Many parents have this question: Why do students have differences when teaching in the same classroom?
For example, some students can complete the homework assigned by the teacher quickly, while some students are working hard while they are working hard. In the end, everyone's learning performance will be shown through the exam results.
In fact, from the class teaching system, the main reason for the gap in 's grades is that students lack internal motivation to learn.
Especially after entering junior high school, everyone faces a variety of confusions.
For example, the troubles of adolescence, challenges in learning, and even confusion in interpersonal relationships can easily cause students to be distracted from learning. If you lack sufficient internal motivation, it will be difficult to focus on your studies.
In junior high school, want to improve the "internal drive" of children's learning?
Parents should take a look, don’t underestimate them.
1. Students lack internal motivation and are related to parents.
Many families believe that learning is the business of children.
Little do you know that parents' words and deeds still play a guiding role in adolescence children. Those students who are not serious about their studies have a lot to do with their parents’ influence.
How do parents’ words and deeds affect their children’s grades? The most common situations of
are often found in these ways.
First: Pay too much attention to your child’s grades.
When students' grades decline, parents will be aggressive and even accuse their children of being slack. In fact, the ups and downs of grades themselves are a common phenomenon. The result of parents paying too much attention to it will only increase the pressure on their children.
Second: Parents see too far, and children have limited cognition.
ushers in adolescence and children's cognitive ability has improved. But it is undeniable that their experience is limited and their eyes are really not as long-term as their parents. Those visionary parents who do not consider their children's cognitive level will only backfire in the process of educating their children.
2. As a parent, how should we help our children? In teaching
, it emphasizes the guidance of temptation.
stimulates children's inner motivation and enhances students' internal motivation to read and learn, so that teaching can be achieved twice the result with half the effort.
In fact, thousands of parents should also have such qualities.
From the perspective of parents, if you want your children to be able to actively learn, everyone should also master this skill. Seize the opportunity of family education and give children reasonable guidance.
When the child passes the "primary school to junior high school" exam and meets new challenges as a junior high school student, what methods can parents use to stimulate their enthusiasm for learning?
We can start from these perspectives.
1. Let children clarify what is the purpose of learning?
learning is not for parents.
But many students, even if they become junior high school students, still think that the purpose of their efforts is just to please their parents.
Obviously, this mentality will affect learning.
Even if the child is smart, his potential cannot be well discovered because of his lack of internal motivation.
From the perspective of parents, how can children understand the meaning of learning?
You may wish to let your children understand the charm of knowledge and the importance of learning through the details of life. Only by mastering scientific and cultural knowledge can children realize their dreams and grasp the direction of their lives.
In this way, stimulates children's desire for knowledge.
When the habit is formed, the child’s inner motivation will become continuous.
2. Inspire responsibility and let children do what they should do.
Life is like a journey.
In each stage, everyone has their own tasks.
Only by clarifying responsibilities can we grasp the present and be the best self.
As a junior high school student, the current task is to learn. For junior high school students, this is everyone's responsibility and responsibility, and it is the primary task that must be completed and cannot be avoided.
As a parent, in addition to letting your children know that learning is for themselves.
In the process of children's learning, parents can also be a supervisor, helping children clarify their responsibilities and know the consequences of laziness at critical times.
Of course, parents can also urge their children to be responsible through some agreed methods.
3. Learn to make plans and let children improve in practice.
Internal drive seems to be an internal driving force.
In many cases, it will be affected by objective factors. For example: When students make efforts and taste the sweetness of learning, they will further improve their internal motivation. If you don’t get anything after you give it, you will easily give up in disappointment.
Therefore, even if the child has the enthusiasm for active learning, he still needs help from his parents.
After all, everyone will be lazy and make mistakes in learning.
If you encounter setbacks, everyone will also feel the mentality of giving up.
In this case, parents need to help children summarize. Let children find learning methods that suit them in practice, find breakthroughs in grades, and even make failed summary.
Students make plans, which is only the first step to success.
Only by constantly tasting the sweetness in learning can everyone maintain their internal motivation and achieve breakthroughs in their grade books step by step in confidence.
Every parent hopes that the child will grow up.
And junior high school is exactly the time when students are extremely malleable.
I hope parents can understand their children's psychological characteristics, and when necessary, give them enough care and guidance to help their children get out of their psychological and learning confusion, and climb to the peak of their studies with proactive initiative.
