grade, so he has experienced two years of "non-double reduction" + one year of "double reduction". Before
"double reduction", I was actually like many parents who are currently fully supporting their children's online classes, and worked hard to help their children complete the various learning tasks assigned by the school.
When I go to work, I am afraid that the teacher @ me. After get off work, I work hard to get a piece of grades. I am in chaos every day. I either end the day's "learning battle" with me or the child's tears.
Parents are most afraid of
It seems that there is not enough time every day, let alone have good parent-child communication and companionship . At that time, there were also children in the class who had to give up some interest classes because of the hard work of studying.
Note that all the above are just to keep up with the learning progress. What makes people feel even more stressful is that the grades are the best, and the results are used as reference in every detail. Under the influence of the atmosphere of
, parents are even more desperately trying to "chicken grades", extracurricular tutoring, one-on-one tutoring, online classes... while shouting that they are tired.
What's more, let first-grade children learn the multi-digit calculation in advance, and let third-grade children directly complete the English courses for the entire primary school stage.
I remember that at that time, even if I was taking online classes at home during the epidemic, looking through the parents' circle of friends + homework check-in, I could see that in order to achieve performance, many children not only studied in class, but also did a lot of extra exercises and test papers, and took extra-class online classes. The teacher likes this and has a very good review.
Then the next day you will find that more and more children have joined the "strive for performance" team. The pressure and suffocation of "strive for the best" of are coming, and the teacher will help you "not lie down" and the situation formed should be multi-volume and multiple volumes of .
How much online course mother’s dream
So the question is, spend a lot of time and energy on grades, how much can children take into account morality, physical fitness, aesthetics and labor?
(Anyway, I thought my child was so anxious before)
"double reduction"
Comprehensive development was officially put on the agenda
Since the "double reduction" was launched last year, the style of my child's school has begun to change...
cannot publish the results and make the child's grades become a mystery. However, once the child's knowledge points are not solid and the school performs poorly, the teacher will notify parents in the group with a student account, and the teacher will stay in class and the teacher will personally tutor and supervise.
English late reading / you should stay in class to read
Then like Uncle Wan found it a bit difficult mind map , under the guidance of the teacher, the children also succeeded in the school. (Uncle Wan felt that there were more parents involved in it)
Then, the school opened a vegetable garden, and each class has its own exclusive vegetable field, each responsible for sowing, watering, fertilizing, and harvesting... Even if the vegetables are divided into one by one, they must be taken home to taste the "joy of harvest" with their families.
and various university clubs are in full swing (screened by the teacher in charge) , and there are also traditional cultural clubs such as Cantonese opera and embroidery, and they are really not careless.
Like Uncle Wan’s child, he joined an embroidery club before National Day. His enthusiasm was so high that he forgot to eat and do needlework whenever he had time at home. Not to mention, although I have been studying for less than a month, the works below, from line draft to color matching to finished products, can be done by myself in one night.
There are also various internal and external competitions. Schools and teachers not only mobilize and encourage children to actively participate in school, but also recruit groups to follow up and guide them when necessary, and actively invite experienced parents to share their experiences.
. In order to better cultivate children's collective view and sense of responsibility, the points system has been moved from the original class system to the group system. While competition is formed between the groups, an atmosphere of mutual supervision and sharing of honor and disgrace is also formed within the group.
"Kill the chicken to warn the monkey" rectification portrayal
Even the election of the shift committee has opened up the voting mechanism to truly realize "restoring the people".
Once upon a time, Uncle Wan felt that it was a risky thing to shorten the time of subject study to develop children's various skills. After all, in the end, he still had to rely on scores to screen "seeds".
But this year, the magical thing is that children feel that going to school and studying has become easier and more interesting (the important thing is that learning has not been lost) not only has more aspects, but also has become more sensible and sensible, but also makes the parent-child relationship particularly harmonious. Even, I don’t have to worry that my child’s three views will go off...
At this point, I see the real meaning behind the “double reduction”!
Benevolent co-construction of schools and comprehensive development of children
is the real "double reduction"
Perhaps Uncle Wan is just one of the thousands of parents, representing the feelings of some parents.
Just like Uncle Wan, there are also parents who have always maintained the habit of chickens and children before double reduction. They not only maintain close contact and communication with the school and teachers, but also set an example, " chickens and children chickens and children first", and the children learn again after the cram school and teach them themselves.
Uncle Wan admired them, but his energy was limited and he was only able to lie flat. He did not ask his children to enter the seminary in the future, but just wanted to go to high school and college smoothly.
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Of course, the premise is that the child is physically and mentally healthy. It is OK to have small fights between children, but campus bullying is tolerated.
Although campus bullying is common, Uncle Wan believes that if the school management and guidance are in place and students' values of the three aspects are positive, it can greatly reduce the probability of occurrence.
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And the reason why famous schools can become famous schools is, in Uncle Wan’s view, the first thing is to manage . To allow so many students to move forward in a unified manner, how can they achieve without spending effort and relying on fame alone? !
Therefore, here Uncle Wan also suggests that you may pay more attention to the ranking of education schools around the project when buying a property. Behind the school name represents the school's management system, and the ranking is the accumulation of experience over the years .
Currently, it is for the classification of public junior high schools in Guangzhou. There is a folk name: super first-line public office, first-line public office, quasi first-line public office, and second-line public office, which is four gradients. You can refer to it.
As for, can school selection keep children away from harm?
The answer is not absolute, but as long as there is a 1% increase to avoid harm, parents will do it for their children, so so many parents are chasing prestigious schools and spending high prices to buy high-quality school district housing.
But then again, school selection may help children stay away from right and wrong, but the establishment of a family atmosphere is also very important. Among them, parents’ attention to their children and their emphasis on education are the key to education .
Of course, Uncle Wan is not tracing the blame to parents here. schools should also have the principle of "removing the rough and extracting the essence". Teachers should always adhere to the original intention of "teaching and educating people", and they need to wash away the sand from the big waves.
Bo and school co-construction, respect and understand each other, so as to create a good home-school atmosphere for children. In fact, it is the real "double reduction" and can better cultivate more comprehensive children with more comprehensive development !
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