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reveals the secret! Tsinghua How do parents train their children to go to Tsinghua? Peking University Mom teaches you how to educate the next generation like this! Stanford Mom highly recommends these extracurricular books! Must-see! Harvard The top ten parenting experiences summarized by fathers... In recent years, some self-media with titles in famous schools have become popular on the Internet by showing off their parenting views, parenting methods and parenting good things. Many parents are easily trapped in an educational anxiety created by "famous school parents" after following these accounts and cannot extricate themselves, which is ultimately not conducive to the growth and learning of their children.
Recently, the Ministry of Education responded to the "Proposal on Strictly Preventing Parents of Famous Schools" from members of the National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference to offset the effectiveness of "double reduction" work by members of the National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference, saying that it will continue to conscientiously implement the central government's important decisions and deployments on " double reduction " work, and jointly with the Central Cyberspace Affairs Office and other departments to continue to carry out online inspections, concentrate on hype about education hot spots, fabricate false information, exaggerate anxiety about going to school, insist on fighting when it appears, and attacking hard, and continue to maintain a high-pressure situation.
"Parents in famous schools" are actually true and false. Fake "Parents in famous schools" fabricate false information, which is a violation of regulations for posting information; while real "Parents in famous schools" output the concept of " Chicken and Baby " in the name of introducing their parenting experience. How should this be investigated? Starting from respecting the right of expression of each individual, real "Parents in famous schools" should be allowed to tell their parenting stories. As for whether their parenting philosophy affects other parents, it is necessary to strengthen the guidance of family education for parents to enable parents to understand the scientific parenting concept to enhance their recognition ability. It is also necessary to realize that the reason why "famous school parents" are attractive to parents is the current concept of only academic qualifications and only famous schools. Rather than saying that parents pursue "famous school parents", it is better to say that parents have a strong "famous school complex".
The self-media bloggers who claim to be "parents of famous schools" on the Internet are actually fake. Their children are not in famous schools, but they comment on educational hot topics as "parents of famous schools", analyze educational policies and "share" educational concepts to create and sell anxiety to attract traffic. For example, if you increase the quota allocation and enrollment for the high school entrance examination, you will immediately interpret how to seize the opportunity of quota allocation, analyze which region to take the high school entrance examination, and get more opportunities to enter prestigious schools, and use how you choose a school for your children back then to improve your persuasion. The interpretation of the policy by these "chicken baby accounts" is plausible. Some bloggers often have the support of real estate agents, and they are actually doing real estate sales advertisements.
Before the "double reduction", there was a shadow of commercial institutions behind almost every "chicken baby account", either an off-campus training institution or a real estate agency. For such "chicken baby numbers", local regulatory departments have carried out centralized governance, mainly targeting the illegal release of false information. After the "double reduction", with the significant reduction of off-campus subject training institutions, the "chicken and baby numbers" raised by off-campus training institutions have decreased accordingly, but some "parenting bloggers" continue to sell the "success science" of parenting.
It is not difficult to manage the "chicken baby account" that impersonates "famous school parents". You only need to ask the platform to verify the blogger's true identity and ask the blogger to submit the real information of the child. If you want to publish a document as a "parent in a prestigious school", you have the obligation to submit relevant information. There is a type of "chicken and baby numbers" that are "famous school parents" but are more complicated to manage. This is the "famous school parents" who are just like a fake one. Some of them are "tiger moms" and "tiger dads". They believe in exam-oriented education, instilling advanced education, only scores, and only famous schools in other parents, emphasizing the stratification and grading of education. For these "chicken and baby numbers" of "famous school parents", governance cannot be just a hindrance.
To make these "chicken and baby numbers" of "famous school parents" have no market, it is necessary to strengthen family education guidance for parents, tell parents the correct educational concepts and methods, and strengthen the interpretation of education reform policies.It should be noted that the family education guidance provided by many schools and communities currently takes catering to parents' utilitarian education demands as the starting point, including asking "famous school parents" to introduce how to train children to enter famous schools.
uses sending children to famous schools as a symbol of success in family education, which makes "parents in famous schools" synonymous with "successful parents". The root cause is that there is a "famous school complex" in our society, and family education revolves around how to get children to better schools. In fact, the most important family education is education on being a human being, and parents should pay more attention to the healthy development of their children's physical and mental health. A student who entered the secondary vocational school entrance examination and successfully started his own business and became an entrepreneur and was keen on charitable donations. From the perspective of family education, this is of course a successful family education. Even a student who goes to society to support himself and lives an ordinary but happy life, and his parents' family education is also successful. However, based on whether the child is admitted to a prestigious school, they may be unsuccessful parents. Therefore, this view of family education that is successful in famous schools must be abandoned. (The author is a well-known educational scholar)
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