As the saying goes: If you don’t listen to the old man, you will suffer a loss in front of you.
Generally speaking, most parents hope that their children can go to college in the province, but in order to stay away from their parents' nagging and discipline, some children tend to go outside to see it. However, "ideals are happy, reality is skinny", and the result after impulse is often a slap in the face.
Jiangsu girls are not adapted to the Northeast environment: "I regret going to college outside the province"
There is a girl in Jiangsu who did not follow her parents' advice and chose a university in Nanjing. She insisted on applying for a university in Northeast China. She has less than a month since school started, and she has "regretted to go out of the province to go to school". She should have listened to her parents and went to a university in Nanjing.
One of the reason is that the climate difference is too big. The climate in my hometown in Jiangsu is warm, while the climate in Northeast China is much dry. Now her skin is obviously dry, so she needs to buy new skin care products to take care of.
The second is that there are big differences in eating habits. The food in the south is light, and the northeast is heavy with salt and oil. She "really can't eat the food in the canteen."
The third is that language habits vary greatly. The teacher used Northeast dialect and to teach her, and the Northeast classmates were very straightforward, and she couldn't get the "memories" they said, which made her look out of place.
However, regret is regretful, this girl is quite ambitious and insists on not dropping out of school.
As the saying goes: One place of water and soil nourishes another place of people. Going to college thousands of miles away from home is indeed a big test for many children, not only for girls, but also for boys.
The author has seen a boy from Xinjiang who was admitted to a " Double First-Class " university in Guangdong. He was a very strong man in the northwest. He had just one week to enter school and had prickly heat. He had been in the hospital for several days and had no improvement. He had to go home and recuperate for more than a month before returning to school. It was not until Guangdong turned cold and became dry, and he gradually recovered.
This matter also reminds us that when filling out college entrance examination applications, don’t just “want to go out and take a look” or get rid of the constraints of parents. You must first think about whether you can adapt. If you have the conditions, you can first "step on the spot" to understand the actual environment of the target university, and then make a decision. After all, our country has a vast land and a wealth of resources. The geographical, climate and cultural customs of different provinces may vary greatly. In some places, not everyone can adapt.
Of course, the sky is high and the birds fly, and the sea is wide and the fish leaps. It is also beneficial to study in other provinces. Living in a strange environment without parents is a very good training in life. At the beginning, you may have various discomforts, but when you adapt, it means that you have grown up and completed a new transformation in your life. Your thoughts and personality will become more mature and independent, and your adaptability will be greatly enhanced. You will not be afraid of graduating from the future and leaving society.
Generally speaking, when you go to college within and outside the province, you have your own advantages and disadvantages. How to choose should you make a decision based on your own situation and carefully considered.
