Haha, there is a joke on the Internet that the fewer words, the bigger the matter, do you know? Today I have completed an issue for you, but it is a bit of knowledge about the theme in the picture.
Give you two examples of relatives from hometown. Let me talk about A first. He scored more than 600 points in the college entrance examination and is now in college. I said that my aunt's children are more than the other, but my cousin didn't get more than 600 yuan in the exam. A's family atmosphere is not very harmonious. It is really amazing to be able to take the exam for more than 600 yuan. Many people think he is like a chosen son. Besides, the family atmosphere is not very good. I used to love studying. Later, my father kept buying snacks for me and didn’t pay attention to my spiritual needs. Now the child is going out to work, and he doesn’t even work hard. He goes home every few days.
From the above examples, is the family atmosphere important? A doesn't show much. His parents and grandfathers may not have tutored him. He can only rely on his own consciousness to study well. But it is very important to B. When B was young, everyone said that his brain was very useful and might be a good seedling when he grew up. However, due to his father's ignorance, the seedlings that everyone was optimistic about have not developed well now, which is very regrettable.
The old saying goes: dragons give birth to nine sons , each with different. Every child’s parenting model is different, and copying will definitely lead to a waste! However, laying a good foundation for a good family atmosphere, giving more affirmation to children, allowing them to grasp their own advantages, reduce the impact of their own disadvantages, respect hearing their children's voices, etc., and applying these measures to children is basically beneficial and harmless. We can’t just be so concerned about it just because our children are born to love learning. Children are not only our children, they are also independent individuals. I hope that parents in the future will pay more attention to their children's psychological development, so that every child can become an eagle soaring in the sky~
